Ever Been Busted?

[Peregrine]

Last night I

brought a girl home. On the way to the bedroom I realized my nightstand was covered w/ bottles, droppers gel packs,

ect. I distracted her w/ the dog and flew upstairs to hide the evidence. I'm sure there would have been questions

had she seen them. I was just wondering if anyone has ever been busted using mones.

[Iaskalotof?'s]

Can't say I have, but

what's the big deal? I compare pheromones to make up for women: It doesn't do magic, but it improves your

appearance and helps bring out a better you.

[Rbt]

Can't

say I have, but what's the big deal? I compare pheromones to make up for women: It doesn't do magic, but it

improves your appearance and helps bring out a better you.

In a way you are correct, but be assured most

of the women I know keep the anti-wrinkle creams, heavy concealers, etc well hidden.

It's assumed one uses

makeup, colognes, other grooming products etc. (including hair dye, wigs, tooth veneers), to "improve" one's looks,

but it's not something one "admits" to except in private conversations.

Much is a game to make oneself look as

good as possible while also "looking natural." The best makeup is the makeup no one knows you are wearing.



Pheromones are indeed similar. Enhancements. But not "admitted" to. It seems to be part of human nature to want to

be "fooled." "Do whatever you want to make things look good, just don't tell me..." We are willing to be fooled by

the illusion, just as long as no one tell us how the trick works.

[mc2006]

Rbt, your comparison to make-up

is logical, but I don't think most ppl will put make-up and mones in the same category.
While make-up is so common

that you can see it in any house with a girl living in it, mones aren't so.
And since its not common, i think ppl

will tend to see it as a bit of magic. If I were to date a girl which i was extremely attracted to her, and after

some time (say a month) I found out she were mones, and that's why I'm (possibly) attracted to her - that will get

a much higher reaction from me then if I found out she wore makeup all this time.
Wouldn't you feel the same?

[Gegogi]

I've mentioned mone use to women

many times and most reactions were strongly negative: loser, cheater, perv to invitation for a lawsuit. Trying to

explain how they work and that freewill is still intact is largely a waste of time and will only reveal you as a

hardened mone user. So, yeah, I'd advise caution until you know they can be trusted.

[Rbt]

Rbt, your

comparison to make-up is logical, but I don't think most ppl will put make-up and mones in the same

category.
While make-up is so common that you can see it in any house with a girl living in it, mones aren't so.


And since its not common, i think ppl will tend to see it as a bit of magic. If I were to date a girl which i was

extremely attracted to her, and after some time (say a month) I found out she were mones, and that's why I'm

(possibly) attracted to her - that will get a much higher reaction from me then if I found out she wore makeup all

this time.
Wouldn't you feel the same?

The main point I'm making is here is that (most) "everybody"

uses enhancers when it comes to relationships, whether it be makeup or pheromones. The thing is admitting it.

Supposedly everyone is just a "natural" beauty (makeup) or chemically "well balanced" (pheromones), at least that's

the illusion. We all pretty much "know" that in reality most women (and some men) "cheat" a little with grooming

products, but we all sorta ignore it.

Now pheromones are a little more highly "charged" than makeup, partially

due to the Hollywood portrayals (as in Ocean's 11) so they are a little more "touchy." Maybe something that's

willfully totally ignored and or best left as a deep dark secret (what you don't know about/what they don't know

about never becomes an "issue").

It may not be a big deal to have a table with "common" makeup on it in a

girl's room, but in terms of pheormones, having a table full of pheromones sitting on a table in view of all

especially on an early encounter may be a bit more unexpected and cause more uneasyness. So maybe it's something

that remains "unsaid" and unrevealed. At least until a relationship gets on more permanent ground, and you can feel

confident that your pheromone use won't be a deal breaker.

Plus, let's say you go to visit a girl and one her

nightstand is a pile of cosmetics that look like they are out of a Hollywood special effects shop. It might get you

to wondering just what she's trying to hide. Maybe that cute sweet face you are seeing is just latex and makeup and

underneath... well...

[belgareth]

Plus, let's

say you go to visit a girl and one her nightstand is a pile of cosmetics that look like they are out of a Hollywood

special effects shop. It might get you to wondering just what she's trying to hide. Maybe that cute sweet face you

are seeing is just latex and makeup and underneath... well...

I dated her...ONCE!!! Under the

latex was