not exactly.
What happens is that women\'s requirements on a \"cool guy\" get more complicated and sophisticated. The nice guy image is still a 100% loser, but the posing macho guy starts to be a loser as well if he isn\'t cool or rich enough.
What does happen is that the cool guy in the end also has to be reasonably nice. But if the first thing they think of you is \"nice\" you\'re still toast.
It\'s still much much better to be in the 90th percentile of \'cool\' and the 50th percentile of nice than the reverse.
The women will complain about the bottom 20th percentile of \'nice\' and will weed them out.
Anyway, what did you do to change your image?
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