Introduction:
Hi everyone. Newbie to the pheromone scene here. I am testing out different
pheromones, and will try to keep a journal going here, at least until I’m satisfied that I’ve found something that
works pretty well and pretty consistently for me, or until i’m satisfied that pheromones don’t work or don’t work
very well. As of right now, however, especially after a couple of nights spent in Indianapolis that I’ll report on
below, I suspect that the right amounts of the right pheromones do indeed work, and well enough to make it worth
while.
Basic Info:
Male, 34 years old, 5’4”, ~140 lbs., white, heterosexual.
Other Info:
I’m a
pretty good looking guy in the face,
despite being so short. I’ve never had any woman really make anything
out of my height
, at least in person, whether or not that turned out to be a factor in anyone’s being
attracted to me or not. I’ve encountered some short guys for whom being short is a really big mental block, and
heard a lot about that, so I figured I’d address it. But it’s never been anything that bothered me or seemed to
matter to any women I’ve been with, so...
Also, in my own opinion, I could stand to be in a little better shape,
but again I haven’t ever heard that from women, and I'm by no means fat or anything.
I’m currently taking
Ritalin for adult ADD. I don’t know how or whether Ritalin would affect pheromone production.
Some
Non-Pheromone Variables to Keep in Mind:
In my journal, I can only compare my experiences going out using
pheromones with my previous life experiences, so some other recent changes in my life are relevant here:
First,
I've recently re-vamped my wardrobe. Finally found some “grown-up” shoes, etc. (I wear size 5 to 6 shoes, so it’s
more difficult to find quality men’s dress shoes in my size.) Anyway, I’ve been dressing somewhat better, so that
may be one factor in better reactions from women.
Second, I’ve always been shy, had troubles with social
anxiety, anxiety about approaching women, etc., which hampered my dating life enormously. But I’ve recently have had
some good break-throughs with something called “Redecision Therapy” (based on Transactional Analysis). So I have a
bit less approach anxiety, etc., anyway. So that’s another factor that’s going on in addition to the pheromones.
(These two questions were mentioned in one of the Newbie FAQs, so here you go...)
My Expectations: I don’t
really have any *expectations* about pheromones. I’m trying to keep an open mind and see whether they work at all
and if so what they are good for.
My Current Goals for Pheromone Use:
#1) Get laid more. I’m especially
interested in fairly casual relationships.
I was married before, so I feel like “been there, done that.” I’ve
tended to get pretty serious pretty quickly with most girls I’ve been with. That, or just a one-night stand/very
short-term fling. I’d much rather have less time-consuming and more casual “fuck-buddy” / “friends-with-benefits”
type relationships, or just less serious, non-monogamous type relationships. I’d settle for a never-ending stream of
easy one-night stands, though. Lol. That sounds funny, but it’s true. That’s something I’d *settle* for, but I’d
prefer a small number of casual sexual relationships with women I genuinely enjoy as friends.
#2) Better
evaluations from my students; better performance from my students.
I’m a grad student, and teach some intro level
courses. I’ve noticed a lot of what I’ve learned in the seduction community about body language, vocal tonality,
etc., etc., transfers over to teaching and leading classroom discussions. Charisma is just as important for a
teacher as in any other pursuit that involves social interaction. If pheromones can help there too, that would be
awesome. (Note: I don’t poke my students. Freaks me out even to think about it, and about the potential
consequences.)
#3) Better interactions with my dissertation director and readers.
#4) Get a job in
academia.
Again, even if it *shouldn’t* be, the fact is that charisma and personality are important in landing a
job in any area. Once I get an interview, if I can use pheromones to my advantage, that would be awesome.
OK
everybody. Hope you enjoy reading my journal entries as I explore the wonderful world of pheromones.
--Doggy
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