That would
be very considerate of you, Ms. Kari.
Do you have brunette hair?
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Your notion of anchoring reminds me of an
experience I had. I had been madly in love with a woman but we broke up under unfortunate and emotionally trying
conditions. She always wore \"Allure.\"
I happened to buy my next girlfriend some Allure some months later.
When she first put it own and I smelled it on her, I literally swooned. I was weak in the knees and overcome with
longing for my old girlfriend. My new girlfriend noticed my reaction and asked what happened. I, like a fool, told
her.
Suddenly, I was out TWO girlfriends. The emotional links with smell are incredibly strong and can be
overpowering. I bet I\'d be susceptable to that scent today, years later.
The take-home advice I\'d give is
to be consistent with your aroma with a new girlfriend. That way you build an association. Later when she\'s
getting boring, give her some new scent and start wearing something new yourself. That could re-invigorate a
relationship.
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Mmmmm-- \"Allure\" is my main scent. I\'ll try
to remember not to wear it around you. <g>
That would
be very considerate of you, Ms. Kari.
Do you have brunette hair?
Whitehall,
wow what a terrible yet interesting experience. Thank you for sharing!
The idea of re-invigorating a relationship
with a new scent may work, but it may backfire. My ex gf just recently told me she that would never have started a
relationship with me if I had been wearing all those new scents (which I wear now) at that time. She told me that
the scent I was wearing when we started dating, played an important role for her. That was 6 years ago -- I was
wearing a cheap deo!
I
suspect your ex doesn\'t know what really attracts or repels her.
That may well
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She just has this strong association with me and that
old scent. Those new scents are not \'me\' for her.
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That would be very considerate of you, Ms.
Kari.
Do you have brunette hair?
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Nope. Red hair, blue-grey
eyes, fair skin, 120#, 5\'7\".
Does that mean I CAN wear my \"Allure?\"
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Ms.
Kari,
As to your question, perhaps you should send me a private message so we can discuss this in greater depth
without compromising our privacy.
Whitehall
is on the money.
I posted some time ago about a similar experience, but it was my scent affecting a girl, in fact
I think it was APC.
p.s I dont think APC\'s -none had much to do with it.
I will
never forget the power of concious smell also...It has quite the effect. That\'s why I am a fan of the new The
Edge Essenstials: Heat good stuff BRUCE!
well, you can't really go by
what one person recommends. what you need to do is go to a store, spray a couple you like. walk around for about
15 mins, then smell it. that way something that smells good in the bottle doesn't smell like a cat pissed on you
after a few mins
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