She has a boyfriend, what now?

[tallmacky]

He\'s a super sinner, super sinner, he\'s super sinning yow.
He\'s a very religious boy.
The kind you bring home to momma.
But watch out for he just may end up super sinning.
He never lets your momma\'s spirits down,
just two slaps on her as yow yow yow.
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Sorry my bad impression of Rick Jame\'s Superfreak.
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[Brian]

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If you are up front with this girl, you will reveal your feelings to her and she will know she has you, at which point she will lose interest and find you \'boring\'. You will deprive her of any challenge. She will have noting to chase.

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That\'s ridiculous. If she\'s that shallow she\'s not worth the chase. If she gets bored that easily, she won\'t stick around long anyway.

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What\'s all this innuendo? Did you suggest lying?

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This is advise, not an insinuation.

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This girl is an emotional creature and most likely makes emotional and irrational decisions when dealing with realationships. Respect will not stoke her flames of interest. If she expects to be treated with respect, then give her what she does not expect. Only then will you stand out in her mind. She\'ll crave the element of mystery and surprise. It\'s the only way to stir her emotions.

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Now that\'s just funny. I\'m not sure what you are saying here? The way I understand it is, if you respect her, there will be no element of mystery or surpise.

With this formula of picking up girls, I\'m sure you have many flocking around you. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[CptKipling]

Prometheus i respect your reply, well argued.

I think the bottom line in this situation is:

Why is it any different to any other pick-up? Because you mentioned a boyfriend, people reacted, and predictably so.

There is know special phero mix for this monchorito, you should know that by now.

[Andy]

Dooh .. am I late or what ... well ...

Like I stated in many threads before I\'d be in Manchorito\'s face within seconds. I don\'t think we have to warm this up again .. you know .. hitting face .. breaking nose .. and legs .. maybe opening him up and seein\' what\'s in him .. etc etc.

I understand perfectly that relationship-bumpers are poor people that have to jump on everything that show\'s a minimal interest level, or are really lacking pride, honor and self respect. But that won\'t save them from severe pain. I\'d never spare anyone that violates and almost assasinates my personal space and private surroundings(including my gf) deliberately.

Ahh yes .. and what Elana said before .. she\'ll mess around with you like she did with her ex ...

[darkness]

since when did going out for a week in high school constitute a serious relationship&gt;???

[manchorito]

I don\'t really care about the jokes, I should have come up with better than Super Sinner [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]. I am just happy people quit telling me to stop.

[Andy]

Ah uh .. highschool, a week ? That is in fact something different. I think my triggered MDK instinct prevented that the following words reached my mind. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Sagacious1420]

Huh? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

[Sexyredhead]

MDK= Me Don\'t Kare. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

I believe it\'s \'caveman\', for those not familiar with the language. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Andy]

Murder Death Kill
You know, blood, entrails, bone fragments, sawed off extremities, smashed brains ... etc etc.

[Elana]

Andy [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

[Andy]

Uh oh ... guess I\'ve forgotten to eat my valium cookie this morning ;P. Sorry hon.

[Elana]

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Uh oh ... guess I\'ve forgotten to eat my valium cookie this morning ;P. Sorry hon.

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That\'s OK....it kind of turned me on.

[Andy]

I really feel pressured to re-evaluate your sexual preferences. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] I hope you just meant the general agression level.

[Elana]

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I really feel pressured to re-evaluate your sexual preferences. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] I hope you just meant the general agression level.

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Andy, stop acting like such a whimp. A gauged out eye and a few missing fingers never bothered me if the sex was good.

[Andy]

Ah uh ... you weren\'t talking about the Valium ? Ok ok ok, mea culpa, I\'ll never forget a finger at your house in the future, ok ? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[DrSmellThis]

Into Goth these days?

[Watcher]

Hey i just finished dating a goth well it was more a short term fling, thats why ive been absent so much of late. He he she was wild sex wise though. Pheromones helped as always.

[Andy]

I think skinny american goth girls are sooo hot. I usually dislike skinny girls, but they are an exception. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

.. and what Watcher said [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[blkgost]

man don\'t log on for a few days and I have ppl ragging on me. All I was saying is that he should respect the situation that they are both in. Bide your time he\'ll screw up (hehehe we always do), and then move in. Besides think about your safety, ppl are crazy nowadays, and won\'t hesitate to put someone down for messing with \"their property\" so to speak.

But if you must go on, good luck friend

[Sagacious1420]

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man don\'t log on for a few days and I have ppl ragging on me. All I was saying is that he should respect the situation that they are both in. Bide your time he\'ll screw up (hehehe we always do), and then move in. Besides think about your safety, ppl are crazy nowadays, and won\'t hesitate to put someone down for messing with \"their property\" so to speak.

But if you must go on, good luck friend

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See what ya get? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Andy]

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ppl are crazy nowadays, and won\'t hesitate to put someone down for messing with \"their property\" so to speak

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It was never any different in fact. Only the saturation of wimpy men that don\'t react the way nature planned them to makes the ones stick out that still do.
Remember that survival of the fittest thingy ? Modern medicine and the fact that most men allow other men to pick the girl they are presently with is messing with darwin biiig time. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[manchorito]

I have been talkin to her lately, and she seems almost crazy in love (you know that high school love that isnt true, the girl just thinks it is) and I dont know how long it will take. I am mashing my keys right now I am so angry, ah well, off to more girls.

[Elana]

Get a life and move on. She is not interested in you. She loves her boyfriend. Is she the only female in your town?

[manchorito]

That what I was saying, there are other fish in the sea, I dunno, I just liked her A LOT.

[Andy]

The sole fact that you liked her a lot doesn\'t justify your assumption that her love isn\'t true.
What makes you *angry* exactly ? You might feel sad or sorry or whatever, but angry ? I mean, it\'s not like she was ever your gf and vanished with someone else. (That was in fact what you planned to do with her, maybe got a glimpse how it feels like? And you aren\'t even in a position to make any claims).

[Elana]

Yeah! What the shaved headed sexy half Italian guy said. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[darkness]

doesn\'t the guy have the right to groan a bit? And what was that last line? \"off to more girls\"

[Andy]

Sure .. groaning is ok, but a profiler would have fun with someone that becomes angry in such a situation. Every good old highschool slaughtering starts with such stuff. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

[SwingerMD]

Manchorito,

Well now . . . . Sounds like you\'ve been jilted. She flirted with you drawing you in . . . and when she has your interest she goes back to the boyfriend that she was complaining about. She got what she wanted (a sympathetic ear) and you got . . . nothing.

Not to inject some hope in this situation (If you want her you have to show her what she did to you was wrong by not seeking her out and refusing to be her \"crying shoulder\") but she may have been testing you for a reaction.

Anyhow best of luck man.

<font color=\"red\"> -SwingerMD </font>