Hello,
This is a very interesting subject, that you could probably write an entire book on (maybe there is one already), so there probably aren\'t any pat answers, but if everybody puts in their 2 cents, it should be interesting.
My 2 cents would be that it you have to take the quality as well as the qantity into account. Here in Japan you rarely find anyone making more than the very slightest amount of eye contact. If a woman seems to like you what she will do is simply \"seem to appreciate\" that you are looking directly at her a lot, or you could say \"allow\" you to do that, but she is not going to meet a hard stare at all. I get the feeling that she is just checking to see what the heck you are up to with your gazing and that is it. Then she will make a decision on whether to hang around or not on that basis. I think it has been oft noted that the eyes \"tell it all.\"
One interesting thing you can do is look at yourself in the mirror (when nobody is around of course). I think somebody mentioned practicing your smile in the mirror. You can check out your eyes as well. They go together, don\'t they? I knew a woman in Boston who had a wonderful smile. (great sense of humor too, by the way). I asked her about it. She recommended practicing in the mirror and said \"it starts with the eyes.\"
Cheers,
Bruce
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