Hello Paul C,
I don\'t think you are doing something all that \"bad\" under the circumstances, but I strongly advise you to break off with your girlfriend first and THEN definitely: go for it dude. Normally, I would say somethng like: sit down and have a talk with your gf about where the realationship is going, about her cheating etc. and see what she has to say, but you seem like a really kind gentle guy, which is great, but I am afraid she is going to manipulate you into maintaining the relationship while she doesn\'t put anything in and cheats on the side. This will force you into cheating too in order to get some genuine affection, and the whole thing becomes a mess. I have seen this type of thing happen before. It often happens in marriages of course for various more serious logistic reasons (not mine btw), but in your case, there is no reason to put all of the people involved thru that mess. Just cut the cord, get the heck out and find yourself a REAL gf!
I wish you courage and good luck,
Bruce
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