What works best for someone you're already with???

[OCP]

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I wanna see everyones pics!

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i might send normal pics to people, but sorry everyone im not

gonna take pics of me in that outfit [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] well i might but only me

and my BF can see them [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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The second you put it on there will be pictures taken.

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[OCP]

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http://cgi.ebay.c

om/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&amp;item=2885430174&amp;cat egory=4844
wow stuck in home and i got a nice outfit

while i sit here giving myself a manicure lol thanks huge Elana [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]



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This one is nice too. I wonder if you can get it in your size.

web page

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I would pay my wife to wear this stuff. All I get is sweatpants and a

sweatshirt. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

[OCP]

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My pleasure, apple. If that thing

doesn\'t work....trade your man in for a new and improved model.

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He is 25 and

already not interested......something is wrong and it is not Apple!

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[Elana]

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I would pay my wife to

wear this stuff. All I get is sweatpants and a sweatshirt.

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That

sucks for you. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[OCP]

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Yeah I wouldnt mind seeing apple in that =)

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what am I, chopped liver? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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I am not picky, I want to see both of you in it.

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[OCP]

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I would pay my wife to wear this stuff. All I get is sweatpants and a

sweatshirt.

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That sucks for you.

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She does

too.......that is why I put up with the sweats.... [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

[CJ01]

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I would pay my wife to wear this

stuff. All I get is sweatpants and a sweatshirt.

<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> OCP, have you

tried dressing up for her? She might do the same in return [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]



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He is 25 and already not interested......something

is wrong and it is not Apple!

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[OCP]

<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> OCP, have you tried dressing up for her? She might do

the same in return [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

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Hmmm! Never even crossed my simple little mind. Maybe some crotchless panties?

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[Elana]

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Hmmm! Never

even crossed my simple little mind. Maybe some crotchless panties? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]



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Or some chaps and a cowboy hat

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[CJ01]

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Maybe some crotchless panties?



<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">ouch!! No, get something MANLY no tanga g-strings sh*te!

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] Those are just gross man UGH PUKE !!

[apple]

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He is 25 and already not interested......something is wrong and it is not

Apple!

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yeppers stress stress and more stress can be something wrong! until i find that eliminated, or

physical issues, im not gonna be negative and think its something really wrong

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] this valentines day should be really good tho

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] ill have EW or PCC (still debating) and my newbie kit and all the

sexy stuff i got from ebay [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Elana]

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He is 25

and already not interested......something is wrong and it is not Apple!

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yeppers stress stress and more

stress can be something wrong! until i find that eliminated, or physical issues, im not gonna be negative and think

its something really wrong [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] this valentines day should be really

good tho [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] ill have EW or PCC (still debating) and my newbie kit and

all the sexy stuff i got from ebay [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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Apple...how often do you two see each other?

[CJ01]

what does he actually do all day that makes him so stressed out? I mean sex can be a great way of

relieving stress. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[Elana]

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what does he actually do all

day that makes him so stressed out? I mean sex can be a great way of relieving stress.

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I was just

about to ask that. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Sexyredhead]

Maybe he\'s a porn star.

[apple]

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Apple...how often do you two

see each other?


<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> i see him once or twice a week only, hes been

forced to work weekends alot lately. (and dont go assuming hes off cheating like alot of people might, im chatting

with him on msn when hes at work) [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]
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what does he actually do all day that makes him so stressed out? I mean sex

can be a great way of relieving stress. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

<hr

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other crap that ive heard a million times but never understand [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

the basics are he does the job of three of him all the time, safety is an issue with the cars in what he does and

its all complicated lol and the way he goes on about it and how easily i get lost with what hes saying i understand

why he gets stressed over it. Im not a dull bulb and my brain wants to pop with what he does at work.

and in

responce to a way earlier post, when hes 50 hopefully he\'ll own his own business and itll be settled by then so

he will be relaxed and have time for vacations to nice hot exotic places with fruity drinks and tops optional

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[Elana]

This doesn\'t sound good. You guys are still in the stages when you should be ripping each

others clothes off as soon as you walk in the door. Especially if you only see each other once or twice a week.

There is no excuse for a 25 year old man not to want to have sex with the woman he loves. You are making great

efforts to turn him on and get him in the mood. That\'s very cool of you. There is only so much you can do. If

this doesn\'t work, then you really need to think about other options. It\'s just not fair to you.

[bjf]

I think she actually likes the guy

[Elana]

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I think she actually likes

the guy

<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">Ya think? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]



That\'s certainly stating the obvious.

I am questioning how he feels about her.

[Elana]

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Maybe he\'s a porn star.



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Ah hah! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
That

would explain things. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[bjf]

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I think she actually likes the guy

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That\'s certainly stating

the obvious.

I am questioning how he feels about her.

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So if you knew that he cared about her and the lack of sex didn\'t have to do with her,

but rather was more of a libido problem on his part (ie wouldn\'t get in the mood for pam anderson), would you

still say she pursue other options?

[EXIT63]

yes

[apple]

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So if you knew that he cared

about her and the lack of sex didn\'t have to do with her, but rather was more of a libido problem on his part (ie

wouldn\'t get in the mood for pam anderson), would you still say she pursue other options?</font><blockquote><font

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yes

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its very possibly that it is a libido problem. and i totally disagree on

the pursue other options if that means leaving him due to that.. ill just have to love my shower more

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] or get him to go to a doctor. I know how he feels about me and

yeah i really care about him! if the mones work then WOOHOO ill give lots of fun details lol still waiting on them

tho, in another country and didnt dish out the extra $ on fast delivery so it might be a wee bit

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[Gossamer_2701]

Well we can all see just how faithful Apple is to their relationship

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img], but how long do you think he would remain in the relationship or

at least remain faithful if their roles were reversed and it was Apple who was too \'stressed\' or \'tired\'

to keep him sexually happy [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

Just food for thought

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Goss

[Pancho1188]

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Well we can all see just how

faithful Apple is to their relationship [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img], but how long do you think

he would remain in the relationship or at least remain faithful if their roles were reversed and it was Apple who

was too \'stressed\' or \'tired\' to keep him sexually happy

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Just food for thought

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Goss

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A lot

of men wait it out for years. It\'s called marriage.


Ouch.

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Pancho

[Elana]

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So if you knew that he

cared about her and the lack of sex didn\'t have to do with her, but rather was more of a libido problem on his

part (ie wouldn\'t get in the mood for pam anderson), would you still say she pursue other options?


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She is 20 years old. There are plenty of men that can \"care\" about

her. She deserves a man that CRAVES her.

[Skyy]

I crave apples from time to time

[apple]

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She is 20 years old. There are plenty

of men that can \"care\" about her. She deserves a man that CRAVES her.

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thats true for sure, but im very picky with my men when it comes to smarts and attitudes, and

trust me VERY few fit my requirments, but ive only met one lol and im with him. Im sure there are others, but never

met any. I am young, so if it doesnt work out i can accept it and move on, but it does work right now so im not

gonna throw away a great package when only one thing doesnt work the best. Im still gonna try and fix that one

thing, so for now ill be patient [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Icarus]

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ive only met one lol

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I\'ve never met a Lol. Are they like gnomes? Are they edible? How

far can I push this already threadbare \'joke\'?

He\'s not into Mambo, yet he\'s only

25?

Without sounding harsh, you may want to consider locating another Lol. There are few men at 25 that dont

wanna make mambo, but they\'re called Sofas.

Sofa so good. ahah.

Steve

[Elana]

You go girl. I hope it works out. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]