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    Default Somebody help! I'm in love! lol

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    people I need anyone who can answer this to do so. Tell me EVERYTHING I could possibly need to know!



    There's this guy I've been friends with for over a year and yes you've guessed it--- I've fallen madly in

    love with him!

    I know for a fact he finds me physically attractive but I need for him to see me as not

    just is very good friend/soulmate yada yada---I want some action!

    We're gonna be at this party in a few

    weeks and I need to make a MAJOR impact on him!

    WAIT! What did I just type? He told me I was his best friend and

    soulmate! This guy DOES love me!

    Sorry...thinking while I'm typing.

    Okay so the real problem is despite his

    feelings he has a hard time trusting. He has told me all along that he really wants love and that he wants to find

    "the one" but he has a VERY hard time trusting anyone because of how he's been hurt in the past and how most girls

    he has dated just didn't want the same things he wanted.

    On top of everything else...he's a VIRGO and

    I've been told you can be married to one for 40 years and have 4 kids with them and they still won't trust you

    100%.

    I'm not really asking for that---I just need this guy to trust me 85%!


    So here's the

    million dollar question:
    What combo of pheros will help me "seal the deal"?!?

    I want to turn him on but I need

    him to trust me more. I kinda want him to be magnetically drawn to me the entire night.
    This is very crucial

    because now we no longer live in the same state so I am rarely in his physical presence.

    I don't know how to

    describe him really...it's like he's dominant but he's not dominant. haha

    I assume that is what the ladies

    are speaking of when they say "alpha male".

    He's not that big muscle type of guy but he's a leader in his

    group of friends. Just tall, slender, loud to some degree and bossy(just like I like my men) but still sweet,

    romantic and sensitive.

    Damn what a combo! haha

    So ladies and gentlemen what should I

    do...or rather, what should I buy to ensure my success?

    HELP! I want him!

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    You might try some PI/w or Scent of

    Eros/w, but then again, Im not a girl, so Im just making a SWAG*. The socials (~nols) might work best and a little

    bit of cops get throwen in.




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    I can't even hazard a guess as

    to products, but I would definitely recommend experimenting as much as possible before your big date.

    Best of

    luck! and welcome to the Forum.

    By the way, there are some pretty good posts here on the Womens' Forum. I

    assume you're reading a lot.


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    Pheromone wise I'd think both alpha

    and beta androstenols (not sure what product would have them though).

    Otherwise much is going to depend on the

    way you act. Be positive around him, laugh, smile, be attentive, light touches, but whatever you do DON'T come

    across as "needy" or "possessive."

    Remember many guys base their feeings and attractions on a woman's

    appearances, both physical and social. Don't overthink or overanalyze things.

    Just my opinions.
    The opposite of love isn't hate.
    It's apathy
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    Wink Thank you all very much!

    Quote Originally Posted by Rbt View Post

    but whatever you do DON'T come across as "needy" or "possessive."

    Remember many guys

    base their feeings and attractions on a woman's appearances, both physical and social. Don't overthink or

    overanalyze things.
    Thanks for the tips!

    The last thing I'm gonna do is overthink/overanalyze!

    When I'm around him my brain shuts down and all my inhibitions go out of the window so ummm...yeah.



    Also it's not in my nature to be needy or possessive. I'm very careful because he is under alot of

    stress and the last thing I want is to be the cause of any of it.

    @idesign

    Yes

    I've been reading alot but I'm not sure what to do first or where to test the mones out without me getting jumped

    on!
    I'm already very friendly, dress nice and smile ALOT when I'm out so I don't want too much more

    attention---well anymore than what I normally get would mean men jumping over tables. Just being honest.
    Maybe I

    should just go easy on some things and get crazy with the mones. What do ya

    think?

    @Mtnjim


    Hey thanks! It's worth a try I

    say.
    It just might be the right combo!
    SWAG's are always appreciated.


    THANKS EVERYBODY!





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    The best advice is to start

    small and work up from there. You can test anywhere you normally go, grocery, coffee shop, holiday shopping,

    wherever. Notice what's going on around you. A friendly, nice-looking and well dressed woman is going to get some

    attention no matter what, so notice any "new" kinds of reactions. And let us know how it goes.


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    Lt would be your best

    choice.
    This guy sounds like hes has been hurt in the past from the girl that he loved. If he didn't make moves on

    you, I think he is still in love with past

    love.
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    I don't see a problem.

    We virgos are quite loyal, but so bloody sensitive. If you can deal with a complete drama queen then he's your man.

    Cheers. btw were there any mones involved on your part or not yet?
    Last edited by crashbandicoot; 01-04-2009 at 01:15 AM. Reason: spelling

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    There could be no good

    feeling as being in love. Do your best to make the other person feel special all the time. You can send an

    anonymous crush to your heart throb using AAfter Search box. They only disclose your identity if your crush feels

    the same way as you do. Here is what you need to write in the search box:
    crush:your email: email of crush 1 :

    email of crush 2 : email of crush 3
    then click web search button. Let the magic of love makes all of you happy.

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