Do men prefer nice or trashy women?

[WonderingThoughts]

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i prefer nice women and true and

faithful to their parthner. but 1st of all, i must be that kind of person before i expect her to be!

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Very well said Bernard!! We do tend to attract the type of people that we

are.

[Holmes]

But often we seek those who are the opposite.


Holmes

[WonderingThoughts]

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Wonderingthoughts- It is a very, very

bad idea to put labels on people. You want to act like you have everyone pegged, but your socializing skills here

show that it is only harming you. You should stop acting so self riotous

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Elan, it appears that I have said something to offend you again. Whatever it was I am very

sorry. And if I appear to be self- righteous then I am very sorry for that too. I never meant to offend anyone by

my comments. In fact it\'s only you that seems to that take offence to my comments. Interesting!!!!

[tallmacky]

damn girl. you really do have trouble understanding people if you think Elana is the only person you offended.

[WonderingThoughts]

tallmacky, how have I offend you? Please tell me so I will not offend anyone else.

Thanks

[Brian]

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In fact it\'s only you that seems to that take

offence to my comments. Interesting!!!!

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No! You\'ve seemed to

have done that to a few people here not just Elana. Myself for one, SSG, doesn\'t seem to be real happy with your

posts, another girl (can\'t recall her username) asked if you were serious, about something you posted on one of

your other threads. The patronizing way that you have presented yourself in your posts is not very appealing.

It\'s not only Elana that your pissing off here. There are others as well. You can put my name on that

list.

Brian

[tallmacky]

you are very disingenuous and transparent. you pretend to apologize for offending people to make yourself look like

this nice innocent and gentle person when really its all about you trying to create this fake image of yourself.

people here see right through you.

[WonderingThoughts]

Brian, I did not realize that anyone would consider me as \"patronizing\"!!! Sorry that I came off

like that. I never thought anyone would take my comments that way. I never meant them to anyway. I will watch out

for this behavior in the future.

It is interesting that in real life no one has ever told me that before. They

always say the total opposite to me about how down to earth and humble I am.

Thanks for the insight. I will

analyze my post to see where I have went wrong.

[tallmacky]

how nice of you to give an example of what I just said [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[WonderingThoughts]

tallmacky, I am not a \"disingenuous\" person. This is how I am. If I know that I have hurt or

offended someone I try my best to apologize and not hurt or offend them again. This is not a \"fake\" image.

This is how I live my life. I make my life as peaceful as possible. And hurting others and offending others does

not give me that inner peace. And I am a very gentle person. Would you prefer me to change and not try to correct

mistakes I have made in my life? I am the one that has to live with me. And at night when I lay down to sleep I

have no bad conscience to keep me awake. Because I know I have tried my best to be the best person I can be.

Excuse me if that makes me unlikable in this forum!

[Elana]

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Excuse me if that makes me unlikable in this forum!




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OK, you are excused. See ya

[belgareth]

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A woman should know how to take care of her man in

the bedroom. Every woman should have these skills. But having this knowledge don\'t make a woman either a nice

person or a trashy person.



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A lot of women can take care of

their man in the bedroom, that\'s not what I am talking about. There is a world of difference between taking care

of a man (or woman) and being a truly great lover. A lot has to do with empathy and a lot is the pure pleasure in

sharing and giving pleasure.

[WonderingThoughts]

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A woman should know how to take care of her man in the bedroom. Every woman

should have these skills. But having this knowledge don\'t make a woman either a nice person or a trashy

person.



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A lot of women can take care of their man in the

bedroom, that\'s not what I am talking about. There is a world of difference between taking care of a man (or

woman) and being a truly great lover. A lot has to do with empathy and a lot is the pure pleasure in sharing and

giving pleasure.

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and to add to this pleasure the genuine love

between of the two people makes the experience very special.

[SweetSeduceGurl]

Nice people ... who would never, ever hurt anyone\'s feelings ... often just don\'t have the

courage to come out and say what they think, and instead make thinly veiled insults and accusations, such as the

implication that Elana is not who she portrays herself to be on the internet ...

Nice people are often so full

of repressed rage that it just makes them passive aggressive, so that while you think you have a friend, in reality,

that friend is choking on resentment from things you\'ve done that you\'re not even aware of, and just waiting

to dump on you when the opportunity presents itself.

[DrSmellThis]

Sluts!

[DrSmellThis]

Sweeties!

[Brian]

SSG,

You are quickly becoming my favorite L-S gal. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

Brian

[DrSmellThis]

OK. Really, I prefer the kind who will love me for who I am, whatever that means for her other qualities.

[Elana]

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SSG,

You are quickly becoming my favorite L-S

gal. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

Brian

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Ouch, Brian I am crushed! Am I not shy enough for you?

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SSG another great one!

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[OmnipotentOne]

In resposnse to the original question. YES!

[Brian]

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[Brian]

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Ouch, Brian I am crushed! Am I not shy enough for

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That\'s Why I said becoming my favorite L-S gal. If not for you, she would win hands

down. Careful Elana, you and SSG, are running neck, &amp; neck. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] Shy? I hope not.

I don\'t like them shy deep people! I prefer the outgoing shallow ones!

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[Sagacious1420]

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What screams at me is that you are SO

insincere. Your insincerity misleads people, and is, in effect, a lie. You think being kind means being insincere.

There had to have been something between the guy you mentioned that supposedly offered you a wedding ring -- a lot

of insincere behavior toward a guy that you had no interest in. It is more kind to be honest and direct about your

feelings. What is more kind is to have integrity? A person of either sex that has integrity has \"class\" and

gets respect. A person with integrity doesn\'t send mixed messages. People feel secure around this type of

person because there is never a question about where anyone stands. What makes a person of either sex desirable is

their ability to shine, to be who they really are. If who you are is someone more concerned with being \"nice\"

than being honest, people may like you but they won\'t trust you.

Women with integrity of this sort who are

also healthy and enjoy their bodies also enjoy sex and make no secret of it. This does not make them \"trashy.\"



Some men are hung up on the nice girl/bad girl thing -- and nice girls are certainly the girls that those men

marry ... and then cheat on. They have affairs with women who are upfront about their own sexuality and

appreciative of men\'s sexuality. In the long run, you are apt to find greater happiness with a woman who has a

healthy enjoyment of sex and is able to express that, rather than with one who fakes her responses to the point of

misleading men into thinking that they mean something to her when they don\'t.

It\'s shocking to hear a

woman so unenlightened as to express approval of the Madonna/Whore syndrome. Just as men are not dogs because they

love sex, neither are women who love sex \"trashy.\"


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SSG-

WOW! Excellent post, indeed! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Introverted/extroverted...sexually repressed/sexually liberated...whatever...SSG gets straight to the heart of the

matter... integrity . [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] What a concept!

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Awesome to see another intelligent, articulate and insightful

woman (of integrity) posting on the forum. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] Welcome aboard!

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[Whitehall]

So the question is,

chose between two mutually exclusive two states, both of which are vague and abstract, concerning half the human

race.

And make your choice at this instant in time.

But yes, \"classy\" women can be powerfully sexy and

\"trashy\" women can be completely repungnant.

[DZorro]

Actually i like

them both [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] So there won\'t be matter of choice for me

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DZorro,

[Icarus]

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Or are there other types I haven\'t

considered?

I think that covers the gamut...

Steve

[Elana]

Excellent poll

Ssssssst! I think you covered the entire range of what a man is all about.

[Icarus]

Thanks, I thought

it was pretty comprehensive...

(or should I have included a section about mother issues?)

A

complex beast, the ManBeast. Approach with caution. And salty snacks.

Steve

[Icarus]

Also beer.

[Elana]

It wouldn\'t make

sense to include any other choices. It\'s either one or the other. Duh!

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