Mancho,
It is hard to say
without being there to see what is actually going on, but I do know that the so called \"cool guys\" will often
merely tolerate a quasi-member whom they don\'t really respect if he sucks up to them sufficiently. From my point
of view it seems a sad way of life. I would find other guys to hang out with. There are jerks and phonies at every
stratta of society. Up thru middle school I just fell in with my local crowd of goons, was always the low man on
the totem pole and hated it. I never realized life could be any different. Then one fine day, out of exhaustion I
drifted out of the pack and found a few good/real friends here and there.
Think quality not quantity and look for
folks who treat you with some respect. Just forget about the \"cool\" factor entirely and look for friends with
some sense of right and wrong. It might be a little tricky changing gears for a while, but I think you will find
there are plenty of nice women who are looking for a decent human being to hang out with. Remember, women tend to
mature faster than men, even if they don\'t always show it. They don\'t always fall for the jerk in the hair
gel. Be the decent human being who hangs with a couple of true friends and I bet you dollars to doughnuts
you\'ll get a great gf.
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