I am dating a 10!!!!

[akinu]

Real 10s enter into our life very seldom. I met one of them a week ago or so. She is 22, blonde has galactic eyes and I still couldnot understand their real color and she is an aerobics instrutor (yeah I know [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]) graduated from industrial engineering as second of class....not enough??? plays Joe Satriani!!! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] not enough? she doesnt stare at my face when I say Tolstoy.!!!

Not only she is gorgoeous, she has inner qualities that you cannot find in 4 women combined.. Man she plays Satriani!!

First time in my life I found myself doing everything I know and can to get this one girl and Im slowly making her feel the same way. I am just a lucky son of a witch.. I must publish a dating book [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Holmes]

Man! That\'s so awesome, Akinu. Congrats, dude. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]


Holmes

[franki]

So, is it real blonde hair or dyed? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Holmes]

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Where did you meet?


Holmes

[akinu]

No she is using colored lenses [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Thanks Holmes, now I will be looking for a drummer to get my satriani cover band going [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[Holmes]

LOL. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
I\'m practicing... [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

Holmes

[akinu]

I saw her on the street and said \"she has to be mine\". Then onwards I dont remember anything, I must have been controlled by another force [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Holmes]

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I must have been controlled by another force [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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Woohoo! These are the kind of stories we love, no? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

May the Force continue to be with you, brutha.

Oh...what were you using that day? SOE? Another product? Nothing at all?

Holmes

[proteus]

Details guy - how did you approach her, what pheros were you wearing etc. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] - Don\'t hold out on us!!

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Real 10s enter into our life very seldom. I met one of them a week ago or so. She is 22, blonde has galactic eyes and I still couldnot understand their real color and she is an aerobics instrutor (yeah I know [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]) graduated from industrial engineering as second of class....not enough??? plays Joe Satriani!!! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] not enough? she doesnt stare at my face when I say Tolstoy.!!!

Not only she is gorgoeous, she has inner qualities that you cannot find in 4 women combined.. Man she plays Satriani!!

First time in my life I found myself doing everything I know and can to get this one girl and Im slowly making her feel the same way. I am just a lucky son of a witch.. I must publish a dating book [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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[Holmes]

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Details guy - how did you approach her, what pheros were you wearing etc. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] - Don\'t hold out on us!!

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Don\'t worry, Proteus, it will all be covered in his new 10-volume seduction CD series! Eh, Akinu? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Holmes

[MysteriousMan]

May the juice be with you!

MM

[akinu]

I wasnt using any mones that day, thus I didnt use anything in the later dates, and I wont use anything when Im with her; maybe I can if things go wrong.

How did I approach: I was really stunned by her looks (eyes mostly); instant attraction I must say. So I crossed the street, ran until the other end and then recrossed to the first street to see her again. I caught her eye from a real distance and held it for a good 5 seconds and smiled. Much to my surprise, she smiled too (unusual for a Turkish girl) and we looked at each other smiling for another 2-3 seconds. Then I looked elsewhere and let her pass by me, after several seconds I turned back and approached her and said my (only) favorite Ross Jefferies line: \"Hi, you were so -pause- absolutely breathtaking, so I had to take the chance to meet you, my name is Akin.\" She laughed exactly the same way the cashier did in \"catch me if you can\" when dicaprio invites her to a steak dinner. She introduced herself and -thanked me for taking the chance- (wow) It was somehow very easy as she right away gave me her telephone number and told me she was in a hurry. Later I called her the same night and things unfolded quite rapidly (after knowing her inner beauty)..

The rest is (as Holmes said) in my 10CD seduction manual . I dont know its really hard to tell the whole story, as I said, I was mostly in autopilot mode (use da force!!).

I think I\'ve found how to be good at these things. You really really have to love and care a girl, if you want to get her. They are very good at identifying assholes VS real deals.

[CptKipling]

Pics?

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[Holmes]

Ah, the \"steak dinner scene\" laugh...yeah, I can see that. Nice. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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Then I looked elsewhere and let her pass by me, after several seconds I turned back and approached her and said my (only) favorite Ross Jefferies line: \"Hi, you were so -pause- absolutely breathtaking, so I had to take the chance to meet you, my name is Akin.\" She laughed exactly the same way the cashier did in \"catch me if you can\" when dicaprio invites her to a steak dinner. She introduced herself and -thanked me for taking the chance- (wow)

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Yeah, see, there\'s an awful lot to be said for just having the balls to act on your impulses and make such an approach. And if your feelings are genuine, it will (hopefully) show. The fact that she \"thanked you for TAKING THE CHANCE\" (ahem!) proves that. A lot of guys might have been intimidated by what they saw and, consequently, never even considered making contact with her. Good work.

Just FMI, can you recall your \"state\" at the time (i.e. tense, relaxed, nervous, nonchalant, etc.)

From what you said about being on \"autopilot\" (my favorite of all the modes, BTW [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]), I\'d guess your answer would be \"relaxed,\" etc. And I\'d wager that you weren\'t expecting/seeking such an encounter to come at that point in time, right? That\'s the thing, of course: those great moments invariably present themselves when you least expect them--and often when pursuing them may be low on your immediate list of priorities...

Holmes

[Holmes]

Oh yeah, and...

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It was somehow very easy as she right away gave me her telephone number and told me she was in a hurry. Later I called her the same night and things unfolded quite rapidly (after knowing her inner beauty)..

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...that\'s one Doc Love theory shot straight to \"hades\"...mmmm-hm. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]


Holmes

[Elana]

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Yeah, see, there\'s an awful lot to be said for just having balls to act on your impulses and make such an approach. And if your feelings are genuine, it will (hopefully) show.

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That is so true! Good work going for what you wanted and getting it. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[Icarus]

Good Work, brother Akinu!

[akinu]

Cptkipling-- Not so quick. I met her a week ago, it will take some time to take a pic of her. Actually she sent me some of the self-taken modelling pics, but as I wont be in the picture it will be REALLY hard to believe she is dating me (or anyone at all). I would personally tell the guy to f**k off if he showed me those pics as his girlfriend.

Holmes--

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Just FMI, can you recall your \"state\" at the time (i.e. tense, relaxed, nervous, nonchalant, etc.)

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Its difficult to tell. I was totally go for it. This is about the rate of attraction I was trying to tell. After I\'ve seen her I wouldnt let her go without throwing everything I got, so the whole process seemed very natural to me. 20 minutes after the approach I was like \"What the s**t have I done WHOA!!\", but when I saw her, meeting and introducing myself was the most natural thing to do. Honestly I believe the same state can not be created at will without such a big motivation. Its not about seeing a bimbo on the street but the subtle non-verbal attraction that you can not describe; probably happens twice or so in a life time and it happens itself even if you are the shyest person on earth. Thats what I was trying to say by \"autopilot\". You are doing things that you believe you cant do and you are doing things so perfectly and so smoothly that you yourself become shocked. And another hint: I think the whole trick of Don Juan or Casanova was that they managed to turn those feelings on AT WILL and thus even if they were hardly handsome, controlling those feelings got them the success. I underline again; truly getting a girl starts with the honesty and strength of your own feelings towards her.

I now understand that a great majority of people fails in seduction because they are trying to DO THINGS without feeling the emotional base to support the THINGS THEY ARE DOING. So the whole idea of seduction seems strange to them. Without \"feeling\" you are merely copying some words of acts, without knowing the spirit that binds those words and acts.

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that\'s one Doc Love theory shot straight to \"hades\"

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I never read DocLove. I\'ve sent an email and from what I understood from his descriptions his stuff is mainly for long term relationships.

[proteus]

Great post Akinu and you are so on target - most times that I\'ve been successful in \"picking up\" a lady there has been that emotional subtext going on that you speak of.

[akinu]

True.. Well I mean my intention was not to \"seduce\" initially. But I described the process because its widely known as seduction. Seduction was the 10th thing I was thinking..

[Holmes]

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Its not about seeing a bimbo on the street but the subtle non-verbal attraction that you can not describe; probably happens twice or so in a life time and it happens itself even if you are the shyest person on earth.

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I know, exactly! That\'s why I was asking about stuff like your emotional \"attachment,\" if you will, to this specific woman/situation. You\'re absolutely right, situations like these are in an altogether different category than, to use your phrase, the everyday \"seeing a bimbo on the street\" scenerio. They are in that coveted \"bolt-of-lightning\" category of special encounters. As Proteus said, there\'s nearly always (though, in my experience, always) a strong accompanying emotional subtext. And like you said, such opportunities come around once every third blue moon and they can easily arise and disappear \"while you were sleeping\"--before you even realize what the heck just happened (as, yet again, they seem to magically come up when the subject is low on your list of concerns.) So you had better have the presence of mind to recognize \'em for what they are right then (i.e. \"This is different. I just HAVE to go for broke...) and the freedom of heart (for want of a better way of putting it) necessary to make the leap. Anyway...glad you did.
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Holmes

[akinu]

-reminding that I am no big fan of him- Ross Jefferies once said that you have to be conossieur of emotions. As you said, such things happen rarely and I want to take advantage of this situation....by writing down every bit and piece of emotional state I am going through. You never know how such a thing will end. Probably we will marry and be together until we die OR she will reveal her dark side sometime and thing will end quickly. You never know. So, I want to keep a record of how it feels to feel that attraction and try to find a way to recreate those feelings at will. Guess what will happen when I succeed at that? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[Holmes]

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-reminding that I am no big fan of him- Ross Jefferies once said that you have to be conossieur of emotions. As you said, such things happen rarely and I want to take advantage of this situation....by writing down every bit and piece of emotional state I am going through. You never know how such a thing will end. Probably we will marry and be together until we die OR she will reveal her dark side sometime and thing will end quickly. You never know. So, I want to keep a record of how it feels to feel that attraction and try to find a way to recreate those feelings at will. Guess what will happen when I succeed at that? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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If you\'re saying what I think you are, that\'s the right idea. Make sure that you\'re consciously and subconsciously familiar with that \"state\" and that you know how to create it at will. I haven\'t listened to him in quite a while, but Anthony Robbins talked about what he referred to as \"state management:\" creating/changing emotional states on the spot and how to be able to enter specific ones again and again.

I\'m not yet familiar with Ross\' \"Connoissieur Of Emotions\" theory. What does he mean?


Holmes

[Holmes]

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OR she will reveal her dark side sometime and thing will end quickly.

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[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Haha. No, don\'t even think about that. That\'s a \"Will Hunting\" trip. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Holmes

[akinu]

Its not a theory. he says that you have to create feeling of attraction in a woman. and to do this, you have to feel and be able to describe that feeling first; so that you can lead her into that emotion easier.

I\'ve just learned that she is also a windsurfing champion. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] I wonder if I can survive in the end. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[akinu]

<font color=\"red\"> ever wondered who is </font> this?

<font color=\"red\">This is not the pic she gave me, but it seems she has a LOT more to tell me. </font> [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

[Holmes]

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I\'ve just learned that she is also a windsurfing champion.

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Oh, really...is that all? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] Jeeeeeezus! \"And it don\'t stop...\" [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] That is some crazy shite.

I have to say that that Jefferies thing does make sense.

Forgive me, but I\'m still stuck on that damn Jefferies line with which you initiated things. Because, as you well know, delivery-wise there can be a fine line between passionate/sincere and just plain creepy. The presentation of such lines definitely requires something extra...X Factor, \"It\" Factor, or whatever You know what I mean? So, you definitely got skillz my man...I\'m putting in my preorder for that 10-CD set as we speak! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

Holmes

[akinu]

While \"getting her\" takes 10 CDs, \"how to keep her\" manual will be 100CDs I guess [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

That first line is very nice I agree. Its just straightforward and you can compliment her sincerely while still being cute. Pausing and looking deep in her eyes multiplies the effectivenes.. And please I was not even mediocre in these things, read my old posts complaining about how hard it is etc.etc.. While it still is; I guess its not sth to do with skills, but rather with the exceptional experiences and willingness to take risks.

[Elana]

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ever wondered who is this?

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Is that her in the picture? If so, she is very cute. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[Holmes]

She is indeed.......I HATE YOU AKINU! LOL. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Haha.

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While \"getting her\" takes 10 CDs, \"how to keep her\" manual will be 100CDs I guess [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> I guess its not sth to do with skills, but rather with the exceptional experiences and willingness to take risks.

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Totally! When those two factors converge, the planets always seem to line up. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

Holmes