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    Ok

    guys,

    With the mones we get an instant attraction that creates a spark. But we need some gasoline to keep it

    going... so my query is what do you do to carry on a conversation with a woman, how do you seduce her, how do you

    charm her?

    The mones just get the door open for you, but don\'t make the sale -- you have to know how to act

    and how to talk.

    Pickup lines are lousy. Ross Jeffries Speed Seduction is for child molesters. Anyone know any

    good references for charming a woman from meeting her to bedding her?




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    Your

    best \"charm\" may come when you aren\'t talking. Most guys (especially myself) end up talking too much and in

    particular about themselves too much. Ask open-ended questions and then follow-up to her responses.

    This is

    something I\'ve improved on a lot over the past of couple years. Many guys get nervous and just start

    talking.

    Kind of reminds me of the BBC Show \"Coupling\" and the \"Man with two legs\" episode. If you

    haven\'t seen this show it is a must see. One of the main characters sits with a beautiful woman on a train and is

    so flustered by her beauty he says he has a wooden leg. This leads to all sorts of problems as she turns out to be

    the girl of his dreams etc. Good stuff.

    JDM

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    Hire a

    prostitute if you\'re just looking for sex. You\'ll get relief much faster and it will cost you less over

    time.

    Otherwise, try just listening. I agree with everything jamesdeanmartin says.

    The best way to meet a

    girl is to just say, \"Hi, what\'s your name?\" They know you\'re interested. If she doesn\'t answer, move

    on. If she doesn\'t ask your name in return, ask a couple more questions and see if she opens up. If she

    doesn\'t, move on.

    Act like you don\'t care. Some of them come back if they see you behaving yourself and

    start the conversation for you.

    Don\'t be negative. Don\'t be overbearing. Don\'t be rude.

    Don\'t

    try to impress anyone.

    Learn from your mistakes without agonizing over them. You\'ll make a lot of them.




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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />

    Learn from your mistakes without agonizing over

    them. You\'ll make a lot of them.


    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    i thinks thats a great

    advice for you. if you look at it like this you will always be positive and free when talking to a girl, cos

    you\'ll know you win anyhow. you either hit it or you\'ve learned something.


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    Great

    response guys. Any suggestions for questions to ask in particular?

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Hire a prostitute if you\'re just looking for

    sex. You\'ll get relief much faster and it will cost you less over time.

    Otherwise, try just listening. I

    agree with everything jamesdeanmartin says.

    The best way to meet a girl is to just say, \"Hi, what\'s your

    name?\" They know you\'re interested. If she doesn\'t answer, move on. If she doesn\'t ask your name in

    return, ask a couple more questions and see if she opens up. If she doesn\'t, move on.

    Act like you don\'t

    care. Some of them come back if they see you behaving yourself and start the conversation for you.

    Don\'t be

    negative. Don\'t be overbearing. Don\'t be rude.

    Don\'t try to impress anyone.

    Learn from your

    mistakes without agonizing over them. You\'ll make a lot of them.



    <hr /></blockquote><font

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    This is excellent advice. The goal is to develop a relationship. Asking open ended questions

    enables you to find out if you have something in common and helps to create a bond.

    Women enjoy sex as much as

    men, but unlike men they do not want to have sex with any old dog that comes along. The like to feel the

    connection, this is not bad, but it is the way it is. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Great response guys. Any suggestions for questions

    to ask in particular? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]


    <hr /></blockquote><font

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    Being interested in the girl and there life is more important than particular questions.



    Get past the usual surface questions like where are you from, what do you do, where do you live and ask

    questions that are a little deeper. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Great response guys. Any suggestions for questions

    to ask in particular? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]


    <hr /></blockquote><font

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    In a way thats a silly question, you should be trying to teach yourself to respond in any

    situation. There\'s no point in giving you lines, girls won\'t be reading from the same script.

    But to

    generalise, try to think of things that they would find interesting (or that you would find interesting to talk

    about), and make sure you can actually turn it into a conversation, so no dead end one liner\'s. You have to give

    her a reason to be interested, so be funny, be confident, be comfortable.

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    Pursue your

    life. Do not pursue women.

    Live.

    Guess what\'ll happen? You\'ll become interesting.

    Then

    you\'ll look at the guy standing at the bar all desperate and pensive with nothing but sympathy.

    \"That

    could have been me, had I made my main hobby trying to get laid. (let me emphasise TRYING) Poor

    Schmuk.\"

    Hope you\'ve been paying attention, because this\'ll all be in the exam.

    Steve



    Edit: After you get interesting, you\'ll find a good women. Didn\'t want to suggest that you would be

    standing there as an asexual. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    Icarus:

    Great words of wisdom.

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Pursue your life. Do not pursue

    women.

    Live.

    Guess what\'ll happen? You\'ll become interesting.

    Then you\'ll look at the guy

    standing at the bar all desperate and pensive with nothing but sympathy.



    \"That could have been me, had I

    made my main hobby trying to get laid. (let me emphasise TRYING) Poor Schmuk.\"



    Hope you\'ve been

    paying attention, because this\'ll all be in the exam.



    Steve

    Edit: After you get interesting,

    you\'ll find a good women. Didn\'t want to suggest that you be standing there as an asexual.

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    That\'s

    it.

    And don\'t forget the sunscreen.


    Holmes


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    Ham, beard,

    spacesuit....

    have I left anything out?

    Expose a breast at the superbowl, too.

    Steve

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    How to charm

    your catch? Club them over the head and drag \'em back to the cave.

    That\'s pretty effective.


    Holmes


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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    The like to feel the connection, this is not bad,

    but it is the way it is.

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> YES! Size matters

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    How to charm your catch? Club them over the head

    and drag \'em back to the cave.

    That\'s pretty effective.



    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    CHARM not harm [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]


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    I find \'how

    was your day?\' to be a great conversation opener, although obviously this only works in the bar environment at

    the end of the day ( I can\'t imagine meeting women anywhere else, so that\'s my focus atm ), as it\'s a very

    open question, and even if she responds with \'not good\' you can follow up, \'oh, why was that?\', likewise

    with \'it was good\'.

    In the resulting reply you\'ll learn something about her occupation and/or

    interests, then you can leapfrog your questions from there.

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Anyone know any good references for charming a

    woman from meeting her to bedding her?


    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    My favorite is \"How

    to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You\" by Leil Lowndes

    http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/08

    09229897


    My method is to do basically what it says in that book, and also to sort of tease the girl too. A

    combination of talking with them and paying a lot of attention, while occasionally teasing them or gently making fun

    of them.

    This seems to work well especially if the girl is really pretty because pretty girls are used to guys

    falling all over themselves to flatter them and find it interesting if you prove you aren\'t intimidated by

    treating them that way.


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    true true, never

    be intimidated by them, hot chicks get less sex than ugly ones, Why?
    1) guys are intimidated and don\'t make a

    move. hence they are more willing, if you play your cards right.
    2) Ugly chicks say yes alot because they will

    never know if they will have sex again.

    you got to be confident, and what i tell alot of young fellows, when they

    talk to the girl talk to her as just another person, not something you lust for, if they can get over that, its alot

    easier.

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    hot chicks get less sex than ugly ones, Why?



    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    Don\'t tell me you actually believe this?

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
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    hot chicks get less sex than ugly ones, Why?

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    Don\'t tell me you actually believe this?

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    class=\"post\">

    i dont know if thats true, but when i was 10 years younger i used to think evrytime i saw a hot

    chick, shes sooo hot she obviously has a bf, and didnt approach.

    probably i was also intimidated and thought,

    this hot girl will never go with me.

    today i always go hit with the cutest girl around

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

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    today i always go hit with the cutest girl around

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">That\'s not very

    nice! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img] Oh wait, you meant that you always go hit on the cutest girl

    around. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img] For a second I thought you were beating them up or

    something. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    </font><blockquote><font

    class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    today i always go hit with the cutest girl around

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">That\'s not very

    nice! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img] Oh wait, you meant that you always go hit on the cutest girl

    around. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img] For a second I thought you were beating them up or

    something. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    ok, make fun of

    my english [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] wanna speak some german

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]



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    There\'s a

    good quote from Red Dwarf. Something along the lines of \"don\'t treat the girl like something from a different

    planet you have to subdue by tricks, treat her like a normal human being\"

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    There\'s a good quote from Red Dwarf. Something

    along the lines of \"don\'t treat the girl like something from a different planet you have to subdue by tricks,

    treat her like a normal human being\"

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    a normal human being????

    now thats news to me [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    </font><blockquote><font

    class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    today i

    always go hit with the cutest girl around [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

    <hr

    /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">That\'s not very nice! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img] Oh

    wait, you meant that you always go hit on the cutest girl around. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

    For a second I thought you were beating them up or something. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    <hr

    /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">
    ok, make fun of my english

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] wanna speak some german

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]




    <hr

    /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> 9! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Besides, I slaughter my

    own language bad enough as it is. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    a normal human being???? now thats news to me

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    There\'s a good quote from Red Dwarf.

    <hr

    /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    I miss that show. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] I

    used to stay up till 2:00 AM to watch it on PBS.

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    hot chicks get less sex than ugly ones

    <hr

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    Pffffff.


    Holmes

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    If so,

    it\'s by choice. I know a few hot girls that are so sick of guys trying to pick them up purely based on their

    looks that they\'re turned off of sex. Mix that with the fact that less attractive girls may be more insecure and

    may be more easily pushed into having sex sooner, therefore having more sex than a woman who is confident enough to

    wait for the \"right time\".

    Those are a lot of \'if\'s, though...notice the underlying tone that if you

    have confidence in yourself all of this crap becomes meaningless.

    Overall, there are a lot of ins and outs, a lot

    of \'what have you\'s... The Dude does not stand for this!!! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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    The Dude!

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr

    />
    If so, it\'s by choice.

    <hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

    Exactly.


    Holmes

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