I\'m not an expert by any means, but if you want something to make you seem more approachable, I\'d go w/a product containing -NOL. Like SOE or perhaps AE\\m. If you have the money, you can try both (see CK\'s mix vaults).
As to whether you should start mixing right away, IMHO, I think you should try one of those two out on its own first. At least for a couple of weeks. So you can get an idea of whether or not that product really does anything for you, and how much of it you need, etc.
Just remember, though, even if you\'re armed w/mones, YOU still have to make the first move; for the most part. So also work on your social skills. Good social skills + mones will get you a lot further than bad social skills + mones.
As for using cologne, some people use cologne/perfume regardless of what mone they use; just becareful that the fragrances don\'t clash. Especially w/SOE.
Hope this helps.
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