Do men prefer nice or trashy women?

[Icarus]

But is it art?

[Sacogoo]

WonderingThoughts writes:
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Which kind of woman do

you prefer? Nice or Trash?

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In my long term relationships, and for

most of the short ones, my girlfriends/wife tend to be in the following category:

5\'7\" to 5\'8\"

120

lbs.

Brown Hair that is a little longer than shoulder length

Brown Eyes

Long Legs

Great Hips

Great

Butt

Nose just a tad bigger than normal

Very good teeth

Longish, slim neck

Confident in themselves, but

not arrogant

Not overtly aggressive sexually, although they enjoy sex and are open to slight

experimentation

They would be generally defined as \"Nice\" women, versus \"Trash.\" But again, one man\'s

trash is another man\'s treasure. Trash and nice are all in the eyes of the beholder.



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What kind of man do you consider yourself? Nice or

Trash?

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I\'m a nice guy. I dress conservative casual (my

wardrobe looks like an Eddie Bauer or LL Bean catalog for the most part). I don\'t own or wear much black. I

open doors for my wife (and dates when I was single), buy flowers and gifts out of the blue, do housework, drive a

Subaru Outback, etc. However, if Carmen Electra walked by in a halter top and hot pants, I\'d probably break my

neck trying to check her out and complain about (and secretly wish I was) the burner slob in the wife beater tank

top and leather pants driving the \'66 Chevelle that she was going home with that night. I could be the guy that

changes her from the visual slut to a Anne Klein bedecked suburban bisquit. (It won\'t happen, but even

\"nice\" guys think about \"trash\" being hot.)

Basically, most guys like \"Trash\" until they have to date

or marry it, and then they want it \"Nice.\"

[Holmes]

I\'d always taken \"trashy\" to mean \"indiscriminate\" or \"will have sex with anyone and

everyone.\"

Carmen Electra is a sled hound.


Holmes

[CJ01]

Perhaps we tend to believe that `nice´partners are more faithful compared to `trashy´ones. Not sure this theory

can be seen as a thumb rule though.

[Sacogoo]

I

think that we\'re confusing \"slutty\" with \"trashy.\"

Trashy for women is loud, obnoxious clothes,

Jersey girl big hair, too much of the wrong makeup, Bon Jovi cranked up in the car, bad perfume, pleather

mini-skirts, spandex tight shirts, and animal print underwear.

Trashy for men is wearing a wifebeater/tanktop

anywear (yes, the gym is included unless you are competitive bodybuilder needing to look at each individual muscle

striation - nobody, and I mean nobody, wants to see your goddamn sweaty pit hair), a mullet haircut (unless

you\'re a hockey player), you drive a Trans-Am, you refer to women as \"a great piece of ass and/or meat\", you

have posters of any classic rock band (particularly Led Zeppelin or AC/DC) or a girl in a bikini in your room or

garage, you\'ve worn jeans to a wedding or a funeral, and you have watched a Nascar race on TV more than

once.

Slutty, for both sexes, means you have a strange wang in your mouth or boob in your hand every other

day.

Just because one is \"trashy\" doesn\'t mean that they are morally decrepit.

The original poster

probably meant - Do men prefer a wanton or a virtuous woman?

And I think that has more to do with if they really

want to get laid or not. Or do they have the creativeness necessary to maintain a woman\'s or man\'s virtue

while still providing carnal pleasure to both individuals?

[Holmes]

You\'re right, Sacogoo. Points well taken. Ya had me at \"big hair.\"

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Holmes

[Elana]

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And I think that has more to do with if they really

want to get laid or not. Or do they have the creativeness necessary to maintain a woman\'s or man\'s virtue

while still providing carnal pleasure to both individuals?

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If

that is what the original poster meant, and every man answered honestly, I am pretty sure that at least 98% would

want the \"trashy\" chick. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[tallmacky]

100%

[WonderingThoughts]

Sacogoo, you seem to be a very special person. It is so good to hear that you have a good wife and

you are faithful to her. Looking and thinking are much different than actually doing.

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[DrSmellThis]

Better take muh wife beaters and Zep shirts back to Goodwill, then. There\'s a great piece of ass workin\' at

the register.

[Sexyredhead]

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Better take muh wife beaters and Zep

shirts back to Goodwill, then. There\'s a great piece of ass workin\' at the register.

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Thanks! I didn\'t think you\'d noticed.

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mullet look on you, babycakes. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Sacogoo]

WonderingThoughts writes:
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Sacogoo, you seem to

be a very special person. It is so good to hear that you have a good wife...

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Hey, nobody said that I had a good wife. I just stated that she is one in a long line of near

identicals that I have dated since I was 15 years old. Good? Hah! She\'s a domineering, oppressive nag who has

been my personal albatross for a decade. I\'m beginning to think that not selling her into the white slave trade

a couple of years ago when I had the chance was a big mistake.

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...and you are faithful to her. Looking and thinking are much different than

actually doing.

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Don\'t get me wrong. I\'m a complete sexual

pig. I\'m just smart (or stupid) enough to feel the need to honor my commitment (sentence of death) that I made

nine years ago by not putting myself in a situation where I would be tempted to break that commitment. God knows

that if I were offered and it was a definite trade up, I\'d more than likely be a naked, sweaty, carnally

satisfied mess.

[Elana]

Doh! Sacogoo just went from nice to trashy in the blink of an eye.

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Sacogoo...I love your honesty.

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[EXIT63]

Yo

Cuz.....Whut the Fuk ah you tawkin about. You say 1 more word about Jersey girls and ahm gonna rip your fukin head

off and sh!t down ya neck! Got it! ya fukin pr!ck!

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[Holmes]

Thaaaaat\'s right, Jerky!


Holmes

[Sacogoo]

Elana writes:
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Sacogoo...I love your honesty.



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That\'s weird. Usually, I\'m a compulsive liar despised by

many. (Or maybe I\'m not. Hmmmm.)

Actually, that\'s why I just absolutely adore this board. Most people

here are extremely honest and open, and are also quite intelligent. My favorite place on the internet (with my

favorite person on the internet).

Now listening to: My Bloody Valentine\'s \"Loveless\"

[Holmes]

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Now listening to: My Bloody Valentine\'s

\"Loveless\"

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Ah yes. Never fails to get the romantic fires burnin\'.


Holmes

[Sacogoo]

WonderingThoughts writes:
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The trashy person to

me is someone who will have sex with multiple people.

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Ah,

memories. Reminds me of the time when I was single, was fit and slim, had great hair and was at my favorite Kansas

City meat market bar one Friday evening. Some girl came up to me and said that it was her friends birthday and she

wanted me as her present. Obviously, you can\'t deny an attractive girl her birthday wish, so I said okey dokey.

Ends up there were eight of them, and they had a limo with a fully stocked bar rented for the evening. One of my

friends asked if the rest of them (meaning my friends) could come along/were also invited, and they were told

bluntly - no. (Cracked me up as I was the one driving that night, but there was no way in hell I was going to turn

this down. Take a freakin\' cab boys! Ooooh Daddy!) Anyway, it was me and eight wasted girls in the back of the

limo, and then back to their apartment. Woke up with five of them and I sharing a bed. I don\'t remember what

happened to the other three. Oh well.

Anyway, I digress. Multiple partners = trashy? Was that meaning multiple

partners at one time, or just over the course of a specific time frame? I guess I\'m pretty much screwed as far

as not being trashy then.

[Brian]

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I guess I\'m pretty much screwed as far as not

being trashy then.

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Your a male slut. You do us guys proud!

Every guys dream, multiple women at the same time. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

Being a

male slut makes you a very shallow person though. You\'ve got to be shy to be considered a deep person. I read

that somewhere, on one of these threads. May have been this one. Too lazy too go back and look. Pretty asinine huh!

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Brian

[Kari]

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WonderingThoughts writes:


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The trashy person to me is someone who will have

sex with multiple people.

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Ah, memories. Reminds me of the time

when I was single, was fit and slim, had great hair and was at my favorite Kansas City meat market bar one Friday

evening. Some girl came up to me and said that it was her friends birthday and she wanted me as her present.

Obviously, you can\'t deny an attractive girl her birthday wish, so I said okey dokey. Ends up there were eight

of them, and they had a limo with a fully stocked bar rented for the evening. One of my friends asked if the rest

of them (meaning my friends) could come along/were also invited, and they were told bluntly - no. (Cracked me up as

I was the one driving that night, but there was no way in hell I was going to turn this down. Take a freakin\'

cab boys! Ooooh Daddy!) Anyway, it was me and eight wasted girls in the back of the limo, and then back to their

apartment. Woke up with five of them and I sharing a bed. I don\'t remember what happened to the other three.

Oh well.

Anyway, I digress. Multiple partners = trashy? Was that meaning multiple partners at one time, or just

over the course of a specific time frame? I guess I\'m pretty much screwed as far as not being trashy then.



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DEFINATELY a male slut! Carelessly and wantonly used as a mere,

mindless sex toy by eight carnally exploitive women. Ravished within an inch (or eight) of your life. Body used and

abused for hours.

Bet is was utter hell. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

Though, I\'ve

never met a man who can handle more than one woman, and do a good job of it... much less eight.

[Brian]

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Though, I\'ve never met a man who can handle more

than one woman, and do a good job of it... much less eight.

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Damn

fun trying though! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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Brian

[Kari]

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Though, I\'ve never met a man who can handle more than one woman, and do a

good job of it... much less eight.

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Damn fun trying though!

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Brian

Especially since there\'s more than one option. I

mean, if ONE body part wears out, one can improvise with others.....




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[Sacogoo]

Kari writes:
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DEFINATELY a male slut! Carelessly

and wantonly used as a mere, mindless sex toy by eight carnally exploitive women.

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I just thought that I was going to be the birthday girls present - not woman handled by eight

inebriated ladies. I have to admit that I was a little shocked when the second one started to, well, you know, and

then they all seemed, ummm, interested in doing things. Oh, Christ, I am a slut! Does one little \"experiment\"

one evening really make me a slut? What was I to say? No? Perhaps a more pious man would have, but I figured what

the hell and chalk it up to memories, and I figured that at the very end, that\'s all you got.



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Though, I\'ve never met a man who can handle more

than one woman, and do a good job of it... much less eight.

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Actually, I think that only three of them went to the, ummm, ultimate extreme of carnality. However, even so, I

do have to admit that I had help that evening. If it weren\'t for Mr. Jim Beam I probably never would have

survived the experience. There\'s much to be said for the use of alcohol as a prolonging device. Got to know

where to draw the line though, and a fine line it is.

Eight inches. Yeah. Right. Who do you think I am?

Whitehall?

[Whitehall]

Don\'t get me involved in your little tale of debauchery!

I have the self-control to limit myself to two at a

time.

And I never, never said anything about 8 inches. I\'m not a braggart, just an honest reporter of the

facts.

[Holmes]

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I have the self-control to limit myself to two at a

time.

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[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] Talk about

discipline! You\'re a bloody monk,

Whitehall!

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Holmes

[Sacogoo]

Whitehall writes:
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And I never, never said

anything about 8 inches. I\'m not a braggart, just an honest reporter of the facts.

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I just figured that you were at 8 by now (circumferance, length, whatever) with the daily

dosing of A-Derm. Was 8 too conservative? My sincerest apologies if I sold you short.

[Sagacious1420]

Hey Sacagoo-

Were you down in Westport? The Hurricane or maybe Buzzard Beach?

[Sacogoo]

Saggy writes:
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Hey Sacagoo-

Were you down in

Westport? The Hurricane or maybe Buzzard Beach?

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You know it

brother! However, Buzzard Beach sucks. The Hurricane still rates as the best bar in the entire Midwest. It was my

personal bar of choice/near nightly hangout, even though I was driving in from Overland Park. Smoked chronic in the

basement. Crap, smoked chronic on the dance floor a couple of times. Got locked in once I was so drunk. Caught

311 there for a killer show.

[Mtnjim]

\"Smoked chronic...\"

Pardon my ignorence, is this a mid-west term?

A 20something term or??

Could

someone translate it?

Thanks

[Holmes]

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\"Smoked chronic...\"

Pardon my ignorence, is

this a mid-west term?

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Didn\'t you ever listen to Dr. Dre, Jim?

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Holmes