When
I was 20 (20 years ago) I noticed the whole objective of the get laid system was to get strong, in shape, grow tall,
go to clubs, be aggressive, hang around with the "cool crowd" that goes on the prowl for sex.
So I went and
built up my body from a 120 lbs 15% BF weakling to a 165 lbs muscular body with 6% BF. My confidence increased
but I was still being pushed by the mentality that more is necessarily better.
So then I joined M.A.. Surely
learning to fight and protect wins women. So I learned boxing, and wrestling etc and pushed my body some more. In
fact now I had decent fighting skills.
Before I knew it I was in a working atmosphere. I realized that more
money, a better car etc would get me noticed and feel great. So I pushed myself at work.
All this got me
attention, but I was to tense to notice it. My adrenal glands were burned out from pushing my body over the years.
In fact also I did get laid I found myself always obsessing over "did i get all the way" or maybe if I didn't "it
doesn't count". That win or lose mentality. That all or nothing mentality.
Be the best.. or be a
loser.
Well my friend all that pushing didn't get me much sex. I was constantly overtrained and didn't
know it. Yes I was too tense to know it. I couldn't even sense it.
Toss on some more NONE. In fact in the
early days NONE was all that was out there. More aggression.
Eventually the inevitable happened. Illness
set it and I got sick. I woke up from my slumber recently as my health has improved and I can tell you that I get
more attention from women, advances, and probably could easily get to third base with many of them because of the
secrets I'm about to share.
Are you ready?
#1 Don't be so results oriented. Instead
focus on mastery. Win or lose is a losing gameplan. Eventually we all grow old, and even olympians can't stay on
top of the world. So the best stategy is to build skills and get ready... RELAX.
#2 Get sleep.
Sleep is important to getting laid because with insufficient sleep the body doesn't repair, and anxiety, tension
and other problems settle in.
#3 Work out. But not to much. believe it or not you don't need a
body like a cover model to get laid folks. Just hit the gym 2-3 times week. Do 10-20 min of weights and 20-30 min
of aerobics. Your muscles, bones, and mind will thank you. You will also look better, and yes I have never thought
about wanting to lay a really ugly woman no matter how nice her personality and I bet women feel the same about men
so do work out but don't over do.
#4 Goal Set. When you goal set in life (for everything you do),
and plan your life you not only get more satisfaction but feel a sense of direction, pride, and accomplishment. Even
more so by focusing on developing skills you automatically will beat 9/10 other people out there who only focus on
winning. So whether it work, your social life etc plan things out .
#5 Don't over do mones. I
wear A7/SOE but sometimes I think I do even better without any mones anymore. The working out increases my natural
none levels anyways to a point that is acceptable . Before I used to think mones would solve my life.. now I don't
"need them". They just ENHANCE my aura...
#6 You don't have to lay the 10's. The 10's are
probably not even getting laid as much as the 7-8's! Don't go out looking to lay person X or beauty level 10 and
you will be ahead already. By not coming across as aggressive you will automatically appeal to many women as "I
wonder why he's not coming on to me so strong like all the other jerks?". Or " I wonder if he's sweet and shy and
when I get horny I know I'll wear some sexy clothes and come on to him". Provided you always talk to people and be
kind women will always see you as someone they can turn to and folks, WOMEN ARE HUMAN, they get horny too. If you
talk to enough of people in general soon the 30 somethings or the ovulating ones will come on to
you.
#7 Proceed with stealth. You know a woman many not want to let you feel her tits if she
doesn't even let you hold her hands first. So why not try that? Or touching her arm lightly? Depending on the
feeback you can escalate.
#8 Not all encounters have to end in sex. Sometimes a conversation with
a woman is just as good. When sex is not the only thing on your mind so much stress will be released that you will
be able to think provided you've done all the steps above.
#9 Don't kiss and tell. If you do
things may escalate. If you have an SO or at work you may even get fired. Simply say "Get your mind out of the
gutter" if some horny young prowlers think you only talk to women for sex. This will ensure your job
safety.
#10 You don't have to get a woman drunk to bed her. Women get horny too. In time if you
don't make a move they will provided you do all the steps above.
#11 Wear mones. But you gotta
learn to work without them. Your confidence can't come from them or like Sampson when your hair is cut you'll
lose all your power.
#12 Get self esteem from more than getting laid. Unless your a porn star you
don't need to base your self worth on sex. There are many people who don't have sex who have come to the top of
the world and are very respected.
#13 SENSE. Women give men signs all the time, but if your tense you
won't pick up on them.
I've hope I've help some people here.
HM
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