Damsel in Distress!! Help me men!!!

[Holmes]

LOL. Great stuff.

\"I\'m...steeped in gay-ness.\"


Holmes

[Ash]

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\"I\'m...steeped in gay-ness.\"


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Hmmmmm......?????

[WonderingThoughts]

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1. You probably made him jealous.



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This could be true. He does become more withdrawn after I talk

to other men. But I work in an office where 75 percent of the workers are men.

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2. Your not giving him enough attention.

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Of course I don\'t when he is acting cold toward me. I think I give him plenty of attention

when he is flirty with me.

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3. He feels like he

likes you more than you like him.

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[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] I like this one!!

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4. Your not complementing him enough.

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I don\'t every day but he does like me giving him complements but I also want him to

complement me.

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5. He thinks that the

relationship will go nowhere anyways.

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Bingo!!! I think this

could be the key to understanding him. He did ask me out once but I said no. But it was before I got to know him.

Also, he has seen me turn down dates with other men.

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6. Your both taking things too fast.

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Maybe in other relationships this would be true but not this one. I think we are going way to

slow.

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7. He has low self esteem and thinks that

he is not good enough for you.

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He could have some self esteem

issues. He is highly intelligent but as for as physical looks he is not a 10 and he knows it.



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8. He\'s interested in another woman.

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Could be but I have not seen any evidence that he is interested in other

men.


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The reason that they come back is that

they start getting interested in you again but forget what made him want to get as far away from you as possible in

the first place... but when the issue comes up again the cycle starts all over again.

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so that is what is going on with men.

Thanks for the insight you helped to understand a

little more about the complexities of male mind.

[Pancho1188]

Okay, WT. This is it. I hope you\'re paying attention because I will give you some major insight

into the male psyche. In fact, this should go into the women\'s forum. I\'ve watch many clips of this movie in

my psychology class and it represents a lot of what men think. Watch the movie Beautiful Girls. It is a

great film about men\'s battle between the ideals of society and the reality that all people must face. It is a

comedy, but there are so many aspects that apply to real life. If anyone else has seen this movie and believes that

this is true, please back me up on this one. In the movie, all but one man make a positive adjustment towards

relationships with women. The one who doesn\'t is obsessed with supermodels and unattainable women. Okay, no

more talk. See this movie!!!

[Ash]

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Also, he has seen me turn down dates with other

men.


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Maybe he thinks your gay.

[Sacogoo]

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Maybe he thinks your gay.

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Maybe he is a manipulative, borderline meglomanical ball sack that enjoys

jerking you around because he knows he can because he knows that you are completely infatuated with him.

Or,

maybe he is a borderline schizophrenic.

However, my bet is on the manipulative ball sack.

[Phantom]

You guys have problems [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img] lol

[Pancho1188]

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However, my bet is on the

manipulative ball sack.

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That sounds kind of cool. How do you go

about becoming one of those? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] J/K.

[CptKipling]

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You guys have problems

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/ooo.gif[/img] lol

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I knew he

wasnt dead.

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[Elana]

I

think he missed me [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[cuddlebear]

Phantom, if I remember right, you owe Elana something *clears throat*

[Elana]

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Phantom, if I remember right, you owe Elana

something *clears throat*

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Thank you, thank you, thank you

Cuddlebear! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[WonderingThoughts]

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Watch the movie Beautiful

Girls.

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Thanks!! I will see if I can find it tomorrow.



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one who doesn\'t is obsessed with supermodels and

unattainable women.

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I have met a few of these men. They seem to

be the ones that do end up with the super models and ultimately unhappy in their relationships. Ironic isn\'t

it?

[WonderingThoughts]

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Maybe he thinks your gay.

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Maybe he is a manipulative, borderline meglomanical ball sack that enjoys jerking you around because he knows he

can because he knows that you are completely infatuated with him.

Or, maybe he is a borderline

schizophrenic.

However, my bet is on the manipulative ball sack.

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That is just plan hilarious!!! Who knows what goes on in the mind of men that wont open up and

talk. I sure don\'t.

[Ash]

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However, my bet is on the manipulative ball sack.




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That\'s my bet too. If not than sombody has to be gay. I mean

there are only so many options. Right?

[WonderingThoughts]

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However, my bet is on the manipulative ball sack.


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That\'s my bet too. If not than sombody has to be gay. I mean there are

only so many options. Right?


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The guy is unusual. He is not

like anyone I have ever met. The though that he is gay has crossed my mind. If he is I hope he finds a good

looking stud to be with or maybe he already has one. Anywho I am finished with the guy. I will work with him and

be friendly with him but no more of this flirting thing with him. When he starts I just don\'t flirt back

anymore. No man is worth getting this confused over. There are to many fish in the sea to be concerned with the

minnows. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Ash]

WT-

That\'s great news that you\'ve decided to move on. Have you ever thought about taking a walk on the

\"Wild Side\"? Your last post mentioned \"fish in the sea\" maybe your fishing in the wrong ocean. If I were a

girl I\'d defiantly be looking at the other side. At least doing some exploring. Girl on girl isn\'t at all like

the guy on guy . You know, none of that icky butt-love stuff. Are you shaved? That\'s the first thing I\'d do if

I were you. The girls I know that are shaved say that it changes everything about the way they feel about

themselves. And you know that old saying, \" a change of pace is good for a change\". Just a thought for you.

[CJ01]

Anything to get another lesbian on board ey? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] If I understood your post right - that is what you meant

right?
Unuasual coming from a man [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] I´m surprised
Shaving -

does feel nice, until it starts growing back,eeek [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Sexyredhead]

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WT-

If I were a girl I\'d

defiantly be looking at the other side. At least doing some exploring. Girl on girl isn\'t at all like the guy on

guy . You know, none of that icky butt-love stuff.

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I know this

all came up ages ago, BUT, did it ever occur to you that women (at least some of us) don\'t find girl-on-girl

action any more appealing than you guys find guy-on-guy action?

Just a thought.

[Elana]

He

is joking, peeps. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] Just a bit sick of the same question asked 831

times.

[Sexyredhead]

Whew! Thank goodness! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[Elana]

Ash is actually pretty normal. Well...not normal, but...you know what I mean.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Sexyredhead]

I know what you mean. That\'s why I was so surprised. That\'s also why I didn\'t get snitty.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Elana]

back to the topic...what are guys really thinking? I don\'t think the question was answered yet.

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[franki]

Most of the time we are thinking about sex when we see an attractive woman..

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[Elana]

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Most of the time we are thinking about sex when we

see an attractive woman.. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

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[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Really? Who wudda thunk!

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[franki]

And if we don\'t say anything, it doesn\'t necessarily mean we are not interested... See, men and women are not

that much different. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img]

[Elana]

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And if we don\'t say anything, it doesn\'t

necessarily mean we are not interested... See, men and women are not that much different.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img]

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YEAH!! So we

finally figured out what men are thinking! Thank you Franki. Now let\'s move on.

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[Kari]

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Ash is actually pretty normal. Well...not normal,

but...you know what I mean. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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You mean normal for OUR group? &lt;g&gt;

[CptKipling]

So someone remind me, what\'s the point of this thread? 10 pages for...?



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