I vote SOE. And I have to say, I
think it’s very sexual. I use it exclusively when I go on vacation (partly because the roll-top is so convenient and
customs agents don’t even bat an eye). And I had a LOT of success with it about three years ago — after my last gf
dumped me and before I met my current gf.
Part of the reason it got its “social mone” reputation may
be differences in body chemistry and communication styles. But another part may be misconceptions about female
behavior.
I’ve read many many posts about girls talking guys’ heads off. I don’t know about other guys because
I wasn’t there, but when a girl talks MY head off it usually means she’s really interested.
On the other hand,
blatant flirtation is often just an expression of feminine power. Women see something interesting in a guy (or maybe
they notice the guy has some interest in her) and they give him a sly smile, a seductive look... who knows, with
enough alcohol, they may even flash their boobs. But as soon as a guy reacts to it (like a drooling, Pavlovian dog)
they immediately lose interest.
It’s not that women play games. It’s almost a reflex. Social
conditioning.
Wearing Androstenone is a way of broadcasting your virility and I think many women respond
with the feminine flirtation reflex — whether there is real interest or not.
Just a hypothesis.
But
back to SOE... Many guys are afraid that wearing this will get them “stuck in the just friends zone”. The simple
solution to that is to use “kino” as soon as possible. I’ve said it many times — and I swear it’s true — SOE erases
personal boundaries. You CAN touch her arm, her hand, her thigh... I’ve even grabbed ass and gotten away with
it.
The only real “problem” that I’ve noticed with SOE is that it doesn’t hold women’s attention as well
as Androstenone.
Two ways of dealing with this:
a) add just enough TE/NPA to keep her focused, but
be aware that even the slightest bit of None could set up some personal space barriers
or b) keep the lady
amused and get her somewhere a little more private (even if it’s a slightly more private table in a crowded dance
club) as quickly as possible. After that, it’s all downhill.
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