If you're ugly..........

[monesrule]

take down my picture, now!!!

[tallmacky]

sorry mones, its not that bad anyhow, none of them are.

[marv14yag]

Yes, online, many girls have called me hot, cute, etc. Along with the ugly, etc.

Now, as for real life. I have literally had girls, as far back as the 7th grade make comments on my a$$...Girl smack me int he a$$...Stares, etc, but yet I am called ugly, and I know I\'m not movie star.

Umm, I\'m not ugly so much as.

My face...Even someone UGLY has like a PARTICULAR face..I have like, a no face, you may be able to make anyone out of it if you wanted I suppose.

Funny you say that.

Recently, I saw my mom, and she was like...
I can\'t belive you dont\' have girls just hanging off your arms.
And, you\'re so cool. If you only knew that you\'d walk around with your chest up high, etc.

Which, is true. I am \"very interesting.\" It\'s just, people dont\' give me a chance, becuase of perhaps I am not something, I dont\' know.

I just looked at the pictures...

I am MUCH LESS ugly than those, however, again, no face over here.

I\'ll give you an example. I have good skin, few pimples some of the time, etc, but pimples don\'t have much to do with it. I have small pores (now (warrior diet) and my muscles in my face are well devolped and visable. LIke I said, the face itself is very good, it\'s just the shape/configuraton...No face really.

Casanova... Very simliar. He was very handsome, and tven told so, nice face, it\'s just hte configuration of it. Long, thin nose, etc.

Bart

[Tremann]

Hey man, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, everyone thinks differently about different people. For example, you ever say that a girl is hot, and your friends think ur on drugs? Its the same thing, it\'s all relative.

[Skyy]

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Hey man, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, everyone thinks differently about different people. For example, you ever say that a girl is hot, and your friends think ur on drugs? Its the same thing, it\'s all relative.

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Oh so true, very nice!!

[tallmacky]

A beautiful face has mathematics to play in it, as the website thus says on and on. The configuration is much more important then aestetic details like pimples and such.

The girls are probably putting your looks and personality into one pot and stirring it, then calling you ugly. I mean they are calling you ugly but not for the reasons that you may be thinking, more along the lines of your vibe/personality, and that is possibly why you may have better luck online with the ladies?

[MOBLEYC57]

Women call me ugly all the time, and when they finish chewing on my pillow from their kapows, they still called me ugly, and they came to visit this ugly guy a little bit more than often. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] Once you start worrying about what other people say or think about you...all is lost. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img] Annnnnd remember....all the advice doesn\'t mean it\'s the best, or even good advice. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] You have to consider the source(s). [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[tallmacky]

Mobz you can\'t be ugly.

[MOBLEYC57]

Put the drugs down TMac...anyone can be ugly! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] But still, you have to consider the source, and the sources reasoning for stamping you as UGLY. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] Sooner or later...it all comes out in the wash. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[tallmacky]

I don\'t care what anyone says: You are the prettiest forum person ever. (sorry for acting like a 8 year old girl)

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The source the source, so if a really hot girl thinks you are ugly then is it true, I think beauty can be explained through MBA, it crosses all cultures and races we always know what a beautiful face is. Sure some girl may have a thing for a guy with big ears, but is that the guy she fantasizes about? I have seen alot of girls play that fake crap when describing a total goof guy, and then in snap say how they really feel hehe.

[MOBLEYC57]

\"The source the source, so if a really hot girl thinks you are ugly then is it true\"

Hell no! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img] It means she needs windshield wipers! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] And if she tells you that you\'re ugly...look her in the face, with a smile, and say, \"you wouldn\'t know a good looking guy if he was standing on your nose pissing in your eye,\" and continue to enjoy your life. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] Look at it this way...In 100 years, it all won\'t matter none. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[tallmacky]

I love you mobz, you big bear of a man. So true so true, is it ok if I cry in your arms?

[MOBLEYC57]

Oh hell no! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img] Shed no tears, for ugliness may grow upon you. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] Plus I really don\'t think you\'d look right in my arms. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img] Don\'t give up on El...she\'s just playing hard to get! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[tallmacky]

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Oh hell no! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img] Shed no tears, for ugliness may grow upon you. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] Plus I really don\'t think you\'d look right in my arms. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img] Don\'t give up on El...she\'s just playing hard to get! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]quote]

I am not really persistent in scrubbing my own balls. I don\'t think I would look bad in your arms kind of like a male bonding thing after we lost the big Football game or something ya know. Everyone cries sometimes..... Elana [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img], what makes you say that, it wouldn\'t happen to be that purple thingy below all my posts. Impossible to get but I was thinking about buying some type of teleporter, now that is hightech.

[MOBLEYC57]

\"Elana , what makes you say that, it wouldn\'t happen to be that purple thingy below all my posts.\"

Nawh. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

[tallmacky]

look above mobz I put the whole thing in quotes, hahahah ahhaha that\'s not funny. Hmmm maybe it is that purple thing, I never really noticed it before.

[EXIT63]

bump for tm

[Elana]

Bump for TM

[tallmacky]

bump for TM - haha what does that mean it sounds cool so bump it for some loser called TM.

[Elana]

It\'s because you were such a stupid drunk last night and talked such garbage, we wanted to make sure you saw what crap you wrote. Just a sweet reminder from your friends.

[tallmacky]

oh me, hahha ok

[marv14yag]

\"You may not be able to pick up perfect 10\'s, but would you give the average looking, great personality girl a chance if she was interested? \"

Yes.

The average, great personality girl is too busy fantasizing about some backstreet boy, or insinc, or the most popular dude at school to notice \"me\"...

The average looking girl wants some type of prince charming and will not go out with ANYONE ELSE until she meets him.

Now, when she does meat him, she ends up marrying him and she gets screwed over in the long run with absue either physically, psycologically, or financially.

Then, she does 1 of 2 things.

1. She keeps with this guy and/or leaves him for another guy just like him.

Or

2. She ends up f** guys like me. Which is when she is 40 or 50 and realzies she\'s a dumbass.

Bart

[Sexyredhead]

Bart, you\'re such an optimist. I think that\'s what I like most about you.

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[**DONOTDELETE**]

ROFLMAO

[marv14yag]

lol

Oh, I outdo myself somtiems, I really do.
lol

But, yes, I would. The problem is that, I don\'t believe that it is any different Elane with a average looking girl v.s. a hot girl. They will both act the same, I will act the same.

You see, that\'s the problem you know...Communication. Right now, right as I am typ0ing this, there may be a girl at my school that is fantasizing about me, wishing I would ask her out. How do I know? HOw do I KNOW?

You see, many of times what happens is a girl says to her friend, I like that guy. The friend goes to the guy, and says, so and so likes you. Than you know, than you hook up.

Looking at someone, or staring at them, or etc doesn\'t mean a f*** thing except that they think you\'d be good in a F*CKING PORN VIDEO!

AT LEAST THAN I\'D BE F*CKING SOMEOEN WOULDN\'T I!!!?

Oh, sh*t...I\'m sick of this sh**.

I\'m angry at myself. I really am. You see. It did not always used to be this way. When I was younger, both girls, and guys acted more ADULT LIKE. I bleivee that\'s how it goes. As childrn girls, and guys act mature, and then, as teens act like kids, and adults act mature sometimes, sometimes they act like childrren and then when you turn into and elder you become more childlike.
Aside from hormones, it\'s proven that your mind actually starts changing when you are a teenager. You see, that is where my hope lies. Hopefully I\'m only clumsy until I\'m adult, which is when I will devolop into a \"super star!\" lol

NOw, I am mad at myself, because of the fact that. The last time it has happened was I think in the 7th grade? I was in the skating rink. I looked in a direction and some girl was like, do you like me? I said no. I wasn\'t actually thinking about her than. Which, by the way. My hormone levels, my ENTIRE LIFE was higest in the 7TH GRADE. Oh damn, I could have looked at a hole in the ground and I probably would have comed..Anways....On with it. She kept doing that. I kept saying no. I was being honest. But that wasn\'t hte first time that happened, as a youngster in the 3rd 4th, 5th grade, some girl said that to me too. Her name was Kelly... I said no.

Now, I have noone saying that to me anymore. Now I have people staring at me. I don\'t know what to think. Do they like me, want to f** me, or like I described previously? Is saying somethign worth the let-down? And, when I do, it\'s a let-down, or I don\'t do anything at all, and they may HAVE LIKED ME. It\'s so damn confusing. It\'s not like it used to be. It used to be easier.

What I need. I need a young girl that is mature for her age, but yet still playful, funny, etc.

I should put that in the paper, along with my phone number, see what happens, lol.

Ohh....

There\'s no saving me lad! Save yourself! Go! Run! Save yourself! You can\'t save me!

I\'m a lost case. I am doomed to nothing but loneliness for the rest of my life.

Bart

[monesrule]

sexyredhead: you don\'t wave crack in front of a crackhead!! You have got to know better than that! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[marv14yag]

\"How do u define ugliness? do u assume that
he is ugly just because of his pimples , big open pores and acne scars. or by the shapes of his/her face etc.. i do have some friends who look handsome even with his open pores and acne scars.i think without those scar , he would be very handsome , isnt it? i dont think a smooth face would make man or woman look handsome or pretty . the most he or she had is plesant looking .dont u agree ?whether u are handsome or not , doesnt depend on whether u had a smooth face .

personnally i dont think marv14yag is ugly though i never see his picture . i think what the girls meant is that he is not handsome, thats all. unless marv14yag has a horse face or what ever, otherwise he is just another normal person to the girls. i know a woman who is really ugly . but she is very optimistic.her face is like a horse. i am saying this seriously . i think her mother used to tease her f/ her ugliness . and thats why she learn how to accept critizism .And in fact she is a comedian now for a few movie . \"

Well, as for scars. Scars dont\' matter, some girls could even like scars. It\'s the shape.

HOWEVER...Soemthign I was thining...

If you have inadequate bone structure but built up the muscles on the bones, could you not make the face appear to be in the riht proportion?

You see, the bones would be all out of wack, but the muscles on top of them would be in proportion. Umm...It\'s like, if you have skinny arms (bones tructure) but worked them out only it would appear as if they were NORMAL!

Now, the question is, hwo do you work out the muscles to the right proportions? Unles, automatically the msucles are worked more when they are on a smaller bone structure, because they must work harder.

Bart

[krtel]

Well with that attitude I can see why even the average girl wouldn\'t consider you. In one of your previous posts, you were frustrated with the fact that 3 girls called you ugly. Well, let me tell you, attitude and personality play a major role with girls. I\'m not the best looker. I would rate myself as a \"7\" guy. You know what? That 7 is a looks rating. My personal rating. Girls that know me and that are my friends have rated me in the 8.5-9.4 range. Why? Because they know me - my personality and attitude makes me hotter than I actually am.

Now, I may not know you very well, but from the way your attitude is on this forum, I think your bad attitude towards women works against your looks. Its just like a \"10\" girl with a \"3\" personality - she\'s drop dead ugly in my eyes.

- Krish

[**DONOTDELETE**]

Bart, get out of your head and start saying Hi to some girls and trying to have conversations with them. Make friends with some girls. Just friends. See if you can get some girls to like you.

You talk more [bad word]. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] You\'re making stuff up in your head rather than going out and interacting.

Just talk to people.

And don\'t write me back a bunch of intellectualizing bullshit mental masturbation, now.

Just talk to people, go do it.

[marv14yag]

That means that they like you as a friend.

Seriously, I didn\'t know you were a guy.

lol

You don\'t know me at all.

First of al, without looks, a girl will NEVER FIND OUT your real personality.

And, as far as how I \"think of women\", you dont\' even know.

Did I say how I thought of women?

No.

Did I say. I think all women are whores? No. Did I say, I love women, and value them for who they are, and that it is a gift to be the mother of the human race to bear children, etc. No, I didn\'t.

So, you don\'t know WHAT I THINK OF WOMEN DO YOU!?

If you are getting women, that\'s good..Do what you do. HOwever you think of them, that\'s up to you. lol

But, you can take your 9.5 personality and shove it up your ass.

Like I said. I\'m not skinny, so I don\'t have a \"personality\" and because I am not pretty I don\'t have the \"handsome\" oging for me. I\'m already at a disadvantage.

My bad attitude towards women huh? lol
First of all. Men who disvalue women seem to be the ones getting the MOST TAIL...NOw DON\'T THEY.

Even if I disvalued women, that would have very little to do with \"getting some.\"

And second. Personality? You are BORN WITH PERSONALITY!

Yeah.

So, if you think you\'re all good because you like soemoen for \"personality\" and not LOOKS, you\'re WRONG...Because you\'re BORN WITH A PERSONALITY TYPE.

Looks? you can change your body, etc. You cannot, however, change your personality.

I suppose that\'s the way it is though. My personality is too different. So I\'m have fewer members of the opposite sex interested in me, no matter my looks, body, etc...

I suppose that is just hte way it is.

I know for a fact hat I\'m not alone. There\'s tons of peopel, both male and fe-male that are alright people. But are going out with noone, nad probably never have before. Looks, I\'m taling about cheerleaders and [bad word]...Oh well...

The way it is.

One day people will learn to make the ight decisions...Untill than like I said, they get SCREWED OVER.

You see, I pointed out the fault in a woman, but you can also easily point out the fault in a man. Ie, only caring about sex, etc.

That is just average peopel though. Thats\' like saying ALL MEN are stronger than women, and than you have a woman that is stronger than a man, etc.

Bart