question for ladies on male hits

[xxxPantero]

okay maybe you gals could help me out

i\'m trying to analyze some behaviors, so tell me what kinds of hits YOU (women) get with men
the guys already have DIHL, hair-flips

what do you all have, that\'s consistent?
do guys get SVTP? (suddenly very tight pants) hahahahaa

oh well, define the reactions of men, as well as the results (what it led to)

thx, it will help a bunch in figuring about people!

[xxxPantero]

please reply?

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Dunno about anyone else but I really never thought too much about it.

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For me, it\'s like this about guys: If they hang around you, it\'s because they like you. If they like you as more/other than a friend, then after they\'ve hung around you long enough to feel like they won\'t be rejected, they ask you out. If they had a good time, they ask you again. So until they ask me out, I just assume they like me, period, and that there won\'t be any more to it than that, which is fine. So it\'s not like it\'s something I have to give any thought to, until I\'m asked out, and then I get to decide whether to say yes or no.
Did that make sense? lol

[xxxPantero]

good observations! very good! that\'s how it is, actually - which is why guys tend to fall into the \"friend zone\" because they feel like they\'ll get rejected for too long, never comfortable enough, and the woman assumes that he must not be interested or interesting himSELF!

anymore? come on, i know FTR isn\'t the only woman on here who\'s gotten hits and observed guys behavior. there\'s more than one type of behavior.

hunny-bunny, i know you had a hit recently... when you\'re finished shagging, could you report on it?

FTR made time for us from her busy shag schedule, it\'s the least the rest of you can do!

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If a girl/woman is staring or continually looking at you and smiles or even has a content look on her face, feel free to make a move.

[xxxPantero]

thanks bunny bunny

but i\'m not looking for signs that the female is interested....

i\'m looking for obvious and not-so-obvious signs from the males - i want to get a female perspective as detailed as possible

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OK. He\'ll start talking a bunch of sh*t to you. He\'ll ask you questions about your likes and dislikes, and everything you say you like, WOW, what a coinky-dink, he likes that too! and everything you say you can\'t stand, dammit! he absolutely hates that! and he\'ll try to make you think that this means something, so you\'re, like, karmically meant to be together or something, look at all the things you have in common, it\'s incredible. This is all malarky you sit and smile through until he gets it out of his system and decides to make his move. Meanwhile you try to resist the urge to get him to say \" WOW, I played with Barbies too when I was little!\" or \"You\'re kidding! I love cockroaches in chocolate sauce, too!\" and you hope he\'ll eventually stop talking sh*t and let you get to know who he really is...

He does things to draw attention to himself - he performs for you in some way, jokes, tricks, napkin folds, kicking butt at foosball, talks expertise on a subject - he goes out of his way to demonstrate competence.

He\'ll offer to pay for you or he\'ll try to provide for you in some way, like, some guy chats you up at a coffee shop while you\'re waiting for your latte and when it comes, he pulls out his wallet and says let me get that for you.
He gets really nervous if you\'re quiet.
He makes excuses to touch you.
His pupils dilate when he looks at you and he can\'t hold eye contact for too long without blushing. That or he stares.
He looks at your hair a lot.
He\'s mesmerized by your mouth when you\'re talking.
If you cross your legs or move your lower body in any way whatsoever, his attention goes there like ZOOM and then he\'s embarassed and can\'t look you in the face.
If the two of you are talking and someone else comes in the room, he gets self-conscious.

Pantero, you feel a little tug? That\'s me, jerking your chain. [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/laugh.gif[/img]

Seriously - it\'s all worth a hill of beans if he doesn\'t ask for your number AND CALL, or ask you out, so ... who\'s paying attention \'till then?

[BassMan]

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Seriously - it\'s all worth a hill of beans if he doesn\'t ask for your number AND CALL, or ask you out, so ... who\'s paying attention \'till then?

<hr></blockquote>You\'re good. Too good. I see way too much of myself in that description.

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Aw, shucks. I\'m just a girl.

[xxxPantero]

thanks FTR

also, don\'t jerk on my chain too hard, i might enjoy it

aw what the hell, jerk it baby!!!

(please get offended by this post, so i can pretend i don\'t care, thus proving that i do not like you so much) [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]

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I can\'t even talk to you right now. I\'m rilly mad. (ok, I\'m running away ... please chase me!)

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If you want hits, do two things:

1. Show up naked.
2. Bring beer.

:-)

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Make sure the beer is cold. That way you can use it to hold against the black eye she\'ll give you for showing up naked.

[xxxPantero]

what kind of games have you figured out that guys play?

everyone plays a game to get into and maintain a relationship, not all admit it.

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Don\'t even get me started.

Ok, the phone thing will drive you to madness and distraction, that\'s the first one.

C\'mon ladies, where are you? Here\'s your chance to rant...

[sophie]

OK, I\'ll share....I mainly use pheros for mine and hubby\'s benefit and believe me when I say it\'s like Viagra. I\'m too shy to elaborate but you get my drift.

one day (a few months ago) I used PCC at work (experimentally), applied about an inch of it and was working in fairly close proximity to this guy who is kind of macho and probably an alpha type. His eyes got big as saucers and he could not quit talking to me, even as I took a phone call from my husband (he kept commenting on every bit of our conversation). Very interesting and I was amazed at the result. I was truly not trying to tease but wanted to test the effect on a relative stranger. Well, I am a believer, there is no doubt pheros do work. I mostly keep them in my own bedroom now, but it is fun to experiment from time to time.

Another time I was wearing Realm at a store (I mostly use Realm for my own benefit and I like it), and this 20 something guy whispered \"whassup\" to me as I walked past him (I am in my forties). I wasn\'t sure this even happened then he got in the checkout line behind me even though I was in the longest line there. He stood very close to me too. I have had very mixed reactions with Realm though, some guys seem to not like it.

most of my hits are very subtle because I don\'t encourage them with body language or conversation, but from time to time I like to experiment in public.

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\"He does things to draw attention to himself - he performs for you in some way, jokes, tricks, napkin folds, kicking butt at foosball, talks expertise on a subject - he goes out of his way to demonstrate competence.\"

I found out long ago that kicking butt at foosball doesn\'t help with picking up girls. But I still play for fun.

What works better is asking her some deeper questions about herself and REALLY LISTEN.

[Gerund]

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I found out long ago that kicking butt at foosball doesn\'t help with picking up girls. But I still play for fun.
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Yep. I had an unstoppable push shot at forward position, never got me laid once! lol

[CptKipling]

lol out Friday night watching these people who obviously played far too much foosball.

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\"lol out Friday night watching these people who obviously played far too much foosball. \"

Hey, I\'m one of those people.

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I guess I was about 27, out at a club with some girlfriends, and this guy and I started talking, and then next thing you know he\'s playing foosball and making a big deal of it - I turned to my friend and said \"What is he doing?\" and she grinned at me and said \"Showing off for you.\"
Oh.
I had no idea. But that IS what he was doing, because when he came back to the table to talk to us girls, he wanted to be praised and acknowledged for his huge foosball victories.
If she hadn\'t pointed out to me that what he was doing was for me, I would have just thought he was nuts. Since then I\'ve been more sensitive to the \"showing off\" thing.

[BassMan]

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Since then I\'ve been more sensitive to the \"showing off\" thing.

<hr></blockquote>Think peacock - spreading his plumage for you.

[xxxPantero]

FTR... now THAT\'s the type of response i was looking for when i started this post.

thanks!!! peacock syndrome!!! it\'s the male version of women \"preening\"!

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Thanks, Pantero, but the simile was Bassman\'s. [img]/ubbthreads/images/icons/smile.gif[/img]
Glad you got what you were looking for.

[xxxPantero]

okay, then.. THANKS BASSMAN and FTR (ftr for the behavior, bassman for listing the name)

[Mamapunisha]

Well it\'s really a reaction towrads your presents as stating they know your there so there really trying to impress you, or show you that they are observing you, I know sometimes it can be Ira\'s(iratating), or to hallarious to even voice it out, to be mentioned actually, because it\'s there actions that gives it away, by the way observe my Forum Site: Daimondrocks.suddenlaunch2.com, and go ahead and drop me note on there as your opnion!!!!!!!!!