The Rise, Fall, Subsequent Rise then Tearing Down

[bundyburger]

There\'s no easy way. The consequences can be frightful.

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...BUT, it\'s better than leading them on.

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[Elana]

Awwwww Steve...please don\'t feel bad. You are such a sweetheart. You had to do it. It would have

gotten so out of hand if she kept believing that there was something going on between you two.



Really......don\'t feel bad!!!

[Icarus]

Thanks E [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Crazy thing is, even though she stormed

out... she sent me a text at about 3am (when I was having a small crisis over something else) to tell me that

she\'d had a good time.

It\'s odd, it\'s odd, it\'s odd.

Steve

[bundyburger]

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Crazy thing is, even though she

stormed out... she sent me a text at about 3am (when I was having a small crisis over something else) to tell me

that she\'d had a good time.

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Erk!

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[Pancho1188]

Man, I don\'t want to scare you or anything, but prepare yourself for the worst if she\'s unstable

and not just majorly jonesing on you, man...if she claims that her life is ruined and it\'s all your fault or

something, you have to be ready to remind yourself that there\'s nothing you can do and it\'s just bad

circumstances.

This is just a warning in case something really bad happens to her...

.....

[DZorro]

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Man, I don\'t want to scare you or

anything, but prepare yourself for the worst if she\'s unstable and not just majorly jonesing on you, man...if she

claims that her life is ruined and it\'s all your fault or something, you have to be ready to remind yourself that

there\'s nothing you can do and it\'s just bad circumstances.

This is just a warning in case something really

bad happens to her...

.....

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Yes, and tell her to go see a

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DZorro,

[CptKipling]

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Ok... Ok....

Christybollox, but that

was messy.

In the endup, she stormed out.. Leaving a middle aged couple across from us looking on with a mixture

of bemusement and disgust.

I waited a little (out of courtesy) then told it to her straight.

Ouch, but did

that hurt the \'imaniceGUY!\' part of my subconscious.....

Give me hugs and stuff.. tell me I\'m not a

total Beeeastardo. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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Steve

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Chin

up Steve!

[Icarus]

she was trying to

phone me tonight, but I just let it ring out.

What\'s a guy gotta do... it\'s past a joke now. Any advice?

This is extreme.

Steve

[Holmes]

Hire a

bodyguard? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]



Holmes

[CptKipling]

Next time

you see her, flirt with the nearest guy.

On a more serious note (although you may want to just try out the

flirting thing...), I think you have a couple of options.

Firstly, ignor her and hope she goes away.

Secondly,

tell her even straighter than before. You have to think of yourself, you can only put yourself out emotionally for

someone else for so long.

Get very far away from her what whatever you chose.

[Elana]

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Hire a bodyguard?

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Holmes

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Stand back. I\'ll handle this.

[DZorro]

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she was trying to phone me tonight, but I just let

it ring out.

What\'s a guy gotta do... it\'s past a joke now. Any advice? This is extreme.

Steve



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Yes, this chick needs help.
What have you done to her, Icarus ???

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DZorro,

[EXIT63]

I suggest a

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[DZorro]

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she was trying to phone me tonight, but I just let

it ring out.

What\'s a guy gotta do... it\'s past a joke now. Any advice? This is extreme.

Steve



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Was she still trying to bug you this weekend, icarus

???


DZorro,

[Icarus]

A phonecall

(ignored) in the early hours of Sunday morning whilst I was still dancing.

Since then, nada.

Steve

[fran1]

what did you put

in your mix? Her reaction was with some mones that you mix?

[Icarus]

Nope. I rarely

wear pheromones anymore.

Steve