Lomo,
Here’s a little pep talk, even if you’re not interested in this girl use it as practice for the next one. Just call her on the telephone and be honest, tell her you’ve got so many things going on right now that you’ve had no time to call, but you’d really like to see her outside of work one night, you just don\'t know when you\'ll be free. She WILL understand and tell you it’s okay. Here’s the thing, she basically threw herself at you when you spoke about the game and how it would have been nice to go together (even though she obviously HATES the sport). She’s already made the first move and now it’s completely up to you. The choices are simple, choose one and go with it:
A. You convince yourself that you’re too busy for her and won’t be able to talk to her for the next 10 days, etc... She comes to the conclusion that you don’t like her, she moves on and so do you.
B. You call and explain yourself to show her you’re interested and you jam your foot in the door. She’ll still think of you as a potential date even a few weeks down the road, whether or not you ask her out.
Don’t let this opportunity close, cause once it happens you WILL regret it. If you want to convince yourself that you are too busy then my advice is to walk away at this second and never think about her again. Cause I promise once those 10 days pass by she really won’t give a shit about you!
Dylan
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