Mental Preparation for Nights of Flirting?

[bsxs]

Sorry if I\'m making too many posts, I\'m just in a creative mood right now.

Besides doing my hair, putting on cologne/pheros and all that... If I go out for a social event in which I will probably flirt, I need to listen to Andrew W.K. or Dillinger Escape Plan, something meaningless, crazy and silly. Listening to Incubus or Radiohead and the like don\'t get me very social, they make me think more.

What are some \'rituals\' that you do to get you in the right frame of mind for a very \'social\' day/evening?

[proteus]

Don\'t think too much - just act. You see a gal you like, approach immediately - don\'t start trying to get into state, or try to think of what to say. Just approach and say first thing that comes to mind. Only other thing I\'d suggest is if you\'re going out, don\'t flog the log before you go out on a big date etc. Some advice that you actually should as then you don\'t come off as desperate etc., but I think it ends up just making you too passive. Better to abstain as it\'s puts you in an active and aggressive state and more willing to take some risks.

[sabSpeaks]

http://sabnetwork.com:8080/confidence/

Ross has a shitload of things to try, if you have the time.

[Watcher]

Use NLP techniques to make it a instinctual reaction beforehand and then when it comes time u will just do it intuitively. Trying to prepare as you go or think in a conscious maneer and you will look like a fool in most cases.

[bjf]

thanks sab