I had a quite dear girlfriend who unfortunately lived very far away (500 km).
Because I still lived with my parents, I always paid her a visit only every weekend.

I got to know her in a completely different way as usually: We wrote many e-mails
before and found ourselves very kind to each other.

We then started to see each other and it was the greatest love for us both in our life.
Because I had to study for examinations, I couldn\'t go to see her for 6 weeks and we
only could make telephone calls - this should not have happened...

She then said that she cannot have a \"far away\"-relationship because she then permanently
would be physically missing me (my warmth) and the relation ended in a tragic discussion.

This has injured me very seriously until now. We had no more contact since then.
I know that she has loved me very much but didn\'t want that I move to her only because of her.

In two years I am free and independent and I could move to her.

Will there be a chance, after such a long time again, to make a new start?

Or would a woman rather say: No, it hasn\'t been supposed to be and there is no second chance ?
(Although we suit each other very well)

How should I behave?

She has offered me to maintain a \"good friendship\" but I am afraid that I then can never
have a relationship with her again - and I would die if I would see her with a new friend...

How shall I spend the two years? What will she do in the two years?
(She´s 28 now (time to get a secure relationship for women??? - I´m only 24
and not very experienced with women)

Shall I gain broader experience with women, what she wouldn\'t notice...
and sometime then appear again, and then try to start a \"new beginning\"
under better circumstances (without the large distance)?

Or should I go to her now and offer her a friendship?

Pheromones won´t help here, because they won´t change the fact that we
are separated by distance, which allows no spontaneous relationship.
I cannot have a relationship to her as long as I cannot move...

What would you do if you meet a man, love him, but because of unfavorable
circumstances get separated from him - knowing that he could come back
after quite a long time.

Would you abandon all feelings that you felt for him, and say: \"ok, there´s
no other way than to go on with my life like nothing has happenend?\"

I am also afraid that I come back and notice that she has a new friend.

I cannot express this very well, hope one can understand it?
Please give me a piece of advice...

But living two years like an \"eunuch\" and then noticing that she possibly
has seen things not that serious... That would be very bad...


Love is such a cruel thing sometimes...

Thanks for your time!