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    Default Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

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    For some reason I feel some pressure to get a girl, like soon.
    Maybe its because i wanna get a girl before my ex gets another guy.. so itll feel like I won. I\'m not sure it\'s pretty messed up. I know that it\'s dumb the whole \'win\' thing, but I really feel the need to get another girl like real soon. I kinda wish it would go away too.

    I\'m using 6 SoE, 3 NPA, 1 Pl/m. I hope I get some results soon. Do you know what\'s up with this attitude?

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    You answered your own question:
    \"it\'s dumb the whole \'win\' thing\"

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    Yes yes I know how dumb it is. That\'s not the thing. I want to know how to get rid of this. I feel like it might be a shot to my self-esteem for some reason.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    There\'s that old saying:

    \"Sin in haste and repent at leisure.\"

    Get in a big hurry and you\'ll make a mistake you\'ll regret. Just keep busy and enjoy yourself - that should be revenge enough.

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    Ride it out. It will go away by itself.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    Yeah that sounds pretty good to me. The only problem is I\'ll still think of her. I really want these thoughts out of my head. You know, hook up with someone to clear my mind. It really bugs me how she wants to hang with everyone except me.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    Yup. Love stinks.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    The reason I want a girl, is so these thoughts can get out of my head, and so she\'ll start to feel somethin, knowin that she can\'t get with me again. I want to start a band and crap. I\'ve made music all my life, but not in band form. It\'d be easy to do. I get stage fright though. Yucky. I\'ll have to get over that. I just feel some insuperiority thing because she pushes *ME* away.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    I\'m not sayin I\'d use this girl, but so I felt like I didn\'t get screwed over from my ex.

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    No, you\'re saying you\'d use that girl. [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/laugh.gif[/img]

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    Hehe well kinda. At first it\'d be like that but I think it\'d be more like she will take off where my ex left me off. I still lack some type of revenge against my ex.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    Revenge? How will screwing yourself up and using somebody else get you revenge?

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    Make a xerox of a picture of her face and use it for a dart board.

    If you take it out on some other girl, and that goes bad, then you\'ll have guilt on top of it all.

    Try to stay away from negative emotion and just let yourself get over it, is my best advice. Maybe the guys know better.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    Well that\'s true. I wouldn\'t think of it as revenge. Just something for my self-esteem. I know it sounds crappy, but I don\'t know what else to do in this situation. I\'m tired of feeling this way.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    You\'ll help your self esteem the most by behaving like a gentleman. Go out and have fun an dstop worrying about revenge.

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    bsxs, how old are you? Your profile\'s not filled out and I was just curious.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    16, first relationship as you can probably tell. I know these feelings are very immature, but hey we all go through it once.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    Dealing with this sort of disappointment is part of becoming a man.

    You can do it.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    sure sounds that way to me too..and using ppl will come back to haunt ya in the end.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    Keep in mind what goes around comes around.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    16!!!!!!!!!!!!!..lmao listn..get another box of worms and just go fishing

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    We\'ve all been through it. It hurts and we sympathize with you. The only smart thing you can do is move on. Don\'t miss out on all the good things because of this. Go out and have some fun, the hurt will go away after a while, it always does.

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    His ego\'s scorched. That\'s a real bad feeling.
    What do you think, martial arts? That seems to help with a lot of things. ...

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    It helps (helped) me.

    Time is about the only sure cure. We all get burned and how we handle it is what really makes the difference. Going on and having fun is the best way to forget.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    16 is to young to worry about lost love anyways..sorry if that sounds cold hearted but thats the way it is..and all here over 25 know it too.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    It still hurts when you are there.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    And never worse than when you\'re 16.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    sure it does but sitting around moaning about it isnt gonna solve it no more than using some1 else will.

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    Default Re: Weird pressure to get another girl... (Confusion)

    It is part of the growing up process and learning from it is the best you can do. If you don\'t learn something, then she just may have come out ahead.

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    A couple of simple supplements that might help would be 5-HTP and/or phenylanaline. Both are amino acids or simple precursors so are fairly innocuous and easy to obtain (they\'re really just concentrated foods). Take one at a time on an empty stomach an hour before eating proteins again.

    They might brighten your mood and perhaps reduce the obsessiveness of a broken heart.

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