Phew ! I like reading these posts My
imagination is in overdrive.
Hi Kahlua ! have been at the 'other' end of this situation before (x3 ) so
it is interesting to see it from your perspective. (Apparently if a woman looks up & smiles when you walk in an
office then it means that she would like you to ask her out - I still don't get it ....)
This happened
to me & eventually the lady had the good idea to ask one of my work colleagues whether "I was ever going to ask her
out".
On another occasion this didn't happen, she just smiled alot, & so I never asked her out (regrets
).
I know that it is not easy & socially the norm for a woman to ask a man out but in my opinion you can't (&
shouldn't ...) rely on him picking up on your signals - which are obvious to you but not to him - otherwise your
prey may get away ... It must be frustrating for you to drop clear hints for them not to be picked up on. You have
to find a way of making it obvious to him that "you like him" - maybe speaking to one of his work colleagues about
it (best way ...). Bite the bullet girl
I know how you feel, mind you - I've found a nice waitress
where I frequently have lunch but I'm not sure how to approach her I make ordinary conversation with her.
She is pretty & nice ....
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