Gain experience. Every once in awhile, call her up (if you can do this -- you might have too many feelings to be able to) and be casually friendly. Or send her an email, even if it\'s just a joke with a note, like \"I saw this, laughed, and thought you might appreciate it.\" In other words, don\'t ask for anything at all. And in two years, see how you feel. And see what happens in the two years to you. I know it\'s hard to believe, but it\'s possible you could meet someone else and fall even harder in love. I can understand her decision because it\'s very painful to have strong feelings for someone you can\'t be with, especially if it\'s to the point that you can\'t sleep, can\'t eat, don\'t want to be around other people, etc. So for right now, the way you love her is to keep your distance.
I say keep hope, hold a good thought, and wait and see. Meanwhile enjoy your life as best you can, including the opposite sex.
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