I'll admit I use pheromones to
attract other mens wives and girlfriends.
I'll admit I use pheromones to
attract other mens wives and girlfriends.
well thats kinda loserish.
"well thats kinda
loserish."
ditto
I agree with the
gist of what others are saying. These in IMHO no moral issue here. Whats the difference from any of a long list of
other things people do to attract others: any cologne/perfume, fixing our hair, wearing nice (or sexy) clothes,
wearing a Rolex, driving a beemer, what ever.
Paradoxically, we do all the above (and other) things (which
to some extent are facades) to attract someone initially, but who we really are is what (hopefully) keeps
them.
I personally am most seriously interested in a deep abiding connection with someone. The mones are
just part of the hunt. I doubt they will be relevent after making "first contact". But I'm not
sure.
Namaste
David
Wearing pheromones is doing people a favor, by creating a more pleasant pheromone profile for
them. You're pleasing the senses.
It is essentially no different, or no more deceptive, than wearing nice
clothes instead of going naked everywhere. Is wearing a shirt over your little beer belly deceptive? If somebody
dresses well or smells good (pheros help people to enjoy smells more thoroughly), their habit is often a lasting,
and therefore not superficial, difference in their attractiveness. I will always smell good (and dress with
aesthetics somewhat in mind), and any woman in my life can count on that enjoyment.
But what if
pheromones were magic -- so powerful, they caused every woman to find you attractive?
So what? Is it
unethical for Brad Pitt to be Brad Pitt? People are as free, responsible and attracted as they are going to be,
in response to all the things we do to ourselves to help our attractiveness. It is what it is. Who can judge how
attracted someone should be?
But even assuming we could and "should" be these kinds of
judges, maybe people "should be" more attracted to each other than they are. Maybe pheromones help redress
the excessive alienation, mistrust and isolation that plague capitalist, individualist cultures; and help remove
some purely biological obstacles to intimacy; obstacles that are less relevant, in practical terms, than they used
to be.
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