First timer! Order arrived, which to use first?

[Kahlua]

Hi all. I'm new and just rec'd my 1st order:
Liquid Trust
PCC
Alter Ego
Essence of

Woman
(edit oops, forgot to mention I also got Mistress
also:
3 Samples each of

SOE/w and The Edge/w, and 1 sample of Perception.

I'm looking to attract someone at work who I think is

interested. He occassionally flirts with me, is always friendly, and has even commented how pretty I am. I'm 40,

but look like I'm in my early 30's, have a killer body, long red hair, and great smile and very friendly. I'm not

saying this to be cocky-- just that I attract men all the time, but this one is giving me mixed msgs. Sometimes he

walks right past my office without saying hello/goodbye, etc even though we are friends. Other times I catch him

checking me out (I try to dress in ways that show off my body). He's not shy but doesn't make a move either.

Perhaps b/c it's work?

So I want him to WANT to be around me, stop in my office to chat (or at least say

hi/bye). Sometimes I feel like he doesn't even see me (despite my efforts to be where I know he'll be). We aren't

usually in close proximity except for in passing. Sometimes we're both in the lunch room together, and I guess I

could always ask him to help me move some filing cabinets in my office?

So what should I start with? What are

good combinations? He's 34 and we're both Caucasian, if that helps.