Don\'t be a fraid to be bold & say genuine sincere things that make them \"melt.\" I think the trick is along the lines of what Irish said in the other thread, in my opinion if you get inside their head & think of what it is that is bothering them without them telling you & be able to say just the right thing, that\'s one step towards the \"Great Guy\" title.
For example, I brought a pretty girl I know by to my local bar where \"Sally\" works, this was a few months ago. My friend & I were playing pool, and between games we would just sit close to each other & share with the other whatever was on our minds, it was really nothing romantic between the two of us we are just close friends. Well as I was checking out I could tell \"Sally\" was disturbed, angry, etc... out of jealousy, I knew this & did not bother to ask what was wrong, but when I inquired about my check about these 8 coronas that were on, she stammered back, \"Oh those were what your girlfriend drank!\" I responded, \"Sally, she\'s just a friend of mine, & for your information I think you are the hottest girl in the bar right now by far!\" LOL she nearly collapsed, she put her right hand over her heart & literally sunk 4 inches in her posture, so I could tell she was melting & I gave her a little hug & then me & my \"girlfriend\" that I brought took off.
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