Well, the Marriage part is up to you. If you want the thing to go on as a fling/friend/sex, then I would get a Anone and Anol product and combine the two. Also, Arone will help too. A Anone only product may not be great for a long fling since your personality would need to be what the other person wants for it to go on. Anone only could just buy you one night stands unless the other person really likes your personality, but then your playing with their feelings. Best bet is to go with AE/m, SOE+NPA(DD#1), PI/w+NPA, etc.(it all depends on your age when it comes to the amount of Anone in your mix<more for older&gt. Actually, I would personally recommend for your situation one of the two above and PCC(copulin) since it is all about sex basically. The PCC will make you look like a person that is desired in bed basically for a male.