Having been in a similar situation fairly recently, I have strong feelings about this.
The woman is being inconsiderate of her husband first. I wonder at their relationship and her motivations in the whole thing. The wife, in a sense is being unfaithful to her husband\'s needs. Isn\'t a marriage a series of comprimises? It sounds like it must be her way, period. Providing that there is no medical condition affecting her sex drive, they need to come to some comprimise that satisfies them both. SRH was right in suggesting counseling. It sounds like she is getting upset as a way of avoiding budging from her position.
Regardless of that, the husband has made certain commitments himself. His sex drive is not an excuse to break his word or lie to his wife. As the old saying goes, two wrongs do not make a right. If a comprimise cannot be worked out, if she will not openly accept him having a lover on the side and he feels his sex life has a higher priority, his final option is to end the relationship. No relationship should ever be based on dishonesty.
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