The great thing about being female is that the vagina can expand but it can also contract. So size does not have to be an issue. If a woman has good control over her muscles, she can tighten up or loosen up however much she needs to in order to get the sensation she wants. She can also vary positions -- some positions are better with larger men and some things better with smaller men -- with smaller men you can do just about anything -- with bigger men, some things can be uncomfortable. The best position I\'ve found with smaller men is him on his back, woman on top with her feet flat on the bed, so there\'s a place to start if you haven\'t tried that. In any case, vary positions till you find one that gets you hitting the sweet spot. Size is a matter of individual taste, just like men\'s preferences in breasts - some like great honkin\' hooters, some prefer perky little titties. So I\'m not gonna lie to you - for some women, size matters, just like for some men, if she\'s not at least a D cup, he\'s not interested. I\'ll tell you a secret, though, and maybe there are some women out there will agree with me - the men I\'ve known who are small to average have been MUCH better lovers than the men I\'ve known who were large. There are exceptions to every rule. But for the most part, that\'s the truth. For that reason, I\'ve come to prefer men who are not so well-endowed. In order to compensate for their lack of size, they\'ve made it their business to learn the art of eroticism and how to give pleasure from more than just their penises. Generally they\'re more fun to be with than a guy who\'s got a lot of equipment -- that guy will often think that\'s all he needs, he\'s a super stud because he\'s big. Size is not what makes a guy good in bed. Sometimes a guy with a big dick IS a big dick, with a big ego, and not such a great skill set. Width is also an issue and for some women width is more important than length -- but again, there\'s such a thing as too wide. A very large penis can\'t go as many places as comfortably as an average to smaller size one can, so it\'s not as versatile when you have to work to accomodate it. If you\'re worried that your size won\'t please your partner, work on your oral skills - most women orgasm quicker and sharper that way anyway - work on your fingering skills, work on your kissing, work on your breast work, and when you\'re with a woman, experiment with every single inch of her to find out where her spots are and how she likes to be touched -- take your time with this. Most women have erogenous zones men haven\'t even considered - for example, besides ears and neck, there\'s the area just above the collarbone, which is very responsive; besides nipples, the sides of the breasts and the undersides respond well to being very gently stroked with the fingertips or kissed/licked; inside wrists, behind knees; just above the ankle bone, inside the arch of the foot, the toes; her bottom, the back of her neck, are all places that like to be kissed ... Talk to her and encourage her to talk to you - ask her if she feels she needs deeper penetration or more friction along the walls of her vagina - if she does, don\'t be ashamed to bring the toybox to bed - toys come in all shapes and sizes. If you focus on pleasing her, chances are really good she won\'t care how big your dick is. That\'s the truth.
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