Attracting My Wife - Help!

[Rubio]

I am facing a simlar problem as

the orginal poster and wanted to get some feedback.

My wife is 28 and I am 30. She suffers from depression

which does not make things any easier.

We live in Los Angeles (so you can guess the climate).

I had

ordered RM before I found the forum. THen after reading here I bought several products figuring that since I have

limited time to get the spark back that I should error on the side of caution.

So I also bought (thanks to this

thread) SOE, TE, A1 & A7.

Going to try tonight so wanted to get some mixing points.

I love the smell of RM

(everything just arrived). So I am wondering if I could do a RM, SOE, A1 mix? (as everything else is

unsecneted).

But like I said I have all of the above and limited time to try to get the spark back So I am

willing to do whatever it takes to save our marriage.

Anyway, great advice here so far, just looking for

something tailored to our ages and climate given the products that I ordered. So any advice such as how much to mix

(i'd rather mix on body then in a spray thing as I am not that skilled at measuring and what not lol) and what to

mix would be so greatly appreciated.

I know my problem is worse because depression is thrown into the mix and as

her psychiatrist told me, depressed people tend to push away people that mgiht make them happy, I know if we can at

least get a spark of intimacy back (derpression meds ahd a lot to do with it going away...) then we can work on

rebuilding. But without that spark I think she will just give up

So thanks in advance and I really do

appreciate it. Also thanks for being kind to the OP, I probably would have been afraid to post if not for the

posstive responses.

[nkotb]

Rubio,

A resource that I am

finding to be helpful is divorcebusting.com
Obviously, you have a very unique situation, but you may find help

there. I have hired a coach, but even if you don't, their forum is worth checking out. Like love-scent there is a

ton of good info and experience over there to learn from. Good Luck.

[idesign]

Good luck indeed Rubio, wish you

the best.

Thinking about you and nkotb there's really no advice to be given that's different from pheromone

advice to anyone: start small, experiment and observe. There's a lot of good info in this thread and should be a

good starting point for you. You have great products, all of which I've used with success.

I disagree ever so

slightly with Gegogi in that I've had good success with mones and 2 former GFs. Of course that's different than a

marriage, and we were never estranged. I absolutely agree with him, and others, about A1. I've used it with TE

with good results and based on tips in this thread will use it with A7 in the future.

As with anyone starting out

its best to use products alone before mixing to evaluate effectiveness of each product. With mixes the

possibilities are endless, and you need to know how each one works on its own.

One favorite mix: 1 drop A1

spread on arms with 4" SoE on each wrist and 2" on neck and a drop of TE spread around. I like to put the TE where

she will pick it up when things become intimate. I've also had good results from this leaving out the SoE, but it

helps break the ice and get her chatty. I apply it and let it settle on my skin, then cover with cologne or EO.