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    first im a complete

    noob with mones. i ordererd chikara unscented with SOE. I wanted to use it on the love of my life. Im 20 years old,

    fairly attractive decent build. Me and her have been friends for a very long time and i know for a fact there is a

    mutual attraction and feelings to each other, the only problem is there is a wall of timid feelings between the both

    of us. The first day i used this i put a spray of soe on my wrist and rubbed it on the other, another on the left

    side of my neck, and one spray of chikara on the right side of my neck. I picked her up one day and she couldnt stop

    talking to me about herself and she was very anxious and fidgety and sitting extremely close to me for the most part

    of the night. it wore off by the end of the night but i was reassured it was working. 2 days from then I decided to

    go with the same combo except apply the chikara later on (i also have been applying it during that two day break so

    maybe i OD'd). We went out to see a live DJ except this time she was somewhat avoiding me (sort of?), i would

    always catch her glancing at me and when i made eye contact she would instantly look away. she even said she was

    going to the washroom and i saw her go off to the top balcony of the venue and start staring at me, i made eye

    contact and she ran away...? later on when the effects wore of she wasnt as distant but from that night she has been

    distancing herself from me and ive felt like ive ruined something that ive worked so hard to build up. What can i do

    to patch things up and get back the meaningful connection we once shared. Any other mones i should try? I was

    thinking beta-nol/liquid trust/my current SOE on its own

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    bump for help

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    you been friends for very long

    time . Maybe thats the problem.
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    chicago may be right. You've

    suddenly introduced a powerful new pheromone signature to someone who knows you very well, and its scaring her. Try

    using SoE on its own, in small doses, and if things get back to normal try the C7 on its own, in small

    amounts.

    It can be very difficult to move from the Friends zone, good luck.


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    Yes, may have used too much too

    soon.

    It seemed to be working. Now she may be getting confused.

    Back off for a while on pheromone use and

    ease into it again slowly. Start with the more social Soe type product.

    Remember less is more, so to speak. You

    may have greater succes with very small amounts of added pheromones. It doesn't take much sometimes. In fact you

    may risk making things worse if you use too much.

    Also remember that you and others may react differently to

    pheromones from day to day, week to week, due to natural body changes. Female monthly cycles can, but not always,

    affect reactions as well. Pay attention and maybe keep a journal or diary. Just don't let her find it...
    The opposite of love isn't hate.
    It's apathy
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    Quote Originally Posted by dudeman View Post
    first

    im a complete noob with mones. i ordererd chikara unscented with SOE. I wanted to use it on the love of my life. Im

    20 years old, fairly attractive decent build. Me and her have been friends for a very long time and i know for a

    fact there is a mutual attraction and feelings to each other, the only problem is there is a wall of timid feelings

    between the both of us. The
    first day i used this i put a spray of soe on my wrist and rubbed it on the

    other, another on the left side of my neck,
    and one spray of chikara on the right side of my neck. I picked

    her up one day and she couldnt stop talking to me about herself and she was very anxious and fidgety and sitting

    extremely close to me for the most part of the night. it wore off by the end of the night but i was reassured it was

    working. 2 days from then I decided to go with the same combo except apply the chikara later on (i also have been

    applying it during that two day break so maybe i OD'd). We went out to see a live DJ except this time she was

    somewhat avoiding me (sort of?), i would always catch her glancing at me and when i made eye contact she would

    instantly look away. she even said she was going to the washroom and i saw her go off to the top balcony of the

    venue and start staring at me, i made eye contact and she ran away...? later on when the effects wore of she wasnt

    as distant but from that night she has been distancing herself from me and ive felt like ive ruined something that

    ive worked so hard to build up. What can i do to patch things up and get back the meaningful connection we once

    shared. Any other mones i should try? I was thinking beta-nol/liquid trust/
    my current SOE on its

    own
    Does SOE come in a spray version now ? or did you transfer it to a spray bottle ect, then how

    many drops per spray would you be dispensing ?
    I AM. Out of my mind .... .... ....

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    I agree with Chicago. Pheromones

    may not help you. There seem to be other issues that are involved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by idesign View Post
    chicago

    may be right. You've suddenly introduced a powerful new pheromone signature to someone who knows you very well, and

    its scaring her. Try using SoE on its own, in small doses, and if things get back to normal try the C7 on its own,

    in small amounts.

    It can be very difficult to move from the Friends zone, good luck.
    are you

    sure?
    im almost certain she has mutual feelings.

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    i was also wondering if that

    night would leave a lasting impression

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    Hi dudeman !

    Strangely it sounds

    like you have to win her trust - although you have known her a long time.

    Ask her what she would really like to

    do/go to & take her out for a day. Once there buy her something she would like - e.g. box of chocolates. Remind her

    that you have known each for a long time & so you can both relax.

    Ask her if she has a favourite cologne on a

    man & (if you like that cologne as well) ask her to help you to choose it. Get her to relax with you by getting

    involved in a easy going atmosphere.

    Just a small spray/dab of SOE on your chest for 'background' support



    Sounds like you have to win her over ...

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