Pantero, you\'re awesome, you\'re a major dude. So good on you to notice how she gets off and what she likes to such an extent. I am like her about changing rhythm - it\'s like, you start to make noises because what he\'s doing feels so good exactly like he\'s doing it, it\'s taking you over the edge, and as soon as he hears you moan, he changes stroke and you\'re completely thrown off and have to start all over again, it can be really frustrating...I\'ll send you a couple of links tomorrow re oral for her -- sounds like you two are very open with one another, though - does it not work for you to encourage her to do whatever it is you are wanting? Is it easy for you to orgasm from oral with other women?I don\'t understand the question about her clit. Try everything -- all your ideas sound good.