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    A tribute to FTR\'s \"Sexual Confidence\" Hit essay :

    ORAL SEX - AN ODE TO LOVE


    Penis breath, a lover\'s dread
    Is what you get when you give head
    Unpleasant as it tends to be
    Be grateful that he doesn\'t pee
    It\'s times like this, you wonder why
    You bothered reaching for his fly
    But it\'s too late, can\'t be a tease
    Accept the facts, get on your knees
    You know you\'ve got a job to do
    So open wide and shove it through
    Lick the tip then take it all
    Don\'t drag your teeth or he might bawl
    Slide up and down, use your tongue
    And feel the precum start to run
    So when the f*ck\'s he gonna cum?
    Just, when you can\'t take it anymore
    You hear your lover\'s mighty roar
    And when he hits that real high note
    You feel it oozing down your throat
    Salty, fishy, sticky, stuff
    Okay, already that\'s enough
    Let\'s switch you say? before you gag
    And take revenge,cause now YOU\'RE on the rag!

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    no fair,... share with the class, Elana!

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    Come on you nasty ladies. I guarantee you don\'t need any pointers. When I get into that dangerous horny zone....I just feel like such a naughty girl and say whatever I feel. I love to watch what is being done to me (or him) and then describe it vivid detail.

    I am still waiting for Exit to show up. I told him to bring a recorder. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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    I have read and reread FTR\'s tutorial there a couple of times... [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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    You want to put him in a state of bliss and keep him there. He will be incoherent and he\'ll say all kinds of things to you, none of which are fair game to take seriously

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    I thought one of the most telling movie scenes re: sex noise and \'blah blah blah\' during sex was in the movie White Palace. The lead actor, James Spader, has just come back from a one night stand with a woman (Susan Sarandon) that he had while drunk. After he\'s rested, he\'s at work remembering little bits of the evening with her, sitting there at his desk smiling to himself, and he\'s hearing these sounds replayed... her mumbling/babbling cooing little sounds she made as they were doing it. She wasn\'t saying anything in particular, just kind of in her own little blissful world. That was her form of \'speaking in toungues\'. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

    About the leaving them alone thing, having your own life, etc, yup FTR is right about that. It\'s that old caveman thing, I think - they peek out for a while, come out and play with you, and then retreat. And get really annoyed if you try to interuppt or shorten the length of the retreat time. Under no circumstances should you actually enter the cave! (show up on their doorstep, etc) Way too pushy.

    Now it seems women respond (as icemone said) similarly, not so much with the retreating thing, but to be ignored for a few days? I dunno... it\'s tricky - making that period of time too long can really ice a woman up.

    What do you think ladies?

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    What do you think ladies?

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    With the utmost due respect, I don\'t really agree with that, unless of course the man is married, involved in the swinging scene or in a serious relationship. I am all for being very cool and not even the slightest bit needy, but I have found that most boys don\'t like to feel like they were used. They want to think that they made you feel so good that you NEED some more. I expect this to be mutual. You gave them such great sex that they can\'t stop thinking about it. They NEED more. They can\'t even consider that it was a one night stand and that they won\'t be with you again.

    I expect them to be so turned on that they will have to call you as soon as they get home. When they aren\'t with you they want to call you to talk to you about what they are going to do to you when they see you again. I want to create a monster that is so horny he can think about nothing but my pussy.

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    I hear what you\'re saying, Elana. And say whatcha will... if you\'re looking for a fun and excitement and illicit sex with that married guy from work, ... do ya really want to take a stifled, bored married guy and get him addicted to your pussy? That\'s when ppl tend to get careless. I\'m not looking to play with people\'s lives here. I think it can be a dangerous situation. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] It\'s almost like... you should have a warning label stamped on it! \"Highly volatile! After consuming this product you will never be the same!\" LOL [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    I\'m just messin with ya....

    At the very least have a conversation BEFORE the deed, to make sure you\'re both on the same page re: discretion. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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    That\'s why I excluded married men from this [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
    Different rules apply
    Read the first line..

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    Yup, I caught that, thanks. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

    I\'m just thinking out loud this morning. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

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    One more thing about talking dirty. FTR talked about this many times. Finding their \"magic word.\" [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
    A word(s) that used at the right time will set them off like they didn\'t even know was possible.

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    Enticing -I loved that movie so much.

    I make sounds. I will talk if I have to but I\'d rather be left alone. It annoys me sometimes and it throws me off if I have to talk, and I can\'t think of anything to say. To me, that\'s really not a time for talking - those are two completely different states of mind. I like to be rendered incoherent, too, and not have to be the porn star all the time. If I have it well enough together to form words, I\'m not where I want to be.

    I want a morning after call, too, definitely. It\'s a big disappointment if they don\'t call within 24 hours. That\'s the first let down, the thing that lets you know he\'s part of the herd.

    Icemone - always call.

    Advise to women is not advise to men. I don\'t think a woman should call a man within 24 hours, if at all. He should be the first one to call, and he should do it quickly, to follow up.

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    &lt; if you\'re looking for a fun and excitement and illicit sex with that married guy from work, ... do ya really want to take a stifled, bored married guy and get him addicted to your pussy? That\'s when ppl tend to get careless. I\'m not looking to play with people\'s lives here. I think it can be a dangerous situation. It\'s almost like... you should have a warning label stamped on it! \"Highly volatile! After consuming this product you will never be the same!\" &gt;

    Enticing,
    Have you ever done this before? It IS dangerous. Here\'s my ever present dilemma - Why in the world would I do it if I didn\'t want him to worship sex with me (i.e why would I halfway do it?)and me have the utmost pleasure? If I\'m going to do it, he\'s going to want me one way or another for the rest of his life. Even though he knows, going in, that he can\'t have me. It does make steady lifelong friends.

    Here\'s what you have to do. It may sound callous, but, you have to totally separate sex from the attraction for the man (if you REALLY don\'t want to play with the lives of others) and never allow him (or yourself) to consider that the affair is anything more than sex. I suppose it\'s similar to what guys do with prostitutes.

    Sometimes it\'s worth it, sometimes it\'s not.

    Good luck in making the right call.

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    OR

    you can be crazy in love/lust with each other and talk about it all you want ... because he knows you never, ever want to live with anyone or marry anyone again...and you know he loves his family life ... and you still have a commitment together, that you\'ll always be his \"piece on the side\" or whatever.

    This does mean you can\'t have an affair with a married man who has no self-control or who is confused about what he wants.

    but it doesn\'t have to be just sex, either.

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    You gave them such great sex that they can\'t stop thinking about it. They NEED more. They can\'t even consider that it was a one night stand and that they won\'t be with you again

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    I feel that reaction from a HardLapDance!...nevermind the rest. You girls make my head explode!!! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]

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    Girls I was watching Reality the other nite and there was this girl who said that she can screw a guy whenever she wants.All she has to tell him is \"come I\'ll give you a blow job\" and never to mention commitments or marraige.
    She says that it\'s easier than preparing coffee.

    Is this your experience too?

    [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

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    Enticing,
    Have you ever done this before? It IS dangerous

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    Um, not quite. I\'ve seen it happen to others. A friend of mine\'s husband was discovered after a 6 month affair on the side and when she basically gave him the ultimatum, \"it\'s either me and the kids and our house and marriage therapy, or HER\", he went with HER, who she now refers to as \"whore\" (but not in front of their kids). I say, he probably fell in love and well, [bad word] happens. But to her face, I\'m supportive. There\'s no doubt in my mind that the relationship with the \"whore\" will be on equally slippery ice, someday. And yes, there\'s two people in relationship, it\'s never the fault of all one person.

    I don\'t think that every man you make love to is going to fall in love with you and walk away from everything for you! If you\'re messing with married, hopefully you\'re both married and have something at risk. Ever see the movie \"Unfaithful\"? Young sexy book dealer had nothing at risk.. and then he goes and does dumb [bad word] like write stuff on her thigh that her husband might discover. Hello....

    How did we get off on this tangent. This is what\'s called Paralysis of Analysis. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] As I\'ve said before, look at the risks and plan for them. Going into something like blind, as if you were swept up in some romantic fairy tale, is foolhardy. If you wanna play safe, you have to have a plan. My philosophy is life is too short not to experience everything I want, I know it\'s egotistical and it\'s not for everyone. But that\'s just me.

    Peace! xo

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    Seadove, yes, in a word.

    \"do ya really want to take a stifled, bored married guy and get him addicted to your pussy? That\'s when ppl tend to get careless.\"

    In answer to the first question, yes, why not?
    Commenting on the second statement - that\'s the issue.

    It\'s not necessary to separate sex from love in the case of a married man. It IS necesary to separate feelings from actions.

    You have to get out of the mindset that being in love or being in lust means marrying. Or even that you have to be with the person all the time, or so often that it would raise suspicions. Longing is part of it. Anticipation makes gratification more intense.

    Stolen moments with someone married are no indicator of what he would be like to be married to, so it\'s kinda stupid to go from fantasy fulfillment scenarios (which is what you\'re doing with a married man)to city hall. Reality\'s the kick in the teeth it always is, maybe worse in this kind of situation.

    Married men are often hungry for romance and seduction as much as they are for hot sex, too.

    Enjoy it for what it is. It doesn\'t have to be insignificant, JUST sex, just anything. It is whatever you two want it to be, for however long you two want it to last, and you just have to act like adults and exercise restraint appropriate to the situation.

    Feel how you want. Watch what you DO.

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    We\'re so cheap hah?

    Annnd that woman was so fat, far from being a 35 yr old blonde chick. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

    Ok, she\'s right, I guess. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img]


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    FLT,Enticing, Elena, all,

    I do call and
    as I mentioned with quite a few women I made it VERY Romantic ( Morning Breakfast, etc. )

    For instance, with one woman it seemed so OBVIOUS to Me and everyone who saw us that we had
    something very special-----to the point where people would look at us and actually stop to ask us
    how long we\'ve been together because we made such an incredible couple and she was glowing!

    ( we had met the night before for the first time, talked over coffee and walked around the city getting to
    know eachother better----she said I knew her
    better than anyone in the US because her
    family is in Korea and they weren\'t very close )

    The sex was AMAZING!!!! Passionate, Intense and All Night Long into the morning and again after a few hours
    sleeping in eachothers\' arms.

    Yet sadly, she isn\'t like Elena ( and Me [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]
    She said I was her SECOND lover and that her ex-boyfriend was a \"traditional\" man of her own culture who never
    cared about HER PLEASURE.

    I\'m still not getting a clear explanation and am giving her some space yet not ignoring her, either.
    Meanwhile, I\'m seeing several other women and will be more carefull in my choices.

    Seems like she couldn\'t handle things
    ( like finding out that she can easily enjoy Multiple Orgasms and is a \"squirter\" who ejaculates.

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    Enticing -I loved that movie so much.

    I make sounds. I will talk if I have to but I\'d rather be left alone. It annoys me sometimes and it throws me off if I have to talk, and I can\'t think of anything to say. To me, that\'s really not a time for talking - those are two completely different states of mind. I like to be rendered incoherent, too, and not have to be the porn star all the time. If I have it well enough together to form words, I\'m not where I want to be.

    I want a morning after call, too, definitely. It\'s a big disappointment if they don\'t call within 24 hours. That\'s the first let down, the thing that lets you know he\'s part of the herd.

    Icemone - always call.

    Advise to women is not advise to men. I don\'t think a woman should call a man within 24 hours, if at all. He should be the first one to call, and he should do it quickly, to follow up.

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    I already pm\'d FTR and thanked her, but I wanted the rest of you to know how totally awesome she is! I took her advice about BJ\'s/c*ck worship...WOW. (This was an area of weakness for me...bad experience in past made me not anxious to repeat)

    My guy is STILL talking about it. I think he was blown away (pun intended) by me. Everything she said would happen, happened. And the cool part is now I actually knew what to do when I got a \"signal\", or for that matter, knew WHEN I was getting a signal.

    No, I didn\'t make it to two hours - I got too turned on myself to make the BJ last over 35 minutes. But as far as foreplay, this was some of the best!

    Keep the sex tips coming!

    Goddess

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    He\'ll never forget you.

    So glad to be of service.


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    \"Keep the sex tips coming!\"

    Amazing what happens once YOU concentrate on pleasing your mate isn\'t it? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img] Now he\'ll be driving down the street, that feeling will hit\'em, and he\'ll think, \"Damn! Could there be more where that came from? I think I\'ll make that phone call!\" [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

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    Goddess, did you use the flavored lubes? Did you pick a favorite?

    And I\'m curious if you told him that you had had a bad experience before and you were trying to overcome it.

    In case he didn\'t know you were not only learning new skills but having to overcome bad conditioning, I just want to salute you for perservering and I\'m so happy for you that it turned out well. What a very, very good girl you are! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

    Love from the goddess in me to the goddess in you!


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    Gerund &lt;--------- opening fly, and ringing dinner bell~

    Come and GET it! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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    You\'re SUCH a tease...

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    &lt;chuckle&gt; [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

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    Great thread!

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    dude, did FTR become \"Anonymous\" ?

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    Yep [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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    oh ..

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    </font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
    Xehupatl said:
    dude, did FTR become \"Anonymous

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    Yep

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    WHY?


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    she´s not a member of the board any longer, that´s why

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