It seems many of us get burned before discovering this site (twice for me).
Unfortunately for you there’s not many female posters. (I’m beginning to think we’re scaring them off. If we were a charming group of guys, we probably wouldn’t even need pheromones.) So you’ll have to read way back for female success stories. But I think I have read a number for PI/w.
Good luck & please post your results.
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