Downloadable Guide to Flirting

[bivonic]

http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html

[bivonic]

This guide is very enlightening, highly suggested reading. I haven\'t seen a piece that covers body language + poise + voice intonation better then this baby.

[franki]

Yes, that is some interesting stuff. I believe the link to that guide has been here on the forum one or two times before though.

Franki [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]

[bivonic]

This was totally enlightening...

(Males please note: 80% of women think that they are too fat. In one American survey, women were asked what were the three words they would most like to hear from a male partner. The most common answer was not, as expected, “I love you”, but “You’ve lost weight”. While you should not make any comment on a woman’s figure unless you know her well, this compliment might please a girlfriend or close female friend.)

So MEN on Valentine\'s day test this theory & see which gets the more genuine positive reaction.

[bsxs]

This is one of the best online guides to attraction I\'ve read. This one has merit.

[**DONOTDELETE**]

Franki, you\'re too young to be so jaded. Sigh ... been there ... done that ...

[**DONOTDELETE**]

!! SDR was sitting in my bedroom and we were talking while I was getting dressed to go out with him last Friday, and when I took my robe off, he said \"You\'ve lost weight!\" I was so pleased I couldn\'t even talk, just stood there grinning. And then I had my clothes on and was sitting on the edge of the bed zipping up my boots and was just starting to stand up and he said \"You look great.\" Again, I\'m thinking Jesus, he\'s charming. Charming, charming. I didn\'t even have to fish for it. He knows exactly what to say. Before I could open my mouth to say \"Do I look all right?\" up he pops. Beautiful manners. [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]He\'s reading these books!

[bundyburger]

\"You\'ve changed your hair. It looks really great!\"

Say that whenever you notice a change and they are all over you. [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] ...bewaaaaahahahahaaa

[FerroMone]

nice article

[bivonic]

Not sure if this ethnically tied, but I found this tip for giving a signal from across the room good.

I do this naturally, but it says if you spot a honey you are digging across the room & get the opportunity to make eye contact, that you raise your eyebrows. This is a familiar jester that people do amongst friends when they cannot speak & it subconsciously makes them think that you look familiar. For example when Fergie (from Britain) walked down the ailes all of her girlfriends would wave to her, but it was not PC to waive back so she raised her eyebrows as a friendly \"hello.\"