What do Women Want?

[Bottle]

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Yes, it\'s correct -- I posted links above. The

thing about how and why women talk, and how frustrating it is for a woman to try to talk to a man when he keeps

butting in and saying \"Do this! Well, then, do that!\" is well documented; many counselors have written advice

about this phenomenon. I think it has to do with the fact that women connect everything both factually and

emotionally at the same time. So while a woman is trying to convey an emotional experience, the man is just

processing the facts she\'s reciting, and expecting them to lead to some conclusion. When they don\'t, and if

she doesn\'t tell the story in a linear fashion, he just can\'t process and stops listening/shuts down. I\'ve

seen more fights betwen men and women because of this, where she says \"You talk to me like you think I\'m

stupid\" (because he keeps telling her what to do) and he is completely bewildered because how could his reaction

be wrong? It\'s LOGICAL. arggg
&lt;br&gt;
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I

learnt to just give the women I loved a hug [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

thank god

[Icarus]

Whitehall:</font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
But then, he died a virgin.

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Falsehood! He had it off with some prostitute when he was a lad!

Steve

[Bernard]

yes i

agree that women may not put looks as important as men . im sure all of u agree that no matter u are a men or

awomen. u do like good looks , isnt it?lets forget about whether looks are important for amoment. let me ask u, do

you women belive in love at first sight. if u do, what makes u think that u fall in love with him just one look. u

know nothing about him, what kind of person he is and yet women say that they fall in love with him.when comes to

sex ,do woemn prefer ahunk or ordinay guy.lets assume that both of them have equal flirting skills. which of them do

u prefer?i recetly read that a hunk makes love to mother , aunt and daughter. he is the girl\'s boyfriend. when

asking the mother and the aunt why they do that and betray their daughter ,they say he is too handsome to resist! it

shows women are unable to resist hunk eventhough they feel that looks are important to them. i also need to reming

women that though men cliamed women looks are important to men, u do see lots handsome men with ordinary looking

women.so what does that show? men and women are the same. it is only that we interpret it differently only.another

thing is that men are the usual pursuer.men not only chase the beautiful babes, we would also go for ordinary women

with outstanding / attractive characters too !dont women does that too if they the

pursuer[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

pardon me for poor language [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Elana]

I prefer

a good looking man with a nice body.
Simple as that

Yes, he must have a great personality, similar beliefs and a

great sense of humor, but first there must be chemistry.

[Sexyredhead]

I

don\'t believe in love at first site. I also don\'t believe a pretty face or a hot body is enough to betray your

family/friends over.

You can\'t generalize with women any more than you can with men.

[Elana]

No...I

don\'t believe in LOVE at first site. LUST at first site......for certain!

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[tounge]

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/>
&lt;br&gt;------------------------------------------&lt;br&gt;...the real secret is that she believes and can

feel that the guy GENUINELY LIKES

HER.&lt;br&gt;------------------------------------------&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;FTR\'s right about that. In the

\"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus\" books by John Gray, he takes great pains to hammer home one point that

guys should take to heart, to the effect of:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;\"Almost all men vastly underestimate how much

power they possess to attract women. A man exercises this power when he simply: lets a woman know that he likes

her, or that he\'s attracted to her, or that he finds her interesting, or that he\'s interested in her, that she

captures his imagination, etc.

<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> Absolute Rubbish!

[sophie]

OMG, why

is this thread still around?? I stop in to lurk for the first time in about 3 months and this damn thread is still

here.

hi everyone, I am not the same person that posted this original thread although a part of me is....(been

thru so many midlife crises since then, I am definitely not the same person), but it sure is intriguing to read now.

just saying hi. I love you all as always. Especially elana, love your candor. I\'m striving for that too. XXOO

[Elana]

{{{{{{Sophie}}}}}}} I wish you would stick around. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
I totally

miss you.

I am PMing you

[tallmacky]

Hey

Sophie! Deja vu, eh? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

I guess you can\'t split women down the

middle, but what many are forgetting or I didn\'t see yet, is I think looks/sexuality in a man matter more to a

woman depending on her own sexual libido. If her sexual liking/libido or just man-liking is higher then she will

probably enjoy sexuality more, and thus men\'s looks are going to actually be more relevent. So looks are going to

matter, and the physical cannot just be ignored, visual over mental. Still women come in all varieties and

percentages, so thinking about it is almost irrelevent. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Those

women who aren\'t very sexual in that way, looks may take a backseat a bit more to how they feel, and walking on

the beach and reading poetry to eachother, and laughing....and other puke worthy stuff.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Good post, and Pantero, you keep goin\' after them, and yes

women are the prey? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] Yeah right!

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[BigGulp]

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Hey Sophie! Deja vu, eh?

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

I guess you can\'t split women down the middle, but what many

are forgetting or I didn\'t see yet, is I think looks/sexuality in a man matter more to a woman depending on her

own sexual libido. If her sexual liking/libido or just man-liking is higher then she will probably enjoy sexuality

more, and thus men\'s looks are going to actually be more relevent. So looks are going to matter, and the physical

cannot just be ignored, visual over mental. Still women come in all varieties and percentages, so thinking about it

is almost irrelevent. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Those women who aren\'t very sexual in

that way, looks may take a backseat a bit more to how they feel, and walking on the beach and reading poetry to

eachother, and laughing....and other puke worthy stuff. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Good

post, and Pantero, you keep goin\' after them, and yes women are the prey?

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] Yeah right! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]



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Boy TM, I see it entirely differently. I see women with the

highest drive being far less driven by the looks of a guy. They may be turned on by him and hit the sack with him

but if he doesn\'t preform she isn\'t going to stay very long and will soon be looking for somebody that can

really scratch the itch. At that point looks are secondary.

[tallmacky]

I am

just shooting the [censored]. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Yah, win on this one.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] I had to add something to all of that personality only talk.

[Elana]

How

about both? A hot guy that is a terrific Fvck

[tallmacky]

I

think people natural seperate it for some reason. Like a guy with a large unit, but for some reason cannot please a

woman? Then they talk about the guy with the small unit who is a master in bed, I think its all propoganda.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Same goes for the hot guy thing. People always ask to women like

in this thread, would you want a hot guy who is a [censored] or a ugly guy who is the sweetest person....Is there

not both? Talk about generalizations. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Try to make those

generalizations about women and see your ass on fire! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[Elana]

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Try to make those generalizations about women and

see your ass on fire!

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It\'s been done on this

forum....right Exit63? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Just look in this thread

[tallmacky]

[censored] [censored] bitch [censored] [censored] ass ass ass ass ass

Yeah the censor is back?

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[BigGulp]

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How about both? A hot guy that is a terrific Fvck



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What with Viagra and all there\'s no reason why a woman

can\'t have both unless the guy is a total macho door knob.

[Elana]

Jason....what did Chester do to Ash? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

[Elana]

</font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
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class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
How about both? A hot guy that is a terrific Fvck

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What with Viagra and all there\'s no reason why a woman can\'t have

both unless the guy is a total macho door knob.

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Why would a hot

guy necessarily need viagra. Stop dissing the pretty people. It is the same as saying all unattractive people

are...blah, blah, blah....all brown haired men are blah, blah, blah

[tallmacky]

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Jason....what did Chester do to Ash?

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

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It involved

the \"pipino\", that\'s all i\'m saying for BigGulp\'s sake.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

[Elana]

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Jason....what did Chester do to Ash?

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

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[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img] I am sorry. That was supposed to be a PM.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

[Elana]

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class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
Jason....what did Chester do to Ash?

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

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It involved

the \"pipino\", that\'s all i\'m saying for BigGulp\'s sake.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

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OH MY!

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
Pics?

[tallmacky]

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OH MY!

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
Pics?

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Yeah,

Ash sent me one. BigGulp after attack

[BigGulp]

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class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
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How about

both? A hot guy that is a terrific Fvck

<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">


What with Viagra and

all there\'s no reason why a woman can\'t have both unless the guy is a total macho door knob.

<hr

/></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

Why would a hot guy necessarily need viagra. Stop dissing the pretty

people. It is the same as saying all unattractive people are...blah, blah, blah....all brown haired men are blah,

blah, blah

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It really is a full moon this month.

What

I\'m saying is that just because a guy has a great package is no guarantee that he\'s able to use it well or

that it\'s in good working order. This can give the dweeb with the \"hot stick\" an advantage with the 10% or so

of women that need it done right and need it often. I\'m talking about super-sexual women here that need more than

the average 5 minute non-skilled worker. Geez. Where\'s the argument?

[Elana]

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It really is a full moon this month.

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/></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

Oh honey....it\'s not the full moon that is making you talk crap.

Chester really messed you up. I think he has forever screwed you up in the cabesa.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] Poor, poor scrambled eggs for brains, Big Gulp.

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

[BigGulp]

</font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
</font><blockquote><font

class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
It really is a full moon this month.

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class=\"post\">

Oh honey....it\'s not the full moon that is making you talk crap. Chester really messed

you up. I think he has forever screwed you up in the cabesa. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

Poor, poor scrambled eggs for brains, Big Gulp. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

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/></blockquote><font class=\"post\">


Yeah, my vision\'s been a little blurry too. I think I should

see somebody about that.

[DCW]

I heard a preacher

on the radio awhile back and he gave a list of things that women want in a relationship #1 on the list was

communication.
Someone who she talk to and who is responsive, that’s why u find a lot of lonely women on chat

lines.
The #1 for men was sex (anyone surprised?) [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] so

the
problem arises when he %$$%%^ u then falls asleep or don\'t call (sound

familiar?)[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img].
So men if you want the pum pum u better be a decent

listener
and be verbally available.



DCW

Don\'t hate the hater, hate the skater

-Lincoln

[Pancho1188]

</font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
I heard a preacher on the radio awhile back and he

gave a list of things that women want in a relationship #1 on the list was communication.
Someone who she talk to

and who is responsive, that’s why u find a lot of lonely women on chat lines.
The #1 for men was sex (anyone

surprised?) [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] so the
problem arises when he %$$%%^ u then falls

asleep or don\'t call (sound familiar?)[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img].
So men if you want

the pum pum u better be a decent listener
and be verbally available.



DCW

Don\'t hate the hater,

hate the skater -Lincoln


<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

I like these little surveys. I

always think that \"regularly-scheduled sex\" should be #1 on everyone\'s list...I mean, this is truly the

defining characteristic of a relationship. If you\'re having regular sex, you know you\'re in a relationship

(of course, if you\'re not, you could either be single or married...I don\'t know which

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]). Honestly, what else can\'t you get from your best friend? I

had this argument with two girls, one being my future girlfriend (how\'d I recover from that debacle? I have no

idea)...but seriously...my best friend at the time, to whom I was talking to about this, and I connected on a level

that you wouldn\'t believe. She told me things she never told anyone else, we were so close on an emotional level

that it wasn\'t even funny...she loved me more than anything in the world...but we didn\'t have sex. She

finally \"gave in\" and became my girlfriend, and that night we had sex...which led to more later. What changed?

Well, we were still connected in a way that some people only dream of...we still loved each other...the only

difference was one little thing that ticks in a person\'s brain that says, \"I want to have sex with this person

on a regular basis as well as be their #1 companion.\"

...they always say you should marry your best friend (of

the opposite sex...or same if that\'s your preference)...I wonder why...

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

Could it be because you have everything you want and are just

not having sex? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

Yes, you could have regular sex with your best

friend, but then you\'re just kidding yourself that it doesn\'t mean more to one of the two people

involved.

Think about it...if you\'re communicating but you\'re not having regular sex, you might as well be

friends. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

If you\'re having sex but not communicating, you

should be strangers meeting in the night for a one-night stand...

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

Don\'t get me wrong, I\'m all for communication, but I

don\'t consider it the #1 do-all, say-all, defines-a-relationship thing. I can call my mom or talk to my friend

if I really need to talk...I\'m not about to ask my best male friend to b------you get my point.


The

previous post was, as usual, a nice way for Pancho to put a spin on everything and break down things into their

basic components, which usually confuses the hell out of everyone. Reader discretion is advised.

[Brian]

</font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
I prefer a good looking man with a nice

body.
Simple as that

Yes, he must have a great personality, similar beliefs and a great sense of humor, but

first there must be chemistry.

<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

And don\'t forget a great

looking penis! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[DCW]

</font><blockquote><font class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
</font><blockquote><font

class=\"small\">Quote:</font><hr />
I heard a preacher on the radio awhile back and he gave a list of things that

women want in a relationship #1 on the list was communication.
Someone who she talk to and who is responsive,

that’s why u find a lot of lonely women on chat lines.
The #1 for men was sex (anyone surprised?)

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img] so the
problem arises when he %$$%%^ u then falls asleep or

don\'t call (sound familiar?)[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img].
So men if you want the pum pum

u better be a decent listener
and be verbally available.



DCW

Don\'t hate the hater, hate the skater

-Lincoln


<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

I like these little surveys. I always think that

\"regularly-scheduled sex\" should be #1 on everyone\'s list...I mean, this is truly the defining characteristic

of a relationship. If you\'re having regular sex, you know you\'re in a relationship (of course, if you\'re

not, you could either be single or married...I don\'t know which

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]). Honestly, what else can\'t you get from your best friend? I

had this argument with two girls, one being my future girlfriend (how\'d I recover from that debacle? I have no

idea)...but seriously...my best friend at the time, to whom I was talking to about this, and I connected on a level

that you wouldn\'t believe. She told me things she never told anyone else, we were so close on an emotional level

that it wasn\'t even funny...she loved me more than anything in the world...but we didn\'t have sex. She

finally \"gave in\" and became my girlfriend, and that night we had sex...which led to more later. What changed?

Well, we were still connected in a way that some people only dream of...we still loved each other...the only

difference was one little thing that ticks in a person\'s brain that says, \"I want to have sex with this person

on a regular basis as well as be their #1 companion.\"

...they always say you should marry your best friend (of

the opposite sex...or same if that\'s your preference)...I wonder why...

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

Could it be because you have everything you want and are just

not having sex? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

Yes, you could have regular sex with your best

friend, but then you\'re just kidding yourself that it doesn\'t mean more to one of the two people

involved.

Think about it...if you\'re communicating but you\'re not having regular sex, you might as well be

friends. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

If you\'re having sex but not communicating, you

should be strangers meeting in the night for a one-night stand...

[img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

Don\'t get me wrong, I\'m all for communication, but I

don\'t consider it the #1 do-all, say-all, defines-a-relationship thing. I can call my mom or talk to my friend

if I really need to talk...I\'m not about to ask my best male friend to b------you get my point.


The

previous post was, as usual, a nice way for Pancho to put a spin on everything and break down things into their

basic components, which usually confuses the hell out of everyone. Reader discretion is advised.

<hr

/></blockquote><font class=\"post\">

How old are u?
Your a divorce lawyer\'s dream you have a least 3

marriages in your future. Keep those support payments coming.
If you think sex is enough to sustain a marriage or

relationship your out of your %%$$##$$% mind.
Just ask Cindy Crawford, Venessa Williams, Posh Spice and all the

other beautiful women that had their husbands cheat on them.
And vise versa all the men who wives are surfing the

net looking for a connection.

My guess it that your young and your hormones are jumping out of your pants. I

suggest that you print out this post and keep it in a safe place where you can look back and learn from

it.

DCW

A bird in the bush is worth two in the tush. - Marie Antonette