Cologne Rotation

[Kari]

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Your notion of anchoring reminds me of an

experience I had. I had been madly in love with a woman but we broke up under unfortunate and emotionally trying

conditions. She always wore \"Allure.\"

I happened to buy my next girlfriend some Allure some months later.

When she first put it own and I smelled it on her, I literally swooned. I was weak in the knees and overcome with

longing for my old girlfriend. My new girlfriend noticed my reaction and asked what happened. I, like a fool, told

her.

Suddenly, I was out TWO girlfriends. The emotional links with smell are incredibly strong and can be

overpowering. I bet I\'d be susceptable to that scent today, years later.

The take-home advice I\'d give is

to be consistent with your aroma with a new girlfriend. That way you build an association. Later when she\'s

getting boring, give her some new scent and start wearing something new yourself. That could re-invigorate a

relationship.

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Mmmmm-- \"Allure\" is my main scent. I\'ll try

to remember not to wear it around you. &lt;g&gt;

[Whitehall]

That would

be very considerate of you, Ms. Kari.

Do you have brunette hair?

[Sunny]

Whitehall,

wow what a terrible yet interesting experience. Thank you for sharing!

The idea of re-invigorating a relationship

with a new scent may work, but it may backfire. My ex gf just recently told me she that would never have started a

relationship with me if I had been wearing all those new scents (which I wear now) at that time. She told me that

the scent I was wearing when we started dating, played an important role for her. That was 6 years ago -- I was

wearing a cheap deo!

[DrSmellThis]

I

suspect your ex doesn\'t know what really attracts or repels her.

[Sunny]

That may well

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She just has this strong association with me and that

old scent. Those new scents are not \'me\' for her.

[Kari]

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That would be very considerate of you, Ms.

Kari.

Do you have brunette hair?

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Nope. Red hair, blue-grey

eyes, fair skin, 120#, 5\'7\".

Does that mean I CAN wear my \"Allure?\"

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[Whitehall]

Ms.

Kari,

As to your question, perhaps you should send me a private message so we can discuss this in greater depth

without compromising our privacy.

[CptKipling]

Whitehall

is on the money.

I posted some time ago about a similar experience, but it was my scent affecting a girl, in fact

I think it was APC.

p.s I dont think APC\'s -none had much to do with it.

[tallmacky]

I will

never forget the power of concious smell also...It has quite the effect. That\'s why I am a fan of the new The

Edge Essenstials: Heat good stuff BRUCE!

[bjf]

Sag1420,

I\'ve

never actually purchased anything from that site. In fact the prices for some things such as Mysore Sandalwood look

a bit suspect. $96 for 4 ozs. of the genuine article sounds too good to be true, and you know what that usually

means. But as I said, having never used them, I can\'t say for certain.

The most highly recommended site

for essential oils is

Oshadhi:

http://www.oshadhiusa.com/display.php?p=C

ompany


And I\'ve found many wonderful fragrance/perfume oils by Madini at the Talisman site.

Their sampler of 5 little (@1mL) tubes of oils for $10 is a good way to try several of their

fragrances:

http://madini.com/


Here\'s some more sites that

other folks have recommended that I haven\'t

tried:

http://www.scents-of-earth.

com/scents-of-earth/sandalwood2.html

http://www.attarbazaar.com/cgi-bin/hazel.cgi?action=serve&amp;item=fragrances/index

.htm

[url=\"http://www.naturesgift.com/oilbottles.htm\"]http://www.naturesgift.com/oilbottles.htm[/ur

l]

http://libertynatural.com/

http://www.essentialoils.org/absolutes.htm

http://www.essentialoil.com/index2.html

http://www.frontiernaturalbrands.com/aura_cacia.html

http://www.mountainroseherbs.com/


And here\'s a really informative site on the

families of

fragrances:

[url=\"http://www.osmoz.com/encyclo/matieres.asp\"]http://www.osmoz.com/encyclo/matieres.asp[/u

rl]

There may be other sources in the links section of the \"Pheromone Reference Material\"

Oscar

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[mybadodge]

well, you can't really go by

what one person recommends. what you need to do is go to a store, spray a couple you like. walk around for about

15 mins, then smell it. that way something that smells good in the bottle doesn't smell like a cat pissed on you

after a few mins