My wife's married, but I'm not....

[Icarus]

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Whiskey dick

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The rather ill-fated detective series on HBO.

I\'m of the

opinion that it doesn\'t HAVE to be *wild* all the time (but it still can be occasionally) when the

relationship gets to that stage; but this is replaced with comfort, familiarity and all-round well-honed

quality.

Meh.

Steve

[Holmes]

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The rather

ill-fated detective series on HBO.


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A Rebus

spinoff, with lots of drunken ho-slapping.

Too bad it was cancelled.


Holmes

[OCP]

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I\'m of

the opinion that it doesn\'t HAVE to be *wild* all the time (but it still can be occasionally) when the

relationship gets to that stage; but this is replaced with comfort, familiarity and all-round well-honed

quality.

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[CJ01]

I agree, I mean sex can´t be `wild´everytime and doesn´t have to be, even in the beginning, but it can still be

intense and intimate and erotic somehow right? I mean there´s couples out there who manage, right?



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If you really care for your spouse you will

not cheat.


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Yes, plus I reckon that people who are cheating and

lying and so on, just have no respect for their partners!
Falling in love with someone else is not a crime, but if

it results in total betrayal, and lying and all that crap, it´s just not disrespectful and insulting, it also shows

that a person has been together with a spineless *§($$/%* .
And to me it makes no difference whether 2 people are

married by law or not, it´s about commitment. Being married or not makes no difference. And there´s always that

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The least one can

do is to be honest....
.... and get another glas of that great new wine you´re just trying out

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I agree, I mean sex can´t be

`wild´everytime and doesn´t have to be, even in the beginning, but it can still be intense and intimate and erotic

somehow right? I mean there´s couples out there who manage, right?



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My own experience is that sex gets better the longer you are involved with somebody. You

understand their likes and disliikes better and learn what really excites them and they learn the same about you.

That is assuming both parties make an effort to to please the other person.

[CJ01]

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and that´s why us women know that a guy who keeps sleeping

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well, a lot of women realize that I suppose. Guys like that are only after their own satisfaction and don´t really

make much of an effort. They may be good at getting women into bed but once there - they make lousy lovers !!!

There´s some women like that too though. Beats me.

The thing with `long term´is that some may think of a year as

longterm and others 5 years plus.

But when the time comes to break up, it comes and ( should) happen. I mean

there´s no point keeping it for pretence.

I went out with a guy once who was just divorced/separated from his

wife and they were just great friends after they split up. A clean break´s always the best thing. Sadly it doesn´t

always happen.

My god, that new wine´s really good! 13 % too, phew

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[Lucky]

There are lots of forms of cheating in marriage, not all adulterous. When a loving spouse is purposely

cheated of kindness, attention and affection, just because the controlling spouse CAN - the pain is much worse than

adultery. Been both places, give me the adultery any day...at least there\'s a reason for the pain.

[Whitehall]

\"Cheating\" can be the deliberate or negligent withholding of physical affection, usually as a power play within

the relationship. Divorce is not the only, or usually the best, answer.

Found an interesting book on the

subject: \"The Fifty Mile Rule.\"

[Holmes]

Good

book.


Holmes

[belgareth]

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\"Cheating\" can be the deliberate or negligent

withholding of physical affection, usually as a power play within the relationship. Divorce is not the only, or

usually the best, answer.

Found an interesting book on the subject: \"The Fifty Mile Rule.\"

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I don\'t think that could be called cheating but it is cruel.