Cant get it up...... Update: Score!!

[Lscread]

Hey, everyone! Just thought I would update you on the situation, since some of you were nice enough to respond to my last post. As you recall I was having trouble getting \"it\" up with my first girl friend since my divorce. In general your advice was to get more comfortable with her, tell her whats going on, ask for her to help you though it, and perhapes take some Viagra. I did all of the above. The Viarga helped, but I have to say it was her willingness to put out alot of extra effort to help me, that really did the trick. OMG!! I felt like she was going to tear me apart! SOOO HOT..... She really went above the call of duty to help me though...Great girl.
Interesting side note: I was wearing AE. I really think this is having an effect on her. I put about 1 dab on my neck. I find that she spends a unusual amont on time with her head on my shoulder, or kissing my neck. But last night was quite interesting. We got to my house, and I went up stairs and put some AE on my neck. When I came back down stairs she took ahold of me and started kissing my neck. When she got to the spot where the AE was she smelled, and kind of pulled back her nose for a second. Now I dont know what she was thinking....it was not a \"oh that smells bad\" kind of pull back, it was like \"what is that\" kind of reaction. I would describe it as almost startled, or suprised, baffeled. Has any one else had this happen?
Anyway, pretty cool, and it was by far the hottest night of my life. [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]

[Bruce]

Congrats. Sounds great. Communication can solve a lot of problems, and in the case of romance, if communicating a problem like that doesn\'t help, it might be best to move on anyway.
RE the reaction to AE: try using smaller amounts in more spots. When the fragrance fades, you get a musky/male smell that can get a reaction like that if you have too much in one spot.

Well... now on to the next level!

Good luck,
Bruce

[MOBLEYC57]

Lscread that kind of happened to me!! I use to be a BINGO-holic, and always put a little smell-me-good before I went out. When I got my first order, I put a dab behind each ear, and some smell-me-good on. The callers always flirt with me for some reason...probably the muscles, but I never paid attention to them, but smile at their remarks/comments. Anyway, one came over and said, \"What is that you have on, my friend said it was Polo?\" I asked her did she like it, and she took a sniff of my neck, popped up as though she had been hit in the back, and walked away quickly. When she came by, I asked her did I have on too much, or did she not like my cologne. She just smiled and kept on walking. About 15 minutes after that, all the female callers came by to get a sniff. After that day, she wouldn\'t leave me alone!!

P.S. Glad about you getting and using a WOODY!!!! Relationships can do something to you if you take it personal!! Congrats...life does go on!!!

[Whitehall]

Looking back, I find I was more at risk when the really new woman meant something to me. The more casual, the less the risk of a problem. Performance anxiety is the right phrase.

[MOBLEYC57]

I agree with you Sir. The key words being \"meant something to me.\" No one wants to lose what means something to them. It\'s like I always say...if you\'re in love, and your heart is broken because you lost someone...you can sleep with a thousand new partners, but the heart will always yearn for that SPECIAL her/him. Whatever phrase should be use...it\'s more important that his problem has been laid to rest [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/wink.gif[/img], and he\'s feeling good about himself. Tater!!