Hi Dahlia and welcome to the
forum,
That's a pretty difficult thing to answer. You probably do intimidate some men as most men think they
should be the only aggressive or ambitious ones. My little tiny wife does that to men all the time.
Slow down
when you are around him and be a little less powerful. I know its hard to do, my wife and I have both had to learn
to do that and I have the claw marks to prove it. Smile more and ask gentle, open ended questions. Get him to talk
about personal things and pay attention. Bump into him sometimes and reach out to touch him on the arm when you are
making a point or he makes a joke. You could even go so far as to invite him to coffee, dinner, drinks, the gym etc.
Do it as part of the conversation instead of just dropping it on him. "Oh, you like Indian food? Me too! I know this
great Indiian resturant and haven't been back in ages. Care to join me sometime? It's always better when you have
company for dinner." In other words, let down the guard a bit and let him know its alright to do the same.
For
mones, I think at first you should go very easy on them. Something like SoE unscented and covered with a nice
perfume. It would be best of it were something he's never smelled on you before.
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