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I mostly think his mind is

too often elsewhere, his job is high stress lately [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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/></blockquote><font class=\"post\">Been there, apple. Once had an SO and I both experience this kinda thing due

to our jobs. Working long hours w/ lots of physical/mental stress and a tendency to \"bring our work home\"

caused a problem for both of us there for a while. We normally had a very active sex life, w/ the exception of this

particular phase in our professional lives. Communication is good, but don\'t put too much pressure on him.

Chances are that he\'s well aware of the issue, since you\'ve discussed it before. This will only compound his

mental stress and that isn\'t gonna help either. Do your best to be understanding and supportive. That\'s the

best advice I can give you.

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im hoping mones will

at least jump start his brain to go to the right direction: jumping ME! :P

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class=\"post\">Cops and nol certainly can\'t hurt, something like SOE/w . Perhaps consider some NPA/w, that

stuff gives me a nice rush also.