don\'t forget, a big component of attraction for men is looks. so to be inspired to want someone, i think a women usually has to be \"good looking\" to men. I don\'t think that is a nice thing, i think it is unfair to women, but unfortunately it is the truth. There are a lot of ways that women operate that aren\'t nice things, unfair to men, but the turth is, while all this maybe kinda cruel, it occurs it has an evolutionary foundation. Evolution does not move as fast as society, so there are things that are out of date, but then there are things that we look for that are for our own good.
I have seen some god awful stufff about how women\'s fertality functions with regard to male competition on these Discovery channel shows. It is stuff that I am sure women would think is cruel to their mates, but it is just something that evolution has driven them to do.
There\'s plent of attraction traits women look for that discriminates against me when they are poor indications of the truth. I don\'t like it, but I accept and understand why those traits of attraction are there, and I shouldn\'t be hurt by that.
As for what you said about guys overating there looks -- guys do this constantly. women usually under-rate themselves. I am not just saying this out of my own experience but out of the studies which consistently show this. It is funny, but it is so consistent with the machismo men can have and the insecurities that women can have. As for putting numbers, that is just an indication of how attracted someone is relative to the rest of competition in that population. I really don\'t buy your argument about using it as a excuse to exclude women and therefore not have to step up to the plate.
I would love to be able to look through a women\'s eyes for a day so i could better understand some of the processes of thinking that I don\'t like.
I am sure if you spent a day looking through a man\'s eyes, you would better understand some of the though processes that you do not like. Hell, I don\'t like a lot of them, but it is just the where nature has brought men, so I try not to have the internal struggle and accept it as okay.
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