What about your gf? Is there any way you can talk to her on the phone or meet in private? I only ask because now I think it\'s up to your gf now.She has to listen to her own daughter.I mean if she can\'t trust her own daughter\'s decision to be with you,then she has issues.I understand that she is trying to protect her from all the bad in the world,but eventually she will have to let go.It\'s not a lost cause-yet.But I still believe there\'s hope.