Hi BlackWidow_Woman, all,
LOL Curious about your #7
And I\'d appreciate everyones\' advice on something.
Rather than a one night stand, I\'m looking for more of a \"Bed Buddies\" relationship ( s) -----as Romantic as possible without too many strings attached and of course, AMAZING SEX!!!! [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/wink.gif[/img]
I am a very intense person and tend to overwhelm women; especially the passive types who seem most
drawn to me.
At first they LOVE how I sweep them off their feet and seem to understand their every feeling and thought and fulfill their every desire.
But eventually, they CHANGE!!!!!!
Looking back on how quickly things happened between us,
how passionate and intense we are together
and much fun we are enjoying
and they can\'t seem to reconcile how they are behaving and whether they deserve to feel so great.
One woman said none of her friends or family
would recognize her.
( some have had either abusive or neglectful relationships )
I didn\'t realize that some of these women were
unstable and didn\'t really know
who they were or what they wanted
and seemed to
\"Become\" who they thought I wanted them to be
and then resented \"losing\" themselves? and became very passive aggressive.
I\'m VERY CLEAR about what I want and ask them about their values, hopes, dreams, desires, wants, etc.
to make sure I understand what they want and what will
make them happy. ( one of the latest said \"You make me SO HAPPY!!! and 2 weeks later, after not returning calls,
e-mails, now she\'s playing Greta Garbo and wants to be alone!!!
Whatever warnings there were I did not see, sense, feel, or \"smell\" them.
Thanks in advance
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