Newbies please Click Here! + Best Threads

[franki]

Hello,

We are glad to see you made it to the Love-Scent Forum. Here you will find a wide range of pheromone users and some true pheromone experts.

For all your questions about customer service, and other operations at Love-Scent.com, please use the "contact us" link at Love-Scent.com or post in the customers forum. Bruce is the man who runs this great site. :-)

There is a ton of information in the forums, but it can be difficult to understand because of all the abbreviations and strange words. A good place to start reading about pheromones is the Pherolibrary, which contains FAQs and basic guides on products and general use:

www.pherolibrary.com

You can find the abbreviations list here:

http://pherolibrary.com/reference/abbreviations.htm



A handy tool to find answers for your questions is the Search feature:

Forum Search

Franki


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Here is a list with some of the most interesting threads from the forum. You can get loads of information from them.

All these testimonials are from posts to the L-S Forum.
Testimonials

One of my personal favorites is Lake Powell Phero Experiment
Lake Powell Phero Experiment
Lake Powell Phero Experiment

A Pheromone Testing Story from A Newbie:
Hungry.
Hungry

The Ethics of Using Pheromones
The Ethics of Using Pheromones

Information about Androstadienone aka A-1
Information about Androstadienone aka A-1

One of my favorite threads that constitutes a bit of Forum and Pheromone history about the La Croy secret Ingredients:
Petition
Petition

Another Newbie Hit Story
Got Rock and Rolls First Hit
Got Rock and Rolls First Hit

The Minimalist Manifesto is well-worth the read:
Less is More!
Less is more!

Whitehall's first hit story,
The Hits Just Kept Coming!
The Hits Just Kept Coming!

A comical thread:
DnB - Pheromone
DnD - Pheromone

A thread with some useful mixes:
WKM Thread
WKM Thread

This is an interesting thread with lots of perfume/cologne recommendations:
Le Male and other Colognes
Le Male and other Colognes


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But first of all, before even thinking about pheromones we need to get one thing strait. There is no quick fix, no way to \"cheat\" and skip all the hard stuff and become good with girls, nothing can do this, not even pheromones. I dont mean to direct this at you in particular, but it\'s something every newbie should know, you cannot go through life looking for the quick fix, anything worth having is worth working for.

Most of the guys who want to try pheros fall into the 60-70% who fail with women, and then complain that pheromones dont work when they still fail with women. And the majority of people who come here are looking for a quick fix at first. However, this is the road to failure again, you may see some results, but you are not addressing the cause of the problem.

The two biggest problems men face are lacking confidence and fear of failure. THERE IS NO QUICK FIX TO EITHER OF THESE.

Confidence isnt something you can pretend, you either learn how to BE confident or not bother at all. If you are interested, do a forum search for \"confidence\", and set the search to look back a few months.

Fear has held the majority of men back from success with women, some learn to defeat this fear, others forge on regardless and ultimately fail. Fear of being yourself, fear of looking stupid in front of people (especially women), fear of not knowing what to say, fear of being the centre of attention, fear of not being accepted. These are things a lot of people reading this will have felt, like it or not. Part of the battle is facing up to it, but it is easier said than done.

Now that you acknowledge your fear, the key to defeating it is to understand it. So, why are you afraid? Does it really matter if a particular woman likes you? No. In fact, does it really matter what anyone thinks of you? Generally no, with some obvious exceptions. Hopefully you realise that there is no reason for your fear, but the problem is getting around it. All you can do is practice, and KNOW that what happens in a particular instance doesn't matter.

[belgareth]

Oscar always does a better job

expressing it than the rest of us. It does get pretty old answering, for the 132nd time, "how much should I use?".



More irritating than that are posts like "I know this doesn't belong in this forum but I wanted it to get lots

of attention" or "I posted this in a couple other places already and nobody answered me so I am posting it here too"

Then the poster gets bent out of shape when we delete the post!

Like Oscar, I read every post. He's a bit more

inclined to make public announcements about problems, I have a habit of just deleting it if I think the poster has

been around long enough to know better. IMO, anybody smart enough to be here and playing with mones should be smart

enough to follow a few basic rules and use a simple search engine. But, like Oscar, I don't hesitate to come down

on anybody either. It isn't a lot of fun and they don't really pay me enough for the grief we all have gotten over

our actions but I for one don't intend to let the forum go back to the way it used to be.

Hey! Come to think of

it, they don't pay me to do this. Damn!

[bjf]

http://digilander.libero.it/linguaggiodelcorpo/biblio/

Good resource on pheromones, dating and

flirting and non-verbal

stuff.

http://evolution.anthro.univie.ac.at...ect/links.html

[ur

l]http://www3.usal.es/~nonverbal/introduction.htm[/url]

[HK45Mark23]

I personally found the forum overwhelming when I first discovered it. I wondered how I would ever read

all the treads and post. I have not even scratched the surface. I feel as a newbie, but seasoned by 2 months of

being here that consolidating the information and centralizing it or simplifying it is a good suggestion. I have

been guilty of posting questions that were already answered or featured in the library. Just yesterday or the day

before I started to reread the cook book and some other stuff to find I had read it and did not understand what I

read previously. There for, I asked questions that were already answered and I had already read before. I am still

not very phero educated but am learning. I was a manager for many years. The biggest thing I would have to deal with

was customer service. I had to explain to my employees that a customer does not know the question he/she asked you

have been asked a million times already today. It would not be nice to go into Mc Donald’s and say “What comes on a

Big Mack?” To receive a response from a Mc Donald’s employee where in which he/she yelled “You stooped dumb a$$ what

the #@$#! It is in the commercial, do you not watch TV?” “Or what kind of drinks do you have and where is the

condiment counter, straws and napkins?” To hear “You idiot can’t you see! I have answered that question already

today don’t you know what kind of drinks we serve? What are you stooped, you ignorant fool turn around and look for

your self!” Every customer no matter how stooped, is entitled to good service. Once showed proper procedures and

orientated to the system then some times you still have to baby them along. This is good service and you know it

when you get it. Go somewhere you have not been before, and if the staff treats you like a King, you’ll remember it.

They make you feel like your questions are important even though they have answered the same question for 300 people

in the last 5 hours. They act like it was the first time they heard that question and that they are happy to have

the opportunity to answer it for you. They talk you through the steps the first 5 times you patronize their

facility, while instilling in you a complete sense of dignity and worth. They do not condescend or act as if to be

patronizing. You are their world and every thing revolves around your experience. You know their feeling of

satisfaction dignity and self worth is in providing you with the optimal experience. We all want to be treated well

and like we are important. None of us want to be dealt with harshly. It must be hard for the Moderators. It must be

hard to be fair with people when so many want to scam people and systems for their own gain. I personally like all

others want to get ahead in life. But, I will never understand why people would want to use unethical and unjust

means to justify their ends. Therefore I do not envy you moderators. I empathize with your frustrations. I believe

this is the source of the appreciation many of us have felt and stated in DST thread “Seed of Gratitude.”



HK45Mark23

[HK45Mark23]

I also am confused about what a discussion forum is about. When I first arrived I was so

enthused. I looked forward to posting about things I experienced after my first pheromone experiment. After a

month or so of reading others experiences and at the point where I had made my first purchase, and first experienced

pheromones, I was disappointed to get no or little discussion from my post. I also admit once I found

out about the point system I wanted to be point rich. I don’t understand the forum store. What are the

things you can do to enhance your username and what is a custom title? None of the actions seem like anything other

than an inhibitor to receiving a discount. Now that I have seen the same questions pop up over and over from newbie

who are wetter behind the ears than I am I can understand how frustrating it is for the experts. Maybe

there should be a special discussion forum for “newbie’s” hosted by an “expert” and an “intermediate” level zone

followed by the “expert / doctorate / scientist / manufacturer level.” This way if you are into deep intellectual

discussion philosophizing about the many chemical compounds and social interactions related to such compounds as

well as the nature and stability of the chemical etc… it can be done with out interruption. This is not to

say others can’t join in but the non experts would find their best opportunity to learn in a class of discussion

that would be on their current knowledge and understanding level. As they would learn more they could then be

comfortable in discussions on a higher skill level. Also having volunteers to help the people under their level

gain the knowledge and understanding to enable them to succeed in their pheromone education and jump to a new level

of understanding. This followed by reinforcing the new found knowledge by volunteer community service in the

aforementioned procedure of teaching a newer or lesser experienced pheromone enthusiast. It is in the teaching

process through watching others that we learn the most and become masters. It is through their mistakes that

we experience the learning. It is as if we made the same mistake. If you don’t make mistakes you can’t learn. So

through partners and groups the knowledge and experience can be better organized and passed on. Also people who

have learned a skill will be more enthused to teach it to another than one who is already taught it to hundreds.

They are the ones who can monitor the system and interject corrections and coach the ones who are learning or

enforcing knowledge through conveying it to another. This also can be an avenue to weed out any myths and miss or

disinformation right from the beginning. I really don’t expect to get this to happen but thought I would interject

it into the discussion.

HK45Mark23

[eric_pelletier_tw]

a few

links:

http://www.pherolibrary.com/
dabbing
http://www.pherolibrary.com/forum/showthread.php?t=15248
mesurments

/applying
http://www.pherolibrary.com/forum/showthread.

php?t=15248
Nioxin
http://www.love-scent.com/fo

rum/showthread.php?t=8785

my comments:
since im in the computer bisness would recomend: a knowledge base

(kida faq+search thingny)
witch can enable a larger faq (more questions Asked/awnsered )
in diffrent fields,with

diffrent products
also be nice to have a section for newbe treads {that way you can actualy see what the newbe are

asking in general }

[Whitehall]

I'm flattered that two of my

threads are included.

The most important concept to get is that to be attractive to women, first, be a

man.

Pheromones do help break the ice and reduce inhibitions.

[Rbt]

The most

important concept to get is that to be attractive to women, first, be a man.

Pheromones do help break the ice

and reduce inhibitions.

Here here to that. So many newbies expect far too much from pheromones. They

aren't magic. You still gotta do the grunt work before you can get to the "grunting" work...


Learning

to do careful observation, taking your time, experimenting over time, not going overboard with the dosages or with

starting with complex confused mixes... all important aspects leading to success.

Patience, young

grasshopper...