The first minute after you cum.

[tallmacky]

Hey men/boys, whenever you are with yourself, or a lady, or multiply ladies you know what I am talking about. Do you guys know that feeling right after you cum, were sex means absolutely nothing at all to you. Infact you ask yourself questions like why did I even do this, was it worth it. Why did I even screw this girl ewww I just wanna get away. Or why exactly do I beat my meat. You start to think things like why even wear pheromones tomorrow? I don\'t want any of that anyways. Basically your libido is at zero and you don\'t even care. You start to think about much more things maybe to do with philosophy and such.

I think at that moment we realize how clouded our thinking really is, not only that but must of the things we do in life are not of our making but our subconcious telling us do this and that to look good for so and so.

Too bad it only lasts like 60 seconds if you are lucky then you are ready for more. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[pelotudo]

ROFL, that feeling is so great. LaCroy needs to invent a product that will put someone in that place of happiness ALL DAY LONG. I would get so much more work done instead of thinking about banging the hot receptionist at my work, and I wouldn\'t be thinking all day about how I\'m going to get with her tonight or what -mones I\'m going to wear.

[Skyy]

dude omg i feel the same way 150%

[seadove]

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Do you guys know that feeling right after you cum, were sex means absolutely nothing at all to you. Infact you ask yourself questions like why did I even do this, was it worth it. Why did I even screw this girl ewww I just wanna get away.

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You know Jason, When that Power up in heaven created the human being he built us not as animals but as something else, the animals he gave a spirit, but to the human being he gave also souls.He gave us souls so as to have feelings, sincerity, honesty and a sense of caring for one another. I have stated many times in the forum that the best part of sex is immedietly thereafter, some of us light a cigarette and start talking, others just hug his/her partner, to develop a sense of loving and caring for one another.

So sex, in my opinion, does not end with just poking in your member inside the woman and then after ejaculation you think about doing it with another female.This is certainly animalistic.That\'s why you always have that feeling of baronness, emptiness, you might as well, find a hole in the wall.Sex without a certain amount of love always end up with that tasteless feeling you were discribing.

If you ask me, and being of your age, try to find a girl not only for the sake of sexual contacts but for friendship, mutual interests, social relationships, try to find something in her that will make you love her.And when that develops between both of you , you will find sex so tasty,so fulfilling and so meaningful.The moment you change your attitude toward the opposite sex, that will be the time you\'ll start enjoying your sexual abilities.

Touche.

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[DaVinciKittie]

Mmmm... Well put Dove! Geez, why can\'t any of the guys I meet be like you?! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[seadove]

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Mmmm... Well put Dove! Geez, why can\'t any of the guys I meet be like you?!

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Well as far as I can check up with your profile we do have many things in common, and that\'s a starter. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

We\'re both Leos.

We both drive in cars with the radio tape in full blast, and me singing loudly, so loud that sometimes I ignite other people who also join me in my singing.Especially Pink Floyd, Queen, Simon &amp; G.

I\'m a comic.I make everyone laugh on the road.

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[seadove]

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Too bad it only lasts like 60 seconds if you are lucky then you are ready for more.


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You can make it last for 60 years. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

All you need is a bit of attitude adjustment. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[franki]

Do the women also have post-orgasmic depressions like we have? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[seadove]

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Do the women also have post-orgasmic depressions like we have?


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Women have a more complicated system than men.Do you remember that post called \"Man Vs. Woman\" from Xehupati, about so many buttons a woman has but only one for the male?

There are statistically far less women than men who go around screwing men just for the sake of screwing and then immediately go on to the next prey.Basically they are in search of a more fulfilling relationship than the male.

And yet the personal sexual satisfaction a woman experiences from intercourse is 7 times greater than that of the male.To such an extent that sometimes it is quite embaressing for the neighbours to hear all the screaming from next door, kinda sounds like the guy beating her up. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

[Enticing]

Why do men always try to answer the questions intended for women? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

[seadove]

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Why do men always try to answer the questions intended for women?


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Lady Enticing, some of us men do know their stuff. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

If I have missed out something or wrote something untrue you are cordially invited to point out my mistake.Maybe I\'ll learn something too.

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[EXIT63]

I just feel disgusted.

[**DONOTDELETE**]

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Do the women also have post-orgasmic depressions like we have? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

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Yes, quite often, when we realize we\'re lying next to some a$$hole to whom the sex meant nothing and who\'s thinking, \"Why did I even screw this girl? Ewwww I just want to get away...\" etc.

[BassMan]

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Yes, quite often, when we realize we\'re lying next to some a$$hole to whom the sex meant nothing and who\'s thinking, \"Why did I even screw this girl? Ewwww I just want to get away...\" etc.

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[Lucky]

&lt;And yet the personal sexual satisfaction a woman experiences from intercourse is 7 times greater than that of the male.&gt;

Seadove,
How is it possible for this to be known? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

Also, maybe one of the best things about married sex is never having that post orgasm depression....it\'s just total fulfillment.

[Enticing]

Sorry I didn\'t have time to elaborate in my reply earlier, but I did find it odd you claim women find sex 7 times more fulfilling than men. Are you a transsexual? Otherwise, how could you know this?

And yeah, (Thank you FTR) if I thought the guy was in instant regret after bedding me, dayum I would hightail it to the door and feel just awful! I don\'t think I\'ve EVER had \"post-orgasmic depression\".. only one time in my life was it possibly a feeling of shame ... but MOST of the time, if you DID have an orgasm during sex, you\'re feeling just yummy. Warm, relaxed, sleepy, lazy, and kinda high at the same time. If you didn\'t have an orgasm, it could be anything from frustrated, still turned on, upset, okay with it, etc etc etc!

If you\'re feeling that embarrassed and ashamed after sex .. maybe you should seek out a more emotional connection with women instead of notches on your bedpost! I mean the awful feelings are happening for a reason. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[EXIT63]

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Yes, quite often, when we realize we\'re lying next to some a$$hole to whom the sex meant nothing and who\'s thinking, \"Why did I even screw this girl? Ewwww I just want to get away...\" etc.

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It\'s not my fault...It\'s my Catholic upbringing. Shame Shame Shame.

[tallmacky]

Thanks for the suggestions Seadove, but they don\'t pertain to anything I said. I am sure every guy knows exactly what I am talking about here even you Ivan. As for the ladies as you have said so many times when speaking of pms\'ing, sex and so on, \"you just don\'t understand.\"

It has nothing to do with the girl and it has nothing to do with my mindset. It is a purely biological move on my brain\'s behalf. At that time there is absolutely no wanting for sex or any type of sexual behavior. It comes off to me as negative and a waste of time and effort. At that little bit of time you come to realize how much you have wasted on all of this, and how you don\'t really care if you ever orgasm again. You have to be disconnected to feel this. Much like older married women who go through menupause and never see the point of having sex with their husbands, while the man may be thinking why not? I am not saying being disconnected is a positive thing I am saying it exist and possibly built in for some cases so the guy could high tail it, or realise so and so is not really worth it all underneath the sex?

With your true love would you high tail it or feel bad, probably not but that 60 seconds or so still exists no matter what and it has nothing to do with concious want.

Guys when you get some free hand time, wankit off and soon after think of your dream girl, even then you won\'t feel the way you usually do.

[BassMan]

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Hey men/boys, whenever you are with yourself, or a lady, or multiply ladies you know what I am talking about. Do you guys know that feeling right after you cum, were sex means absolutely nothing at all to you. Infact you ask yourself questions like why did I even do this, was it worth it. Why did I even screw this girl ewww I just wanna get away. Or why exactly do I beat my meat. You start to think things like why even wear pheromones tomorrow? I don\'t want any of that anyways. Basically your libido is at zero and you don\'t even care. You start to think about much more things maybe to do with philosophy and such.

I think at that moment we realize how clouded our thinking really is, not only that but must of the things we do in life are not of our making but our subconcious telling us do this and that to look good for so and so.

Too bad it only lasts like 60 seconds if you are lucky then you are ready for more. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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If you _really_ want to explore the changes occurring in that particular moment, this book may be of use to you.

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1567183948/102-0965982-0506561?vi=glance

[Enticing]

TM I don\'t follow half of what you write most of the time, but I think it\'s the old push-pull thing that men are so good at. You get what you want, and then you don\'t want it.. until it looks like it doesn\'t want you.. and then you want it again. It\'s classic male psychology.

Kinda like fish and release! Bwwaaahahahahaaa [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[MOBLEYC57]

It\'s classic male AND FEMALE psychology. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[CptKipling]

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TM I don\'t follow half of what you write most of the time, but I think it\'s the old push-pull thing that men are so good at. You get what you want, and then you don\'t want it.. until it looks like it doesn\'t want you.. and then you want it again. It\'s classic male psychology.

Kinda like fish and release! Bwwaaahahahahaaa [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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No its true, i *sometimes* feel depressed, wondering why i just did that (only in the case of cpt palm and his 5 sisters, never regretted sex with a lovely lady!) and a feeling of real clarity. But then most of the time i just feel tired... [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[Elana]

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And yet the personal sexual satisfaction a woman experiences from intercourse is 7 times greater than that of the male.

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[tallmacky]

Why would it be 7 times greater, and congers up the 7x why not 10x or 100x\'s. If a women had the feelings 7x times more then me I think she would die from shock, or be out there every minute trying to get it.

[krtel]

Yeah, that happens to me to. You know us guys can\'t use our penis and brain at the same time right? lol. Two heads, enough blood to fill only one. Ah well. hehe.

- Krish

[Gerund]

When I was younger, I experienced the post-orgasm regret or sadness, whatever you want to call it.

It stopped happening immediately after I stopped screwing women I didn\'t have any affection for.

I called it the \"Breakfast Barrier.\" Whenever I realized that things were developing to where I might be intimate with a girl, I asked myself whether I\'d honestly want to have breakfast with her in the morning. If the answer was \"no,\" I wouldn\'t follow through on the sex (except for a handjob or blowjob, if the girl was inclined).

Haven\'t regretted lovemaking since.

[Whitehall]

A couple of things are happening in your head (nervous system) after an orgasm.

The pleasurable feelings are from a massive release of dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins. Taking dopamine agonists like apomorphine, deprenyl, or even pre-loading on l-phenylalanine will increase the pleasure of orgasm.

The thinking you\'re doing and the regret you\'re feeling is the result of a release of vasopressin, a complicated neuropeptide. You can buy this stuff in a bottle to spray in your nose. It is something of a smart drug and enhances thinking and memory.

If you\'re having regrets and depression, post-sex, it means that you\'re not balancing it with oxytocin, as in \"love.\" Are you taking anti-estrogens or steroids?

It sounds like you\'re getting a really strong shot of vasopressin! It\'s nature\'s way of keeping you single and unattached. I suspect you\'ll change with age.

[tallmacky]

I thought it had some sort of biological meaning, man I hope I could find some of that stuff because it sure helps me think clear and it enhances my thinking.

Nope I don\'t take any anti-estrogenes or steroids.

thanks again whitehall, you always bring some good info to the mix.

[Whitehall]

Here\'s one place of many to buy vasopressin:

http://www.biogenesis.co.za/pi-vasopressin.asp

This stuff also is an anti-diuretic meaning it keeps you from peeing. It is sometimes given to bedwetters. Don\'t use vasopressin and swig a keg of beer at the same time - piss will be coming out your ears! - seriously, it could damage your kidneys.

The book to read is \"The Alchemy of Lust and Love\" by Crenshaw,

Thanks for the compliment! I do like to share what I know and I do get a lot in return from the other board members.

Glad to be part of the community.

[tallmacky]

Great link whitehall, I hope to read up heavily on this stuff, I wonder how long the effects last.

Thanks for the words of caution aswell.